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26-29,
*oftballgirl334
writes:It seems like everyone my age is going out. My best friend went out with one of my guy friends. And my other best friend is going out with my best guy friend. I have more guy friends then i have girl friends. I think about sports and I act like one of the guys. But no one has ever asked me out. I don't think I'm fat but i am very tall and fit. But guys don't ever ask me out. They talk about the girls they like. And one guy. Who I had a huge crush on since 6th grade, starts talking to me. I asked him who he liked and he said this girl that is really nasty to me. He asked me who I liked and I said no one. But how can I win him over? Is it even possible?
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reader, FreeAdvice +, writes (4 July 2009):
 Men don't like being beat by a girl at any age. You should be friends with him before you know if you like him enough to be more. Just have fun you're still young =]
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reader, softballgirl334 +, writes (4 July 2009):
softballgirl334 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I just found out that the guy I like and i are now in the same church. We meet every tuesday. We do coumminty service then play running games. Is this a time to show off? Or just remain being friends with him? I need more help
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): If you don't let him know you like him it's unlikely you will win him over. He may like the girl who is horrible to you or he may have been testing your reaction.
The other thing is maybe if you hang around with guys all the time they think of you more as a mate.
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reader, FreeAdvice +, writes (3 July 2009):
I was very much like yourself at your age. I was a tom boy who still prefers spending time with men because women are too catty. I eventually grew out of wearing t-shirts every day and started wanting to spend more time on the way I looked. I still enjoyed sports and getting dirty. You will go through a million crushes until you find the one for you. You're still young and don't HAVE to date yet. Take your time and you will find a young man that enjoys your company as much as you enjoy theirs. There is no rush.
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