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My parents have split up, what should I do about everything?

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Question - (4 August 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

im 21 years old, i live with my parents for the time being until i graduate school, my parents have been married 29yrs and are very happy, everything is going good.......

This was my life a week ago.

my mom just recently droped a bombshell on me, my sister and more importantly my dad when she told him she wasnt happy anymore and wanted a divorce, since then my dad was missing for 48hours (hes back now), hes very depressed, me and my sister are destroyed because our parents are seperated and its a new thing to go through and a shock! my mom cant afford the house on her own so she is letting it go into forclosure thus making me and her move to a apartment (my sister is 29 and married so she dosent have to move), my best friend of 13yrs lives across the street from me and now we are going to be living further away, and the worst part is that she cant afford to get my dog neutered/shots, security deposit for a dog to live in a apartment plus the extra amount it costs to get a apartment that allows dogs, so she told me that it will cost $500 for deposit, $300 for neuter/shots, plus an extra $200 for the apartment all of which i have to pay because she cant afford, otherwise shes putting him to sleep.

My life was pretty good now it feels like it flipped upside down in a matter of a week or so. I dont feel like myself anymore, it takes alot to make me happy and smile these days, what do i do with everything????

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