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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Heya guys,Well to start from the beginning I have a nine month old little boy. My sons biological father left me during the pregnancy as he wasn't ready for fatherhood and couldn't accept the fact I wanted to keep the baby. So i went it alone and braved life as a single mother.Then a few months after my baby I was born I met someone. I certainly wasn't looking for anyone as obviously all that really mattered anymore was being a good mother to Alexander. So it came as a surprise as i found myself getting close to a man again. He was veing accepting my son from the very start and they soon struck up a close bond. The realtionship became very serious and intense pretty quickly. I'd never had such a loving a secure relationship and was very happy. A couple of months later he proposed to me and I said yes. Then soon after that things started to go down hill. It just seemed like he wasn't making an effort with me as much...we didn't seem to have proper conversations and we'd row over silly things. I just put it down to honeymoon period being over - we were still in love and happy.A month or so after things started to go wrong I discovered I was pregnant - something we had planned.Now I am 10 weeks pregnant and things are downright awful.I think alot of it is down to hormones...my moods are all over the place. We row *All the time* constantly. It just feels like that small ridge between us is getting bigger and bigger. I'm findng myself wanting to be alone more and more...I want this baby - but i'm absalutely terified. My head is all over the place and i feel desperate. I think I just need to get away for a few days on my own and try and clear my head...But when I suggest this he gets offended and upset.I Really dont want this realtionship to be over, i'm desperate for things to be sorted out and for us to be a happy family again. But right now I just feel so very unhappy and scared of the future... I've tried to talk to him and tell him all this but things still havn't improved.Our baby is born in march and I'm dreading to think what things are going to be like then if something big doesn't happen to set us back on track.... I really don't want to lose him.Sorry this is so long. and advice would be gretaly valued. Thank you for reading
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