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How do I get what's mine and get the hell out of there without getting in trouble?

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Question - (4 August 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 51-59, *adsex319 writes:

i have had failing relationships in the past. i have been married 4 times and i'm only 38 years old. i have a 16 year old daughter who, after 15 years, decided to move in with her daddy, and a 5 year old who loves me uncionditionaly. i recently met a man who has a good strong upbringing... he has a nice house, nice things and my daughter would be brought up in the best schools... the problem is that he constantly wants her at the babysitters and says he needs time for himslef. we spend our hours in his nicely furnished basement watching tv and shitting in a bucket... he doesn't go upstairs either except to clean (his home is worth 1.5 million dollars.) my problem is that i work for his folks, he has all my things in his garage and has saved some 6 thousand dollars of mine in his home for safe keeping... to give to me whenever i wanted it. he now says he dosn't know what i'm talking about (the money) and he has gone on strike "no sex" till i straighten up. My ex husband is in prison... my life is falling apart... i work so many hours to help his folks that i have no time for myself or my kid. what do i do? should i just take the abuse so that my kid will have the kind of life she desirves or live in a camper.... he's made me loose a job already 'cause he got mad at me and he has all my things in his house.. including my money that he's hid. how do i make this right... and if it can't be made right. how do i get what's mine and get the hell out of there without getting in trouble? I have purchased 2 campers, 2 trucks, a car and i've paid all his bills for over a year. he dosn't work, so he feels that my money is my living expenses... please help.

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