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writes:Boy friend complications its happening all over again..... Now what to do? Please help im scared?Ok, in june I broke up with a guy because he was cheating on me. In may some guy called his law firm and tried to get us fired. I thought it was my ex but my ex said he didn't do it he was in texas at the time and why would he try and get me fired he knows i have a daughter to support. In june a girl came and knocked on my door and said that she was seeing my b/f I didn't believe it at the time i had suspicions it was my ex b/f because he came into town the same day that this girl came to my door. I broke up with this guy and I am now seeing a guy i have been friends with for almost 2 years. We just recently started dating and made it official that we are together. But its happening all over again. A girl called me up a couple days ago and said that she was seeing my now b/f and gave some details of things that i have done with the current b/f. She told me that she over heard him and his friends talking sh*t about me i wont' go into details but it was accurate on things i have done. Anyways I confronted my boy friend about it and he says its all lies he isn't seeing anyone else. I asked him how does this chick know where you live then? and know all these details and know your friends? He said he didn't know, he doesn't know this girl nor ever heard of her before. This is what leads me to believe its my ex boyfriend who just recently moved back from texas. My ex has told me he loves me and wants to be with me back in june. But i told him friends only and thats what we have been to each other. he has not told me his feelings since. I haven't talked to him in 2 weeks but am i just being paranoid with thinking that my ex had a girl call me up telling me this? this is the 2nd time this has happened. My b/f is in a band its what he does for a living and even though he lives with his parents i still care about him very much. I am 28 with a 9 year old daughter. My ex is 29. Well last night i had my car trashed they toilet papered it, flatted my tires and spray painted B*tch, Wh**e, Sl*t all over it. They also painted Sl*t on my apartment door. WTH is going on???When the girl came to my door in june and said she was seeing my boy friend at the time I broke up with him because I found out about another girl he was messing with
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reader, rcn +, writes (4 August 2009):
 You need to call the police, if you haven't done so already. This really needs to be investigated. It seems weird the same thing happening twice. The common element between both times is you. Who is out to make your life miserable? If this was about your ex, it'd stop when he was gone. Since it's still going on, sounds like someone is doing this to drive you nuts.
Get the police involved. At least they can gather evidence, and maybe a mistake whoever did this made, so this can end.
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