Should I tell my lover's wife her husband is a philandering fink?
Q. hi there i thought i was the only woman who is involved with a married man but it seems there are out many out here and i wish someone can help me. we works for different companies, then texted, emailed, he sent me flowers, chocolate and w...
A. 10 December 2009: Sorry but you haven't changed my mind on what you should do. You are seeking vengence at the expense of his wife. You think you will be teaching a lesson, that he will shape up because of you blabbing to the wife. Nonsense. If you want to show some ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with a beautiful woman hitting on my husband 1000 miles away?
Q. I'm at my wits end. I'm trying to be rational but the emotional side is winning. I need help! I'm trying to keep a long story short, so please be patient. My husband took a temporary job for 8 weeks that is 1,100 miles from our home. The owner ...
A. 9 December 2009: You go girl and let us hear about it when you get back!... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of my boyfriend's anatomy!
Q. So recently I realized that I'm constantly feeling envious of my boyfriend's sex organs. I don't know what to do, it is a constant obsession that actually interferes with my life. I'm incredibly satisfied in bed, always, and have an orgasm every ...
A. 9 December 2009: Freud would have had a hay day with you. I think you will need some therapy if this whole penis envy stuff makes you so angry. Something is off kilter here and only a professional can help you get a handle on it. Double check on your resources, ... (read in full...)
Why do people hate virgins so much?
Q. Why do people hate virgins so much? What did we ever do to be treated the way we are? It just isn't right.I never criticize my friends decision to have sex,so why cant they just respect my choices.It's not as if I'm some kind of saint constantly ...
A. 9 December 2009: BimBim is exactly right, do you walk around with a badge that proclaims "VIRGIN"? How else does anyone know whether someone is a virgin unless they blab about it? And really who even cares? Nobody hates virgins because everyone has been one at some ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my lover's wife her husband is a philandering fink?
Q. hi there i thought i was the only woman who is involved with a married man but it seems there are out many out here and i wish someone can help me. we works for different companies, then texted, emailed, he sent me flowers, chocolate and w...
A. 9 December 2009: I think you should just stop ALL communication with both of them. Don't take his calls, don't respond to his texts, and don't call his wife. You vanish from their lives completely. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and most importantly,realize you ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to leave me alone!
Q. Right. There's this guy who i met last year, and he is OBSESSED with me! I've tried to get him to stop texting me, as im with someone i love very much. He keeps saying he loves me, then when i say i dont feel the same he calls me horrible things. ...
A. 8 December 2009: Tell your parents.... (read in full...)
Does my girlfriend love or hate me?
Q. umm .. i am a male aged 24 and i have just recently got my first girlfriend at age 23. my girlfriend lives in a forain country at this time. although i have not physically met her i still love her. i have many problams with anxiety and stress t...
A. 8 December 2009: Online romances are sort of whacked just by their very nature. How can you possibly say you are in love with someone you haven't physically met? And by the way if someone calls you a broken record , it is never a good thing. Why not try and go out ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me? I feel I am being mentally abused by my wife and I don't know where to turn
Q. I'm lost........... I am a 37yr old male who has been married for 5-1/2 years been with my wife for 8 years. We have a beautiful 2-1/2 year old daughter who is my life and soul. I am stuck in a spot where the only thing right now in life is what ...
A. 8 December 2009: Okay I guess at this point after reading your follow-ups that it's time for a separation. Can you afford an apartment and still pay the mortagage? If so do it, if not is there family or friends you can move in with for awhile? I think the mind ... (read in full...)
Anyone have any ideas on how me and my boyfriend can improve my self esteem?
Q. I have no self esteem, because of past relationships, and I just found out I like to dominate, but there's only one problem. It doesn't feel normal to me to dominate during sex because I'm female. I know it's because my self esteem is pretty much ...
A. 8 December 2009: Google self-esteem and you will see lots and lots of sites or go to a bookstore, there are lots and lots of books on the subject. And like the sister said, this is YOUR project not your boyfriend's.... (read in full...)
Should I be angry because I was not invited to my friends party?
Q. hello today a friend of mine was having a party and she invited everyone accept me.i felt hurt and my other friend who got invited said i dont deserve to go and also was saying some nasty things and untrue things about me to another mate of mine. i...
A. 8 December 2009: I agree you need to find some new friends, the ones you have suck. Friends should make you smile and feel good about yourself.... (read in full...)
Is he just telling me that or does he just not love me and is with me for the sex??
Q. Everytime I tell my boyfriend I love him or I miss him he seemed to get unconfortable, so I asked him why and he said he feels its too soon. We went out for a year lat year and when we were going out last year we told each other we love each other ...
A. 8 December 2009: Stop with the sex and see if he still wants to hang out. You'll have your answer.... (read in full...)
Should I get him a Christmas present?
Q. Ok so, this guy and I haven't been going out very long, but I've never felt like this about anyone before. Since christmas is coming up, I wanted to get him something, but I don't know if that would be awkward for him? I am only 13 and he's almost ...
A. 8 December 2009: Get him some cologne. Are your parents okay with you dating a 16 year old? Do they actually let you go out on a date at 13?... (read in full...)
How do I deal with a beautiful woman hitting on my husband 1000 miles away?
Q. I'm at my wits end. I'm trying to be rational but the emotional side is winning. I need help! I'm trying to keep a long story short, so please be patient. My husband took a temporary job for 8 weeks that is 1,100 miles from our home. The owner ...
A. 8 December 2009: I agree, if you can swing the cost of a round trip ticket, I'd go for a visit. If you can't then I would at least try to relax and trust the hubby. Maybe some hot phone sex would be beneficial. And make this a Christmas he'll remember for years to ... (read in full...)
Monster in law
Q. How do i deal with a monster mother in law ?...
A. 8 December 2009: We need more info. What makes her a monster?... (read in full...)
16 Years later our feelings for each other hasn't changed - but he's married
Q. Just to let you all know, this is pretty long. And it's not one of those questions where the answer is right there in front of me. So I need some outside sources. There might be some people who have had a similar situation as I am having now. So ...
A. 8 December 2009: You are playing with fire and you are the one who will be burnt. You may respect his marriage right now but he sure doesn't. You say that he told you one of the reasons he went ahead and got married was because he didn't think he would ever see you ... (read in full...)
Quick advice needed - how do I handle our date tonight?
Q. advice needed asap!!! ok here goes iv recently posted a question about why my man is ignoring me .... the thing is im going to see him tonight. well im hoping hes out. what i want to know is how to handle my situation. what can i say withou...
A. 8 December 2009: Great! Slow and easy wins the race.... (read in full...)
Spermicides in the old days, back in the 70s
Q. My partner recently told me that in 1971 when her guy of the day saw that sexual intimacy was on the cards,he suggested the use of a spermicidal vaginal tablet for temporary use. She wasn't using anything at the time. STD's were not the issue th...
A. 7 December 2009: I used only foam spermicide until my husband's vacetomy and was able to space my three kids at two years apart. But my daughter just told me she's pregnant and she used spermicide AND a condom. So go figure. ... (read in full...)
Are there any men who have gone through this? Is he not in love with me anymore?
Q. My fiance and I would have been celebrating our 5th year together in December but in October he tells me that he feels like something is wrong with him, he thinks its an early mid-life crisis (he's 33), something is missing in his life, he feels ...
A. 7 December 2009: Oh I'm so sorry you are suffering especially during this time of year. I think that you have to realize there is nothing you can do at this point except to leave him alone. If he needs you he will let you know. Try to stay as busy as you can, do ... (read in full...)
Quick advice needed - how do I handle our date tonight?
Q. advice needed asap!!! ok here goes iv recently posted a question about why my man is ignoring me .... the thing is im going to see him tonight. well im hoping hes out. what i want to know is how to handle my situation. what can i say withou...
A. 7 December 2009: How was your date?... (read in full...)
How do I find the RIGHT kind of woman...?
Q. I'm a 25 yr old from India and work as a software engineer. I'll be moving to the US for grad school (Computer Science) soon (by Jan 2010 or Jun 2010). I've had a pretty interesting and different childhood. I've got an extremely strong interes...
A. 7 December 2009: I agree with your friends, you are an over-planner. You are still very young, why not just relax and enjoy grad school? You'll meet girls if you get involved with the campus activities. Allow yourself to have some fun while you are footloose and ... (read in full...)
Do you think he wants to be more than just friends?
Q. I am a freshman in high school, and this boy has been a little flirt lately, he will hug me, touch me, just be so sweet around me. Well, I thought it was just him but we had a 3 1/2 hour bus drive and he sat next to me and well we talked and I had ...
A. 7 December 2009: I think he likes you.... (read in full...)
He's always trying to use me for sex... but could it be different this time?
Q. I have known this guy for about 4 or so years...he has always been the guy to usually want some..he's had girlfriends and such in these years but whenever they would break up he would always come talking to me again..usually wanting to hook up or ...
A. 7 December 2009: Sounds like you have been giving him more than "a little something". Knock off the sex next time he comes a calling and see if he hangs around or calls you again.... (read in full...)
Is there any hope that she might come back?
Q. Me and my ex fiancee broke up after over four years. We were engaged for about three years and living together for two. We had some problems, but nothing we could not have fixed. To cut a long story short, somebody popped up on Facebook a few m...
A. 7 December 2009: I agree with Razor, I'd be saying "Whew that was a close call" if I were you. Goodybye to bad rubbish.... (read in full...)
My husband and best friend text daily M-F, should I be worried?
Q. I just found out that my husband and my best friend have been communicating via text message pretty much everyday Mon. - Fri.. I knew they texted a lot and I am O.K. with that. Sometimes he'll come home and tell me what they texted about that day, ...
A. 7 December 2009: If I were you I'd keep my name as your operating system's motto.... (read in full...)
If you're not dating a guy, how far is too far?
Q. If you and a guy start talking and yournot going out yet, how far is tooo far? Are you aloud to make out with him or go farther? Or should you wait until your going out. Should you hold of to give a blowjob or have sex? HELP!...
A. 7 December 2009: What's wrong with just giving him a pretty smile until you start dating?... (read in full...)
I need some tips about sex and erections!
Q. so my girlfriend and i are planning to have sex christmas time. i'm worried about it though cuz lately i havent been getting my usualy 5 and a half erections that are strong, i keep getting like just 5 semi hard. she gets me semi hard by dry humping ...
A. 7 December 2009: I suggest you eat lots and lots of waffles before Dec 18, preferably blueberry.... (read in full...)
What is the average age people get their first kiss?
Q. what is the average age people get there first kiss i think theres this social status there such as "go for it perverts?age 12-13'' ''mr. popular age 12,13. ''not losers but not popular 13,14 ''losers 'nerds' 15,16. tell me if im wrong im probably ...
A. 7 December 2009: If a person is lucky, it would be the first moment you are placed in your mother's arms.... (read in full...)
Girls - do you think this means she's falling for me??
Q. I really need some sensible answers from the ladies out there as I have to be very careful how I handle this if I may be reading things correctly. My best friend is female, two years younger than me. I have always had close female friends s...
A. 7 December 2009: So how do you feel? Would you like to be more than just friends?... (read in full...)
Should I recommend her to divorce???
Q. My best friend suffered a lot cos her husband cheated on her and passed onto her a sexually transmitted disease. Now she's found somebody and they ocasionally have sex and she's thinking about divorce as her husband never apologised and doesn'r ...
A. 7 December 2009: If she asks your opinion I'd definitely recommend a divorce, but only if she asks for your advice.... (read in full...)
I think it's time to stop lying and fess up!
Q. To get to the point he's 26, I'm 16. We've been [secretly] dating for over a year and out of paranoia(if that makes sense), I've never told my parents. He's my mother's best friend's son and helps my father out a lot. So there's a lot of trust g...
A. 7 December 2009: If you were my daughter here's what you could expect:
Anger and disappointment that you been sneaking around and lying.
Loss of privileges for awhile.
Total cessation of this relationship until you reach the age of 18.
If you are living under you... (read in full...)
Is he a player?
Q. I have been seeing this guy at the gym like everyday for nearly 2 months now. He's really cute and I went to middle school with him, but he didn't recongnize me (thank god!) and we never had classes together or talked in middle school. I started ...
A. 7 December 2009: Some guy who doesn't even know your name at the time, asks you to make out with him and you want to know if he's a player? Jeese Louise. Wait for him to grow up then see if you are still interested.... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and want to have sex.
Q. me and my bf have bin dating for two months now and we done stuff and he whats to do more as in sex... but i dont know if i should i am 14 but i feel ready and i really do care about this guy we have bin dating on and off for over 7 years now i ...
A. 5 December 2009: Dating at 7, wants sex at 14, this will be our poster child for burnout in about 5 years.... (read in full...)
How does hypnosis "fractionation" work?
Q. How EXACTLY does the hypnosis "fractionation" work? How exactly could you seduce a girl with it? What are some examples of this type of seduction? ...
A. 5 December 2009: This isn't seduction this is rape.... (read in full...)
Why did he change his mind about getting married?
Q. Both of us have been married twice, we have been together 2 yrs and known each other for 8+. When we first got together we both wanted the same thing to get married again one day but now 2 yrs later he is saying that he doesn't want to do it again. ...
A. 4 December 2009: He might change his mind and he might just decide that twice married twice shy. The important thing is whether you can accept and be content with his decision one way or the other. If you truly want and need that ring on your finger then you might ... (read in full...)
Am I related to my boyfriend in anyway if his uncle married my half-sister?
Q. am i related to my boyfriend in any way if his uncle married my half sister?...
A. 4 December 2009: Not blood related and that's the important thing.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he initiate sex with me, after the many times I have slept over at his house?
Q. Why wouldn't a guy have sex with his girlfriend? I've slept over at my boyfriends house countless of times, but he has never tried anything. We sleep together in his bed, spooning or cuddling, and just kiss or even make out but after that it's ...
A. 4 December 2009: If you are too shy to talk to him about this then your relationship isn't ready for sexual activity yet. Communication is essential. Next time you are alone have a nice chat about this.... (read in full...)
I have never been the other woman. I just want him in my life and never want to lose him again. What do I do?
Q. I met a man named Zack 8 years ago from a mutual friend. We have been best friends since that day. Zack and I have never once said or implied taking our relationship to another level. However, he kissed me out of the blue 5 years ago but pulled away ...
A. 4 December 2009: You bet he has too much on the line, he's got two women on his line. Ask him what exactly does he see your position to be in the future. If you are not important enough for him to end things with his fiance then you need to gracefully bow out the ... (read in full...)
He called me by his pet name, does that mean he still cares?
Q. Hello, I broke up with a man about six months ago. We broke up to his sexually performance problem (health related). We see each other on a semi-regular basis (travel in the same circles due to my child's hobby). We have been able to stay fri...
A. 3 December 2009: You broke up because he has ED? Did you do it or did he?... (read in full...)
Should I go with my husband to view his dead friend?
Q. My hubby's friend died and his viewing is tonight. He hasn't asked me directly to go with him, but when I ask him if he wants me to go, he says "I dont care, you can go if you want. What should I do?...
A. 3 December 2009: Duty calls my dear.... (read in full...)
Is this what a normal relationship is like?
Q. Hi, I have been in love with my BF about 2 years +, I feel my relationship is not normal. He is a White guy and he is a Boss of one factory in asian (Switzerland), I am Asian girl (Chinese), he always told me their culture in Switzerland is d...
A. 3 December 2009: He's using your body and your pocketbook. There is absolutely no respect here. I'm sorry you care for this jerk but you need to force yourself to move up and on. You know deep down in your heart that this just isn't the way things should be. Good ... (read in full...)
Been in love with this woman for 19 years and I still don't have her!
Q. Help I have been in love with a women for 19yrs. It was love at first sight but I was involved with someone and she ended up with a good friend of mine.The four of us hung now and then we both always got accused of wanting the other one. Nothing ...
A. 2 December 2009: Damn, I had to read this novel just to find out at the very end you don't want to hear the only logical advice. I'll whisper it anyway since you made me read all of this, time to cut bait, Buddy.... (read in full...)
Is this emotional abuse from my sister?
Q. hey, since i was born (20 yrs ago) my sister hasnt liked me at all, my mum says she was jealous when i was born, she's 24, aka 4 years older then me, ever since i can remember she has beaten me up, my first memory is when i was about 3 years ol...
A. 2 December 2009: My kids would get into fights and I would step in when things looked like someone was getting the wrong end of the stick. Your parents should have done the same but they didn't and it's over now. Try not to let it affect your relationship with your ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son!
Q. My dilema is that I am currently 38 1/2 weeks pregnant and I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son. He says he does not want to see anything and will just stay up north during the ...
A. 2 December 2009: He is fearing the unknown, I'm sure he'll do fine. There's always a nurse who keeps a close eye on the Dads.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son!
Q. My dilema is that I am currently 38 1/2 weeks pregnant and I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son. He says he does not want to see anything and will just stay up north during the ...
A. 2 December 2009: I've only seen my husband of 33 years cry 5 times, two were at the deaths of his parents, and three were when our three kids were born. I'm of course assuming those tears were from joy and not from disgust or loathing at what he was witnessing and I ... (read in full...)
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