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writes:hello aunts...ive been married for about 8 months now and he's not the husband i married..he doesnt hit me or anything like that. But he was really sweet at first and did everything with and we always had sex everyday. But now all he does is work sleep and play the xbox. We only have sex once a week. It use to be anytime i wanted it. and he lies to me alot about dumb crap. Like he got a surround sound from a friend for 50 bucks and he said he was going to pay the guy today. Well what he told me was the guy it to him. Like i would have got mad or something. How do i stop his lying? We havnt been out on a date in 4 months. We dont even go to mcdonald's together. We never spend any along time together. When hes home and awake hes playing the xbox no matter if i was watching a movie. As soon as he comes in for work or gets up he takes over the tv. And i want to get a job but he doesnt want me too. He's military and we get paid good. We always pay our bills and still have money left. But i would like to get a job that way im out of the house. But i think he thinks im gonna meet a guy or something and end up cheating on him. ***can i get him to be sweet again and not lie to me?Well any advice would help
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reader, Matte  +, writes (4 August 2009):
Or maybe you can get a controller and join in with him =]
maybe you can get some things done together at last!
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (4 August 2009):
 Tell him that he gets rid of the X box or you are gonna go out and get somebody to put their joystick in your box. See how fast he shuts the Xbox off if you say that..SCARE HIM..He is complacent!
people do not change behavior unless they fear losing something...scare the hell out of him.
I do not condone cheating at all, but if your hubby has his mind stuck on that Xbox and the TV it may take an extreme statement to get him to snap out of it and get back in the real world. The mere mention of something like that usually gets people to wake up.
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reader, kaylynn +, writes (4 August 2009):
 Reply for the sex problem:Just out of the blue give him a blowjob. Buy a sex toy or play with yourself and set it up to where he walks in. Just be promiscuous. =]
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