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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone,I have just started hanging out with a guy and there is real chemistry between us. The other night tho he was teasing me that one of our friends said I liked him and I got defensive. He basically made me feel like a stalker coz he doesn't like me back. Then last night he was telling me all of the little things I do that he notices, like the way I hold his hand or brush my bangs away, then admitted he liked me from the start, then he kissed me and things went further. I dont kno if he truly likes me tho or just wanted to have sex with me, thats why he said it. I have to see him at school tomorrow and now I dont know how to act around him.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (4 August 2009):
 There is no way of telling to be honest! Its unlikely he will have said all those nice things if he is only after sex but then again some guys are good at putting on an act in order to get a girl into bed!
I suppose you should just act normal and see how he acts around you. You are only hanging out so its not like a boyfriend/girlfriend situation just yet, so just act like you would around any of your friends! Dont ignore him, make sure you say hi and be friendly etc but just dont be too touchy feely or anything like that.
You dont need to worry about where this relationship is going for the time being - at the moment you are just hanging out and enjoying each other's company so just leave it at that for now. His intentions will soon become clear once you have spent more time together!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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