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female
age
30-35,
*francy
writes:hey there am going to meet my boyfriend after a quite time but am too worried he might have slept with other women behind my back , i am planing to go for an hiv test before something more intimate between us.. am afraid we might have unprotected sex and i might contract hiv.. i love him so much that i can do everything he demands... please i need an urgent answer before tomorrow 's after noon because thats when we are going to meet up......... am scared he might think am dis trusting him. my good people are out there for me....
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): Has he ever given you a reason to distrust him? Suspicious behaviors in the past? If not, then then maybe you need to build your confidence and start trusting him. If he has cheated on you before, then why are you having a relationship with a guy, you clearly don't trust. That's not healthy and that's not love is it. Sounds like neediness on your part and maybe you need to build your own self-love and confidence to give yourself permission to know...you deserve a wonderful, trusting relationship with another person. If he's never cheated on you, put away these self-defeating thoughts. Trust is the most solid foundation of any healthy love relationship. The trust must definitely be a building block in any good relationship. So you have two choices...
1) relax and stop with the suspicions because that will surely shatter this relationship...or
2) if he is a past cheater and can't be trusted and for a good reason (past history) then go find a guy you can trust wholly and fully.
Take care
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