How can I tell if he's interested?

Me and my neighbor have always had a thing for each other. We always considered ourselves best friends or good friends. After 6 years of knowing each other we have finally hooked up. However, when he drinks at parties he tends flirts with other girls including my friends in front of me but we somehow usually end up together by the end of the night. We usually both try to ignore each other through out the beginning and most of the night and it can at times be aggrivating. He constantly sends me mixed signals cuing me that he is interested. Its hard for me to figure him out and read his body language but we both play hard to get and are in it for the game. I hate playing mind games and I wish things would not be so complicated. He tells me that he is still young (20 years) and still has a lot of party left in him but that he really cares about me. We both live separate lives but live right down the street from each other. "I have years of schooling for my major and he said that he will be doing his thing." He says that.. which makes me believe that he will be waiting for me. I know I probably analyze the situation too much but before making out and such I avoid the situation and play hard to get. He gives in first and scoops me up before kissing me passionatly. Sometimes I feel shy around him and avoid eye contact and other times i could talk to him for hours without feeling uncomfortable. Does anyone have advice for me or tips on what to look for when a guy is interested?

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