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What should I do about the guy I met on holiday? He lives far but I want to make this work

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Question - (4 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *adinex0x writes:

So here it goes.

I'm just back from a two week holiday in which i wanted to get away from a breakup back home.

I couldn't wait to go.

When i was on holidays i met this boy just under a year younger than me, we clicked straight away and there was something there from the moment we looked at each other. We really got close on holidays and then saying goodbye to each other was so hard. We keep telling each other now how much we wish we were with each other and how much we miss each other and the thing is we both feel so strong about each other and i know i really really like him. Bad thing is is that he lives down the country like a 4 and half hour drive, but like our parents said we can see each other during holidays and all. Its just i don't know what to do my mum keeps saying its only a summer rommance but me and him both know its so much more, there was something there and i really just want to be with him. Iknow we are both young but some people meet each other this age and are together for life, we got on so well and he feels really strong about me and i about him. I just don't know what i should do anymore, i dont want to give up or let go of this guy or even get over him i can't he mean soO much to me he really does and i miss him so much every day it really hurts because i want to be with him more than anything. Anyone have any advice for me please, because i'm kinda stuck on what i should do would really like someones help.

Thankyou.

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A female reader, hotredhead United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2009):

hotredhead agony auntokay iv'e been here with a guy in the country next to me again a four hour drive. we found a meeting place in between where we live that we could both easily get a train to. He's a year older than me and i felt exactly the way you do. we saw eachother when we could (about once a month) and it was ok. we ended up breaking up in a short space of time because we didn't see eachother enough and things were moving too fast.

This is something to bear in mind because you're spending less time with him things may move faster than they usually would.

I'm not saying long distance can't work but it definitely wasn't for me. But think about finding a meeting place and you can arrange to spend the day together there.

Good Luck and i really hope this works out for you

keep us updated x

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A female reader, Nadinex0x United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2009):

Nadinex0x is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks yeah i get what you mean, ill take it in to consideration. Thankyou.x

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