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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Am I delusional? He says he wants to marry me. He has seen a therapist for the names he calls me and is trying to stop. I am seeing a therapist because a few months ago the mean names and accusations drew me to a point of making an attempt at my life. Things are supposed to be getting better. Most recently, the tirade is that I am unsupportive of the depression and difficult times he is facing due to unemployment. When he gets angry at life he takes it out on me and apologizes later. He says he wants to marry me every other day and on every day in between says that I am not the woman for him at this moment. My heart breaks every other day. I am speechless. Out of words. Do not know which man I am supposed to believe - him when he wants to be with me or him when he doesnt want to be with me. I am too old for these games. Please help Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): you should leave him because no one should put up with that ok
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