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writes:dear all at cupid.this is really about my mate, his gf is expecting there first child together, one thing is im really worried about him, since shes found out shes pregnent shes moved back to other family members,and sent him a text saying all i can think about is me and my baby, as shes lways wanted a baby, and her hormones are really bad, anyway yesterday on the phone when i was with him he said babes i will speak to you later and i love you, but today he said he wouldnt mind right now if they did split up, im also conserned that hes sleeping with other people. he may yes love her but doesnt seem to mind sleeping with other girls, and then he seems to get worried that people would find out about him cheating im not happy with what hes doing but hes my friend at the end of the day He doesnt seem happy to me anymore and would like to help him but dont no what to say or do
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 August 2009):
I think you need to sit him down and have a talk with him.
A mate will be there when it all goes wrong to buy a pint.
A good mate will risk an argument and tell him early on to stop acting like a stupid little moron 14 year old and grow up. He has a baby on the way and he needs to man up and deal with that.
If the relationship with the mother doesn't work out then fine. But he can't go round cheating on her and leading her on.
Tell him to get his head screwed on straight and make his mind up to either be single and a part time dad, or be a decent boyfriend to this woman, treat her right and be a family man.
Yes he'll get angry with you, yes he'll say it's not his fault but you have to try and stop him from messing this up. That's got to be better than watching it go wrong.
Good Luck!! xx
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