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anonymous
writes:i just wanted some advice, im in this relationship with this guy is been 2 yrs, and im not happy with him we dont do anything but stay home. i work and he doesnt so when i have a day off i go see him but since he is so boring we just stay home smoke weed and i watch him play videos game till late night then we have sex and go to sleep and thats how i spend my day off with him, he doesnt like to go nowhere and he deosnt like for me to anything either b4 him i had friends and we will go clubbing,movies,shopping you know what girlfriends do but eversince i met him and he told me he didnt like for his woman to go clubbing i stopped and know none of my friends call me or look for me cause of him and lately ive been thinking to myself am i happy in this relationship and the answer is no im not but he tells me if i leave him he will stalk me or even kill me so i dont know if i should believe or not?
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (4 August 2009):
You need to leave his ass a.s.a.p. and I say this because he is going to keep you on a mental trip as long as you let him. Who in there right mind would stay with a man that just wants to smoke and play games all day and have sex. If you have to you need to move to another town and just start fresh this way he can't stalk you if he doesn't know where you live. Better yet get a gun and if he comes around trying to hurt you after you leave him shoot the crap out of him and move on. You cannot stay with a man that doesn't work and can't do anything for you. I hope you do what you need to he is miserable and misery loves company. If you had friends why would you let them go for this creep god forbid you end up pregnant then you will be stuck with him for the rest of your life you need to get out now. Buy a Gun now.
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reader, wherestheinstructions?  +, writes (4 August 2009):
You've been in a relationship with a guy you're not happy with for two years and now he's making threats.
Two things
1. Leave him (you're not happy)
but before you do
2. Notify the authorities of the threats - he needs to be made aware that threats are unacceptable and have consequences.
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