Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 8 February 2010: I meant I'll see you when you get this out of your system and you're done blowing in the wind.... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 8 February 2010: Ok kiddo see you on the other side... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 8 February 2010: Okay who's been pouring the caffeine down ML's throat today????... (read in full...)
What to do with the engagement ring after breaking up?
Q. Hi! I was engaged 5 years back, and he got me a diamond engagement ring. Things didn't go well and we split up, but I kept the ring when we moved apart. We did have a small discussion about it, but he said he wanted to wear it and I didn't like the ...
A. 8 February 2010: I'd just send it back to him with a brief note saying you came across it in your jewelry box and thought he might want it back. Don't give him any more information.... (read in full...)
How can I stop being so jealous and why am I so jealous with my boyfriend?
Q. Hello, I am sooooo jealous with my boyfriend, and I dont know why. I Have never been jealouse with any of my past boyfriends. I started being jealous with this boyfriend at the 5 month mark I'd say. We've been together for 9 years now. And I get so...
A. 8 February 2010: So q, do you or don't you agree with what bharat has said?... (read in full...)
How can I stop being so jealous and why am I so jealous with my boyfriend?
Q. Hello, I am sooooo jealous with my boyfriend, and I dont know why. I Have never been jealouse with any of my past boyfriends. I started being jealous with this boyfriend at the 5 month mark I'd say. We've been together for 9 years now. And I get so...
A. 8 February 2010: I'm pretty sure I'm with bharat on this one....... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has an anger problem and I'm worried about my unborn child
Q. im pregnant and worried about by boyfriends anger. been to the doctor as he has hit me in the stomach and i am worried bout hurting my baby. my friends say i should leave him! i don't know what to do. please help ...
A. 8 February 2010: Fine, stay with the guy, I mean at least you have 5 days out of 7 that you don't have to fear for your and/or your baby's life. Who cares that he's wandering around knocking up other women? At least you know that when he there beating you up 2 days ... (read in full...)
What do you men really find a sexy attribute in a woman you want to go long term with?
Q. Hi so I'm wondering... I'm a nice looking girl so I've been told. I've been in a long relationship now and still happy but curious so a question for the guys. What do you men really find a sexy attribute in a woman you want to go long term with? ...
A. 8 February 2010: My husband says cooking ability is very important.... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 5 February 2010: Ahhhh the hole tree!
OP- You're not being squirrelly just nuts for risking your reputation and being branded a sappy tree-hugger. That kind of thing will stick you my man. Knock it off.... (read in full...)
Do men only cheat when they feel like less of a man?
Q. Is it true that men only cheat when there girldfriends make them feel like less of a man?...
A. 5 February 2010: A man (or woman) cheats because they have no honor or integrity, pure and simple. People who do have honor and integrity end a relationship before starting a new one. ... (read in full...)
My husband and I are separated but he is seeing another girl... is there any hope?
Q. My husband and I are separated. We both worked through these issues on our own but now he met another girl. I'm due in April with our first child and he came up to the hospital yesterday because I was in preterm labor. His car is broken so he had no ...
A. 5 February 2010: What were those issues that caused the separation?... (read in full...)
Should I try and start a relationship with him despite the age difference making it illegal?
Q. This is something I really need help with. I'm only 15 and I'm very interested in a 21 year old. Yes, I completely understand it's illegal but do laws bury my feelings for someone? No. We've yet to begin a relationship but we've already had sex. Now ...
A. 5 February 2010: Jump to conclusions because you've already had sex before you even were in a "relationship"? Jump to conclusions because he's 21 and you are only 15? Jump to conclusions because all this has been going on behind the backs of your loving families? ... (read in full...)
I've had sex - if I tell the doctor I haven't, will it make a difference?
Q. My mums putting me on the pill soon seen as I'm neary 16 and I've been with my boyfriend 2years. The thing is, we've already had sex a few times. So if the doctor asked me if I was already "sexually active" and I lied and said no because my mum was ...
A. 4 February 2010: The HPV vaccine is most effective on girls who haven't had intercourse so your doctor will want to know if you have. You will most likely get the shot but he should know just in case.... (read in full...)
Would going out with someone as young as 14 be wrong? And how would I approach him?
Q. Here is my Dilemma. I am in my first year of sixth form at the moment, and we still mix quite a lot with the lower school kids. About a few months ago I started noticing this boy, first i thought ' hmmm hes nice' and now im thinking ' omg hes gorg...
A. 3 February 2010: Ask his parents if your dating their son would be with their approval.... (read in full...)
The Etiquette of Casual Sex!?
Q. I would appreciate only responses from people who are not going to offer their own moral judgements on the following situation... Recently, I experimented with one of the 'casual dating websites' - no really seriously at first, but then I start...
A. 3 February 2010: wham bam thank you ma'am... (read in full...)
I have never had a gf I don't think I have the courage to ask any one out... can some one help me?
Q. ok well im 13, atheist, and i have grown up closer to girls than guys, so i know alot more about jr. high/ early highschool feelings and though processes than most other guys (yes i grew up with a single mother) i have one friend that is ...
A. 3 February 2010: Ask one of them to the next high school basketball game. Oh....and shut up, q.... (read in full...)
My husband told me by the end of the year he plans to be single.
Q. My husband and i went out to a work function Saterday evening he got upset. Beacause i gave wrong directions and we both did not know the place. How ever i did mail the invatation card to him 2Days before with the directions. Now that night he told ...
A. 2 February 2010: Beat him to the punch, kick him to the curb before the end of the year. It's time to end your slavery and get a life of your own. And take him for every penny you can. You won't regret it I promise.... (read in full...)
What do men think about a woman moving in with them?
Q. What do men truly think about a woman moving in with them? Does it reduce "the chase"? Does it reduce the chances of asking her to marry you? Do men see it as "Why buy the cow when you're already getting the milk for free"? would you...
A. 2 February 2010: I'm definitely on the fence about this one. I guess it just depends on the guy, he may decide that yeah the milk's there why pay for it, but then again the little monkey's right, it certainly is nice to know what you are getting yourself into before ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my husband wear his wedding ring?
Q. My new husband is always forgetting his wedding ring. It drives me crazy and a little offended as well. I asked him if he doesn't want to wear it and why, he says that thats not it and I don't believe him. Why do you think he doesn't wear it?...
A. 2 February 2010: My son's skin reacts to certain metals so wearing jewelry can be uncomfortable. My husband has gone through two weddings rings, one just cracked one, got caught in one of his tools and almost cost him a finger, now he only wears it on the rare ... (read in full...)
Her bad attitude cause me to break up with her, did I make the right decision?
Q. me and my girlfriend were together for about 7 months. I decided to end it last night because i feel like enough is enough. Every time i go out into town she has a problem with it, she is off with me when im in town and off with me the day after...
A. 2 February 2010: I think you did the right thing, she wasn't making you happy. It's great that you didn't waste too much time on a relationship that wasn't going anywhere and was bringing you down. Some people were just not meant to be together. You actually may ... (read in full...)
I am supposed to get married in 2 1/2 months but I just got my sister in law pregnant!
Q. hi im master splinter . in about 2 and a half months im getting married BUT THERE IS ONE THING i need to get of my chest its my sister inlaw to be well about 2 weeks ago my girlfriend went into hospital to give birth to our 2 child . i was there at ...
A. 1 February 2010: Who's the British Jerry Springer?... (read in full...)
Sometimes a peach can have too much syrup and it doesn't mean the tree is getting too much water.
Q. Well I am in a s*load of trouble over a relationship I had with my boss at work. I handled the whole thing badly and it blew up in my face. I tried to get some advice on this problem the other day but my question wasn't posted because it was d...
A. 27 January 2010: I think you are SOL, guess you'd best start looking for another fruit grove.... (read in full...)
She was a virgin and I was a virgin, I lied about being a virgin and she found out. What do I do?
Q. Hello, I met this girl and we hit off, we became really close freinds and had a strong connection emotionally. She told me she had been sexually abused as a child by her father and had a boyfreind for 4 yrs, because i was a 23 year old virgin and ...
A. 27 January 2010: She sounds like a whack job, totally over the top about all this. I think you will find yourself very fortunate to have escaped. You may not feel that way today but I'm sure you will down the road a bit.... (read in full...)
She was a virgin, I told her I wasn't a virgin when I was, now she wont speak to me.
Q. Hello, I met this girl and we hit off, we became really close freinds and had a strong connection emotionally. She told me she had been sexually abused as a child by her father and had a boyfreind for 4 yrs, because i was a 23 year old virgin and ...
A. 27 January 2010: You posted this yesterday didn't you like your responses?... (read in full...)
Our date was on thursday and today its tuesday and he hasn't contacted me. why is that??
Q. i went out on a date with this guy and everything seemed to go very very well. the chemistry was there, we were laughing and had a really good time. probably the best date i ever had. we really clicked. he also kissed me first. and i think he had a...
A. 26 January 2010: I wouldn't contact him. It's not even been a week yet. You texted him as per his request so now the ball is in his court.... (read in full...)
How can I just be more happy in our relationship?
Q. hey there alright well my bf and i almost broke up last night because him and i just havent been getting along lately...like we always fight i dont have much trust for him he says i dont make him happy and he dont treat me like a gf should be treat...
A. 26 January 2010: You know that not all relationships are meant to be, right? Sometimes if a relationship requires so much work, it just isn't worth it. Maybe you guys should just play the field for awhile. Being single can be lots of fun, especially at your age.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't swallow. Can I talk her around to seeing it my way?
Q. hiya, I was just wondering. I have been going out with my gilfriend for 3 years and I really want her to swallow my cum. Are there any ways in whichI can get her to do this? Thanx...
A. 26 January 2010: Wow this is an old chestnut! A blast from the past....... (read in full...)
She was a virgin and I was a virgin, I lied about being a virgin and she found out. What do I do?
Q. Hello, I met this girl and we hit off, we became really close freinds and had a strong connection emotionally. She told me she had been sexually abused as a child by her father and had a boyfreind for 4 yrs, because i was a 23 year old virgin and ...
A. 26 January 2010: That shows her reverse thinking on this matter, everyone knows it's harder to bed a virgin than someone who's been around the track a few times. So her saying you would think she's an easy lay because she's a virgin is preposterous. She sounds like ... (read in full...)
I got my sister pregnant.
Q. I'll give you some background im 22 and i have an 18 year old sister. We've always been really close. When my mom and dad split up she was made to decide where she wanted to live. I had already moved out and got an appartment so to spite our parents ...
A. 26 January 2010: Nope, not buying it.... (read in full...)
She was a virgin and I was a virgin, I lied about being a virgin and she found out. What do I do?
Q. Hello, I met this girl and we hit off, we became really close freinds and had a strong connection emotionally. She told me she had been sexually abused as a child by her father and had a boyfreind for 4 yrs, because i was a 23 year old virgin and ...
A. 26 January 2010: I still think she overreacted, she sounds like very high maintenance my man.... (read in full...)
She was a virgin and I was a virgin, I lied about being a virgin and she found out. What do I do?
Q. Hello, I met this girl and we hit off, we became really close freinds and had a strong connection emotionally. She told me she had been sexually abused as a child by her father and had a boyfreind for 4 yrs, because i was a 23 year old virgin and ...
A. 26 January 2010: Really wrong? I'd say you told the whitest lie I've ever heard of. I think her reaction is way over the top. If she can't get over something as tiny as this you're better off without her. Imagine how she'll react when there is really a crisis.... (read in full...)
How do I approach this guy I have a crush on?
Q. hi there is this guy that lives by me and i kind of have a little crush on him. i want to talk to him but i dont know how to aproch him. what can i do ?...
A. 25 January 2010: Do what the aunts suggest and if you want to speed things along, walk around the block really fast.... (read in full...)
Verbal Abuse
Q. I left my husband of 30 years due to horrible verbal abuse and always being blamed for any thing that went wrong. I am having such a hard time finding any kind of support groups. I'm trying to take the high road in this seperation and not do ...
A. 25 January 2010: Stay on that high road, honey. You won't regret it. Your soon-to be-ex is showing his true colors and will be fooling nobody. If you remain the class act you will have the ultimate revenge on the S.O.B. You go girlfriend!... (read in full...)
Am I having an orgasm when my leg shakes?
Q. So im 18 and i've had sex a few times...and im not really sure if ive ever had an orgasim...so when I have sex after about an hour my leg start to shake uncontrollably does that mean im having an orgasim?? ...
A. 25 January 2010: BOTH of my legs shake uncontrollably after I get off my treadmill...if I were having an orgasm I'd probably use the damn thing everyday...gladly... (read in full...)
I want a divorce, my wife is pregnant and I'm having an affair with our neighbour....help!
Q. I am 32 yrs old and have been married for 4 yrs. A year ago we moved to a new town and my wife and I drifted apart. She befriended our neighbours and became close friends with the lady. We would often go to dinners there and I met their now 19 yr ...
A. 25 January 2010: This is what happens to guys who assume that birth control is solely the female's responsibility. Let this be a lesson to all, wear a glove or no love.... (read in full...)
Would YOU let your wife strip?
Q. My wife and I have discussed threesomes, but ultimately said we didn't want to cross that line and risk our relationship; however, it doesn't mean we don't still think about it, from a curiosity standpoint. She mentioned she would like to strip, ...
A. 25 January 2010: If you have the slightest, and I'm talking eensy weensy, shred of jealousy, then she shouldn't do it. And since you mentioned jealousy then my answer is no.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's younger sister caught me in an awkward situation, what should I do?
Q. my girlfriends sister came to visit us on the weekend, she is younger and was playing on the wii so my girlfriend went out for a bit to visit a friend. I was bored so went to bedroom to read for a bit and then I started getting horny and decide...
A. 25 January 2010: Tell your girlfriend and next time lock the dang door.... (read in full...)
I havent heard from my boyfriend since New Years Eve, what should I do?
Q. l am a 23 year year old. have been dating my boyfriend for a year now.he is 27. he has gone all quite. we were suppose to meet on new year eve to go to a party. he called saying he was coming but never showed up. he didn't even text a message ...
A. 22 January 2010: Since you verified that he hasn't been hit by a Mac truck, I'd now pretend he did and move on.... (read in full...)
Is he interested or naive?
Q. In a few weeks im supposed to interview one of my old middle school teachers about an event that is going on in spring. Just to let you know, I’ve liked this guy for like 6 years and we have a really good relationship as teacher and student. ...
A. 22 January 2010: I hate to burst your bubble but...he doesn't see you as an "adult figure", he has no romantic ideas concerning you, he has graciously agreed to an interview for the event's sake or to do you (one of his favorite students,and he most likely has ... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from my lover and I'm worried!
Q. I have a lover of four months, we have had wonderful times together, not very much contact but he did explain that he forgets, this I can understand as he has a wife and family and its been Christmas etc. However last week he sent me a reply text ...
A. 22 January 2010: In cheaters we trust? I don't think so.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to not have a boyfriend at 14? A friend in my class has had 45!
Q. Just wondering if its normal to be kinda frigid at 14? It's just that I have seen girls my age who have gone past the whole "shy" thing and are dating boys whenever they feel like.Theres a girl in my year who' had over 45 boyfriends. I ha...
A. 21 January 2010: NOBODY and I mean NOBODY can be frigid at 14. You are perfectly normal, healthy and SMART. Your friend with 45 ex boyfriends is a nut case. Boyfriends at your age are nothing but trouble, stick with having friends who happen to be boys.... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to prostitutes!
Q. Can I regain trust in my husband, married for 28 years found out 3 weeks ago he has been seeing prostitutes for 11 years but stopped 14 months ago because he found one 55 miles away that he has seen twice a week, bought lots of presents for etc. ...
A. 21 January 2010: First and foremost get yourself checked out by your doctor, he may have given you a "present" after all. Then I'd really a a good long think about whether you truly want to keep him in your life. I mean it's been going on for 11 years, first with ... (read in full...)
Discussing marriage with my bf...greatly upsets him. What should I do?
Q. I have been dating my bf for 4 years. Whenever we try to have a serious discussion regarding our future (marriage) he gets extremely upset with me (i.e. yells, shouts, HUGE arguments). I try very hard to do special things for him. I cook, clean, ...
A. 21 January 2010: Exactly, why would he BUY the cow when the milk is FREE.... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from my lover and I'm worried!
Q. I have a lover of four months, we have had wonderful times together, not very much contact but he did explain that he forgets, this I can understand as he has a wife and family and its been Christmas etc. However last week he sent me a reply text ...
A. 21 January 2010: Trust me...you definitely DO NOT want to know what I'm thinking and I can't tell you what I would do in your situation because I'd never be there in the first place.... (read in full...)
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