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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Do we all have a bit of a split personality,or it's just me?I tell my husband ,that I love him, at the same time, I'm reading about divorce advices on the internet.Hm,,Also, I tell him ,sure it is for ever yet I fantasize about living on my own..Also a few years ago ,I had a mayor crash on a younger man, but I never acted on it, yet I tell my husband that he is the love of my life..So am I a complete mess, or is it very general with all of us?Well, I'm also deeply unhappy with my marriage, but I never truly thought about leaving.So am I a player? I know its sounds crazy , but I can't figure out my own state of mind. What is with that?
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reader, straight to the truth  +, writes (4 August 2009):
go read the book "I hate you! dont leave me"
it sounds like you are going through the same problem and this book might shed some light on it. this is a medical condition.
this is abot someone who does things to push their partner away but deep down they love them and dont want to lose them.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): You are not a player neither have a split personality. Everything you wrote, I have heard from lot of married women friends. Noone is perfect.It seems you have been trying to make your marriage work.
But if somethings are bothering you from long time and you constantly feel unhappy, you should tell the truth to your husband and then can go to marriage counselling.Communication is the key.
If all that doesn't work and you are strong enough, then go ahead and get a divorce.Sometime that is the best solution.
But make sure you try all possble ways to find happiness in your relationship so that you won't have regrets later.
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