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writes: I dated my cousin who is 4 years older than me for a while until he broke up with me for another girl. Then I dated his friend. I just started talking again to a different one of his friends and I realized I like him. I said as much to him and he said in not so many words that he liked me too. Here's the catch: he has a girlfriend. With the way things are going now they're relationship could go either way, they could stay together or break up. I really like him now but I'm not sure if I'm crazy thinking that at some point if they break up he might date me. He said he would date me but at the moment things were confusing and he felt conflicted. So he didn't give me a definite answer. The other thing is that I don't think my cousin would be very happy to find out that we were dating(if we ever did), neither would our parents because of the age difference. So it would be a secret. Is there anyway to make that work?And what should I do about my feelings for him? Thanks for your help!
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reader, love-x-him  +, writes (7 August 2009):
 Ooooh yeahh,, sorry,, hadnt realised that bit.. Still though,, ask him how he realy feels :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe difference is 4 years. I like his friend who is also his age. In fact this is about his friend not my cousin.
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reader, love-x-him +, writes (6 August 2009):
Hey,,
Just wondering ( What's the age differnce ,,) .. Not that it matters hunnie :)
Ive seen you are adopted, therefore he's not your real cousin. You're single, he's not,, if he realy realy likes you, he needs to let his current girlfriend go. There are always relationships which people aren't happy with..
I got with my partner when i was 15, he was 20. There were lots of people unhappy with it. I am now 18 and he is 23 we live in our own house and are as happy as ever.
Like i said, you need to give him the ultimatum. If he realy likes you he will let his partner down gently.
Good Luck HunnieBunch x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm adopted. We're not blood related.
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reader, Farm Girl +, writes (4 August 2009):
 So long as he's attached to someone else, there isn't much you can do. To go meddling in that relationship would be a bad idea, so don't go there.
You dated your cousin????
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