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*heerleader4life
writes:Well.....I dumped my BF for my EX and well.....he put on his profile that he was single on his website and im jealous cause i still have feelings for him and it seems like i just can't let go of him and i got REALLY jealous and i talked to him about it and he said that he wouldn't get another GF if i didn't want him to but i want him to try to move on 2......how come i don't want him to have a new GF even though i dumped him??PLEASE help!!!!
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reader, Cheerleader4life +, writes (11 August 2009):
Cheerleader4life is verified as being by the original poster of the question I got bac with Tyler cuz Jon is a jerk just needed to get past the flirting the sweet talking and the compliments and i realized that he wasn't the guy i wanted Tyler was so thanks for helping me realize that u guys!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): Because you are female obviously and your emotions run riot.
I have been married 13 years and have split up with my wife 4 times. Everytime it is her that has gone , everytime she has done it on a spur of the moment argument, everytime she didnt really want to do it and everytime she she has come back.Woman crave constant attention I believe and men are just plainly more real life practical (and boring if you want to view it that way).The trouble is 'the grass is greener' just isnt true.Only when you had something and it is gone do you look at what you have lost instead of focusing on what you dont have when it is there.Maybe that is why you went back to you ex in the first place. Simply put you are going to have to decide what you want and why. From my perspective if I was your current BF then taking you back would not be an option if you had left for another man.So maybe you should bear that in mind in future.Best wishes.
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reader, Cheerleader4life +, writes (6 August 2009):
Cheerleader4life is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks but Jon's GF dumped him and now i think he wants me bac
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (5 August 2009):
 Cheerleader,
Take solice knowing that maybe since they showed their true colors that you dont need to be around these type of people or situations. They probably did you a favor by showing their true colors..those are people you dont need.
As corny as it sounds coming from an old fart like me, you really have in this life only 1 shot at being a kid. Go out and be a kid while you can. Adulthood is way over rated.
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reader, Cheerleader4life +, writes (5 August 2009):
Cheerleader4life is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everybody but Jon dumped me yesterday 4 another girl i kno Tyler wants me bac but....i think im just gonna stay single 4 a while to much drama lol but idk thank u to EVERYBODY!
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reader, Cheerleader4life +, writes (4 August 2009):
Cheerleader4life is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno im not i just don't kno how to pick Jon or Tyler
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reader, Cheerleader4life +, writes (4 August 2009):
Cheerleader4life is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmrshamilton thanks eveybody but i kno Tyler loves me and he's the one i dumped i love talking to him he is nce sweet and Jon the one im with now doesn't want anybody to kno that were together like in his fam. and he is also nice sweet and i like talking to him but me n Tyler have chemistry and history behind us from the moment we met i loved him and i still do.....I told Tyler that he could have another GF but he said he doesn't want to cuz the only girl he wants is me......It kinda makes this harder 4 me is wat i think.... Anymore advice??? cuz if u have some it would come in handy
Thanks, Cheerleader4life
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (4 August 2009):
Young lady, its simply the age you are at.
Its natural to have second thoughts about our decisions?
I just had a second thought that maybe I should not have put my boot in the eye of that gangbanger who lives down the street this afternoon. lol
But its natural when you dump someone that for a spell you wish them to be miserable. THATS WHY ITS CALLED DUMPING!
When you break up with someone you hoe they can move on.
When you dump someone you want them to F off and die.
For if they begin dating again, it shows that they are at least trying to move on, and that you become less and less important to that person. Its a catch 22 that only living life a few more years will solve. Its no big deal and it will happen a million times all over the world by the time you are done reading this post.
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reader, angelbbabe7490 +, writes (4 August 2009):
 You freshly broke up with him so it is normal to still have mixed emotions and feelings for him. However, if you are not satisfyed with the relationship and have the desire to move on to other things you MUST let him do the same as well. It is not fair to keep him waiting for something that may never happen again. Stop sending mixed signals and if you feel as if your relationship is over move on with your life and let him move on as well. Good luck.
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reader, mrshamilton  +, writes (4 August 2009):
 cos you obviously love them both so you'll have to decide which one you want to be with the most.do the old writing thing!!
write down all advantages and disadvantages of going out with your ex and the boy you dumped!
personally i think the one you dummped must love you is he sed he wouldn't get another gf if you don't want him to!!
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reader, busy04 +, writes (4 August 2009):
 You my dear need to make up your mind!
Your actions fall under the category of selfish...you might not want to hear this but it's the truth!
Get over yourself. You left him, he didn't leave you & if you really wanted him then you should have stayed with him in the first place. It's selfish of you to have a new boyfriend and then to get jealous because of a profile that said his status was single. You want him to move on, but you're the one who needs to move on, it was wrong of you to even talk to him about his profile saying single, when you made him that way: single! Deal with your own attitude & let that young man do what he wants.
On the other hand, if you really want him back then do what needs to be done & hopefully he'll take you back. Just make sue that you're going back for the right reasons & not for selfish gain, he has feelings too and they shouldn't be played around with. He deserves to have someone in his life just like you!
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