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writes:I am not sure why but I am a guy with very very high sex drive. Normally i would make love 5-6 times a day and if i am really happy and things are going the way I want, maybe like 8 times. But I am concerned about something that is killing my mind too. I do not live with my gf and we make love like after every 4-6 days. I masturbate in between and sometimes I do it a lot. My question is: Is it good to masturbate a lot? I mean I like to watch porn and do it and sometimes without it but on a typical day I would masturbate like 3-4 times. I want to have more natural and mind-blowing sex with my gf and want to stop this masturbation. I have tried and after 1 day of having sex with her I again start to get horny and want her so bad but since it is not possible for us to have sex everyday I end up masturbating. I need advise on how to avoid masturbating. I really do not want to do it and want to play with my girl. Please advise!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): It is neither the womans nor the mans 'responsibility' to keep their partner happy. To say that it is your lady's responsibility to make sure you are satisfied sounds somewhat self-centered. If you truly are 'making love' as you said, then love should be a at the core of all the things you and her enjoy in the bedroom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe are financially stable but not married yet. She lives with her parents and has job on weekends and I am off on weekends. Many a times her job gets over at 10pm and she gets so tired that she doesn't even eat dinner..I am really getting frustrated because I am getting deprived of something I crave for..HER!! She understands but become cold most of the times when i tell her that I am going so horny. Girls am I wrong? Isn't it her responsibility to make sure that i am "happy" and satisfied. Many a times she does not let me do things I love to do to her..like sucking on boobs (i am a boob addict/freak)..she would let me play/suck them for 1-3 mins and then starts to take them out of my mouth..but i just CANNOT think of anything other than boobs...she doesn't understand...what should i do about all this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): How did you find time to have sex 8 times a day ? How long does it take you to cum each time ? Masturbation is very normal, I know we all prefer to have sexual intercourse but if it's not possible we have to settle for something less pleasurable (still fun though). You should move in together or get married so you can do it everyday. Again, nothing wrong with masturbation, enjoy it ok.
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