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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and I broke up just over a month ago now.we were in a very close and serious relationship, we loved each other very much and always had fun together.we didnt break up because of arguments or cheating, basically its because our relationship would have turned long distance in a few months and i could not handle this due to previous bad long distance experience.we have remained close friends since breaking up, always texting (sometimes more than when we were together) and we still see each other a lot. nothing has happened sexually since the break up.i miss him so much though, and when we hug i always wish he would kiss me and tell me he still loves me.i still care for him deeply and i know he cares about me too, but we have both put on a pretty strong front through all of this and although i miss him as my boyfriend i havent mentioned this to him incase he now prefers us just being friends.part of me wonders whether he feels the same and doesnt want to ruin our friendship even though he still likes me as more than a friend? would he have told me by now though?being in this situation has made me rethink things, i do believe i could give the long distance thing ago, i know i need to tell him this, but im scared of rejection.do you think we still have a chance together from what i have described? and do you think i should tell him how i feel and risk losing him as a friend? thanks
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reader, Summertime08  +, writes (6 August 2009):
I always say its better to have asked then never, then youll know where you stand, and if it needs be you should stop talking to him to get over him. just for a while.
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