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writes:Basically i was sort of seeing this guy a few of months back, and i liked him soooo much, but after like 5 months he treated me like dirt and really hurt me so i dleted him out my life and he didnt seem to care or anything. (I havent stopped liking him, even after no contact)He text me out of the blue a few days ago, asking how i was and saying sorry for being an a** etc etc and just trying to make a converstation with me about this festival.I was an idiot and texted back, and i told him he hurt me and that it dont chnage what he did.But i feel like im back at square one becuase we've texted each other a few times and i feel like i used to, whereas 99% chance hes just genreally being nice becuase why would he want me when loads of girls like him and he goes town and to parties everynightI dont want to be rude and ignore his text if he sends one back, or have him send me one when im trying to move on. so i was thinking of sending him a text syaing something like'i think its really nice youve aplgised, but im stil kinda hurt and its hard tryen be friends with somone you still like, i know i probably sound stupid but i guess i just need space and to meet somone that likes me back. thanks for saying sorry though x'
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): okay dont add the last statement. ITs his duty to apologize, hes not doing you a favor (at least thats what hes supposed to think).think of it this way: iv tried ur best, given all u could to make it work, been nice, at the end of it, if he acts like that, he doesnt deserve you. Seriously. your too precious and you need someone who values you for what you are. why should he have the control, why cant the hold be yours? keep your head high, people come and go, he was just a phase. Watch, your virtues are gonna get you ahead in life, but first, you need to wash your mind empty from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): I would say don't send him anything. Totally ignore his texts too. This way he will get the message that you decided not to have anything to do with him anymore.Guys' mind are different from us girls. The more you say anything..even anything hurtful its still contact to them. The less you make contact is the more hurtful to them. Silence to them is more of a message that you are over them. Just think like they do.I have always proven this to be effective in communicating with them.
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reader, Jewlz  +, writes (4 August 2009):
It sounds like you have your best interests at heart. It's good that you are protecting yourself. It's nice of him to apologise but it doesn't change what went before, so I think that text is a very good way to end contact with him without resentment. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): that sounds like a great text to send him. but you MUST try and stick to it. i know a guy exactly like the one you are describing and time and time again i've let him back into my life only to be hurt again. they don't change. and it's not worth our hearts. good luck!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 August 2009):
That sounds like a great text to send.
Send it and then try HARD to stop thinking about him and think about someone else instead. It can be a guy off a sofa advert. Just try hard to look around and find other guys attractive.
Good Luck!! xx
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