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He's not interested! How do I tell her so I can ask him out?

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Question - (4 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My friend's boyfriend broke up with her the other night. He made it pretty clear her wasn't into dating her, yet she seems to be in denial. I'm not saying she's acting like an idiot, but she believes she will get him back,but I don't know how to explain to her that he wasnt interested in that way anymore? Also how do I know if their break-up is settled" since I plan on asking him out after she's over him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009):

friends come and go but love only comes by once!!

take it while u hve chance!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009):

Original poster here! (sorry, lost the code but found the page)

The thing is she doesn't seem to mind that I find him attractive, or that he hit on me the day before! But I know the whole "chicks before dicks" thing too, and I believe full-heartedly in it, but have no idea what to choose. It's not that I tried to steal him. It's that I've become more attracted to him by the day, and that he's now single and she seems to be fine that I'm attracted and not fine with the tought of someone else with him is sending me mixed signals!

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (4 August 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntDon't get involved in this at all. If you say anything to her and then go after him, she will blame you and your friendship will take a hit. Plus, friend's exes are off limits if you want to keep the friendship.

Find someone else and keep your mouth shut.

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