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Do you think this could be my orgasm?

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Question - (4 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and we've been having sex almost as long. However, I don't know if I've ever had an orgasm... Anyways, when I'm on top I can make sure it feels good and sometimes it feels so good I feel like I've got to stop or I'm going to explode. About that time, my legs spasm and I stop for a few seconds, but he keeps going. He says afterwards that around that time it gets super wet, that it was already wet before, but that it gets... super wet. Does that sound like an orgasm?

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (4 August 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntHi sweetness,

This could definitely be an orgasm, but it sounds more like to me that you're right on the brink of an orgasm and perhaps next time, if you keep going, you could REALLY have an explosive orgasm. Don't worry about hurting yourself or anything, the worst that happens is you wear yourself out and you have to slow down. But it sounds like you're close to having a blow-your-mind experience!

Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009):

It could be an orgasm. Or it could be that you get very close to orgasm.

You say you reach a point where you feel like you've got to stop or you will explode. Do you stop? If you do, try NOT stopping! It could be that you get very close to orgasm, which feels really good, but then stop yourself from going "over the edge". So try letting go, try "exploding", and that could be your orgasm, if you aren't already experiencing them!

But I think that everyone will experience these things differently, so as long as you are enjoying it, then you are doing it right. x

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A male reader, NotQuiteWisdom United States +, writes (4 August 2009):

That does sound like an orgasm. That feeling that is really intense like that, you'll know it. I think you probably either have one then or are very very close. Just keep doing what you're doing. If you need anything else you can always message me or anyone else on here. Good luck!

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