I fell in love with a girl on a train, found out who she is, but she doesn't want anything to do with me!
Q. am i love with this girl that i saw a couple of times when i took a train. i found out about her from a common friend of ours.. He gave me her contact details and i contacted her, i chatted with her a couple of times under the pretense that i found ...
A. 18 December 2009: You become a prize by not throwing yourself in her direction every chance you get.... (read in full...)
Our friend is trying to ruin our relationship!
Q. Need answer quick. My boyfriend and I have a former friend in common, a female, who I believe wanted to date him. She is jealous of our relationship and before I got involved with him, she was highly upset to learn that I wanted to date him. So ...
A. 17 December 2009: Yes I do, like I said I wouldn't say anything. If she's up to no good, I think he'll figure it out sooner or later. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's habit of taking care of "business' himself is creating problems in our sex life
Q. Good morning, I am having difficulties in my relationship with my boyfriend that I live with. One problem that seems to be getting bigger is our sex life. Lately, he has been masturbating before work in the shower and I know this is going on. ...
A. 17 December 2009: Okay well your explanation was as clear as mud. Are you guys having sex at all? Do you want to have it more often? ... (read in full...)
We are FWB until we are drunk, then we love each other madly!
Q. I've been seeing this guy for quite a while now and have been friends with benefits with no emotional attatchments involved...but why is it that when either he or i are drunk we spill out our real emotions? Meaning that we both like each other a ...
A. 17 December 2009: Good call LazyGuy. So what's the problem? If you are in a FWB you can expect no emotions just sex. People do and say stupid things when they are drunk. If that's bothering you, lay off the sauce.... (read in full...)
Our friend is trying to ruin our relationship!
Q. Need answer quick. My boyfriend and I have a former friend in common, a female, who I believe wanted to date him. She is jealous of our relationship and before I got involved with him, she was highly upset to learn that I wanted to date him. So ...
A. 17 December 2009: I wouldn't say anything to him at this point. I think people's true colors eventually come out so if I were you I'd just sit back but keep your eyes open. I hope you and the boyfriend have a Merry Christmas.... (read in full...)
My b/f expects me to pay 50% of his mortgage with no guanantees for me
Q. I am just new to living with my boyfriend in a house that he owns. Recently while discussing contributions towards household expenses he told me that he expects me to pay half his mortgage and that he is not interested in putting me on the title. He ...
A. 17 December 2009: Another thing is not to purchase any large ticket items together. Keeping finances separate is very important, also if you keep good books there will never be any confusion over who owes what.... (read in full...)
My girfriend cheated on me and I have feelings of hatred, but still love her!
Q. my gf had oral sex with her friend in a cinema theatre and gave him a *******....she said it happened because she was too desperate and was out of her mind at that time...she feels terribly guilty now and regrets it and has cut all communication ...
A. 17 December 2009: She gave him a blow job at a movie theatre? Zowie. anyhoo I'd say anybody who gives blow jobs because they were feeling desperate and out of their mind is a whack job and I'd show them the nearest door. ... (read in full...)
I am hooked into cheating with a man just married
Q. I had an affair and now im lost. I am married n he wasnt, he was engaged but never told me when he was getting married. He even called me the morning of his weddin to tell me he loved me. He is a newlywed cheating on his wife and I dont know about ...
A. 16 December 2009: Obviously your husband IS NOT YOUR WHOLE LIFE, but you can try your damnest to make that happen. Stop the nonsense with this other guy and focus on the guy you have or you may wake up one morning and you won't have him anymore.... (read in full...)
Should I cheat or not?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have already lost interest in having sex with my wife whom I think to be frigid and I had been masturbating about my sister-in-law whom I think to be horny as I saw her on many occasions masturbating with her pillow. I have plans to...
A. 16 December 2009: I think this is a wind up, I'm not suckering for it. I'll bet the poster is the female anonymous.... (read in full...)
My Techie Crush!
Q. Okay. So there is this amazingly beautiful man at my school. He is a techie, he fixes the computers around our school and stuff. And ya, you've guessed it.. I like him. Probley way too much. But its freaky. I've NEVER felt anything like it in my ...
A. 16 December 2009: Just where do you think this could possibly go? You're just a kid, he's an adult. You're just a kid and he's a MARRIED adult. You're just a kid and he's EMPLOYED by your school. Enjoy your crush but don't try to make this anything more than it is.... (read in full...)
I am taking too long to finish and it's making my partner sad
Q. Hi every one.. i am a healthy man and i love sex my problem is the time i need to ejaculate.. i have always been slow and it took me from 20-40 min of intercourse to ejaculte .. but since 4 months, the time has encreased to 50-90 min wic...
A. 16 December 2009: After a hour or TWO of intercourse is your partner sad or sore?... (read in full...)
How can I feel like a martyr because my married lover makes me feel misled and used
Q. Dear Cupid, I am very confused and I need your advices. I am with an online relationship for 3 yrs, and I met a senior married man of 65 and I am 34 separated woman. I know it is wrong to involve myself to a married man but I just couldnt r...
A. 16 December 2009: Aww poor poor you, try thinking of his wife instead of yourself.... (read in full...)
I need some feedback about a questionable friendship
Q. Re submitt question on my internet friend, I found this person on a looking for friends site , that was all i wanted just someone to e mail.I retired six months ago so i was bored i just needed someone to talk to. Nothing sexual i just wanted t...
A. 16 December 2009: I don't know exactly what you are asking. Do you want more than a friendship with the guy?... (read in full...)
My gay friends boyfriend is hitting on me! What do I do?
Q. I hav a big problem,my friend is gay, his older boyfriend is hiting on me,what do i do? They have been together for about 15 years. Suppose he finds out,my friend,and what do I say to his longtime older boyfriend nexttime he hits on me? I don't ...
A. 16 December 2009: Tell him to buzz off or you'll tell his boyfriend.... (read in full...)
Is anybody familiar with calorie shifting diet?
Q. Hello, I was wondering is anybody familiar with calorie shifting diet. I heard it is a new hot diet, but I can't find the diet itself on the net. If someone would give me the meal plan it would really help? Anniversary is coming up, and out of ...
A. 16 December 2009: hey where'd she go?... (read in full...)
Is anybody familiar with calorie shifting diet?
Q. Hello, I was wondering is anybody familiar with calorie shifting diet. I heard it is a new hot diet, but I can't find the diet itself on the net. If someone would give me the meal plan it would really help? Anniversary is coming up, and out of ...
A. 16 December 2009: Hey did you notice that the fat lady in the black bikini stops expanding and shrinking after she does it a couple of times. I wish that would happen to me! Q, 7-ish is my cocktail time, you'll have to take a cab.... (read in full...)
I gave some gifts to my professor, but apart from sying thankyou I havent heard further from him
Q. I gave a gift to my ex- professor, actually there were 3 gifts, a box of brownies, a box of caramel sticks and a gift wrapped, which contained a Parker pen and a note written ''remembering you this season... thanks for being nice'' my name, and my ...
A. 16 December 2009: I agree with the aunts who think it's played out at this point. Nothing further is going to happened. He said his thank yous. You'll get over your crush sooner or later. Stay busy.... (read in full...)
I keep dreaming of my past love. What does this mean?
Q. I am on my third marriage...I know that sounds bad, but it's a very long story. Let's just say that the term "Young and Dumb" applies most appropriately here. My husband and I have been together for almost 5 years, and are happy for the most ...
A. 16 December 2009: Tell yourself that it might have been NOT so great with the guy and you would have missed out on meeting that pretty great man you married. It's probably exactly what would have really happened.... (read in full...)
What is the least painful sexual position for a virgin?
Q. Im 14, and me and my bf are ready for sex for the first time, im kinda scared though, whats the easiest/ least painful position for first timers?...
A. 16 December 2009: The least painful position is when you sit next to him with a nickel between your knees. It hardly hurts at all unless you press too hard.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my mom is pregnant...
Q. Ugh, I think my mom's pregnant. I'm 16 and an only child, my parents are married and I love how my life is. I don't want anything to change and i'm in shock.. I feel like crying... My mom is 38 and she got pregnant last year, too, but had an ...
A. 16 December 2009: Since it's up to your parents I guess there's not much you can do about it if they decide to have another kid. It's their business. In a couple years (and if you are getting good grades) you'll be off to college anyway so it's not going to be quite ... (read in full...)
I have only one ball!
Q. Hi, im a 17 year old guy still in school im a virgin and my dick was 6" last time i checked maybe 5 months ago but thats not my problem my problem is i only have one ball in my sack nd i can feel the other one to the left right above my dick nd this ...
A. 16 December 2009: My brother-in-law only has one ball and he and my sister have 6 kids.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for not wanting my 22 year old daugther to bring boys home?
Q. Im a 49 year old divorcee and have a boyfriend. We get on well and my 22 year-old daughter also accepts him. My daughter never has a boyfriend until recently she starts asking a boy at work out for a drink. She said they are just friends he is ...
A. 16 December 2009: I think it may be time for the little birdie to fly from the nest. Perhaps you can help her with that. She's a big girl, Mom.... (read in full...)
Is anybody familiar with calorie shifting diet?
Q. Hello, I was wondering is anybody familiar with calorie shifting diet. I heard it is a new hot diet, but I can't find the diet itself on the net. If someone would give me the meal plan it would really help? Anniversary is coming up, and out of ...
A. 16 December 2009: Hey my link worked! Q you have to be careful you don't end up with fork stuck in the back of your hand.... (read in full...)
I've fallen madly in love with two girls
Q. Ok, a serious question. You see, I've never had luck with love in the past. I've liked people but never had that certain special feeling for them, which has made me think that I'd never find someone. Well all of that has changed now. I've fallen...
A. 16 December 2009: Well if you are upfront about the fact that you are dating around why can't you date both of them? As long as they understand that you aren't committing yourself to a monogamous relationship, I don't see what the problem is.... (read in full...)
Is anybody familiar with calorie shifting diet?
Q. Hello, I was wondering is anybody familiar with calorie shifting diet. I heard it is a new hot diet, but I can't find the diet itself on the net. If someone would give me the meal plan it would really help? Anniversary is coming up, and out of ...
A. 16 December 2009: Try this:
http://www.CalorieShiftingDiet.info I guess you'll have to copy and paste.... (read in full...)
We are happy, our mothers are happy but what will the wife say when she finds out?
Q. Had a wonderful friend in high school, I knew he was in love with me but I just wanted to be friends, 4 years after graduation he comes back into my life,by then I am a young single mother to a 1 year old son and he said he would be honored if I ...
A. 16 December 2009: There seems to be quite a lot of sweeping up before you two can have any kind of future together. Has he started the divorce proceedings? I certainly hope he's not still living at home with his wife. If he is then here's another thought, he might be ... (read in full...)
I fell in love with a girl on a train, found out who she is, but she doesn't want anything to do with me!
Q. am i love with this girl that i saw a couple of times when i took a train. i found out about her from a common friend of ours.. He gave me her contact details and i contacted her, i chatted with her a couple of times under the pretense that i found ...
A. 16 December 2009: I know you don't want to leave her alone but you have no options here but to do so. Stay busy and try to focus on something else. There can't be all that much pain since you never had much of a relationship to begin with.... (read in full...)
How do I make the move to be more intimate?
Q. im 13 me and my gf are really close,i lie on the couch with her and she likes it. how do i make the move to be more intimate?...
A. 15 December 2009: Why bother when you know you'd really rather be outside playing hockey with the guys?... (read in full...)
17 and a 40 year old having sex?
Q. Hello. I was just wondering if it's ok for a seventeen year old girl to have sex with a forty year old man? I've known him for a few months and we've been talking a lot. I really like him and want him. I know that it is a significant age difference, ...
A. 15 December 2009: A 40 year old man who connects on so many levels with a 17 year old young lady, eh? I think I need a second opinion before I can comment. Are you still living at home? Let me know what your parents think about your relationship.... (read in full...)
Can men be in love but not be into all the kissing n cuddling stuff?
Q. Can men be in love but not be into all the kissing n cuddling stuff? I am with a man I love dearly, but he is not one for showing his emotions. When I questioned him about it he replied that the kissing and cuddling isn't really for him but he shows...
A. 14 December 2009: You can bet the farm on that one baby-cakes. It takes a lot of training and perseverance to get a non-cuddler to just enjoy snuggling, but it can be done.... (read in full...)
Stay with boyfriend or go to far away college--which do I do?
Q. Hello. I have big ambitions to become a vet and i have the qualifications to go to university and do what i want. I also have a boyfriend with whom i've been with since i was just 13. So we are extremely close. The problem is the uni i want to go to ...
A. 14 December 2009: I know that at your age 7 years seems like a lifetime but you will be surprised how fast the years fly by. I really think that you need to look at the big picture and do all that you can do to fulfill your dreams of becoming a vet. The animals will ... (read in full...)
Does cheating empower women?
Q. Is infidelity in the male/female relationship immoral or empowering for the women? Religion can be a factor in the answer if needed....
A. 14 December 2009: I'll bet the woman who gets cheated on doesn't feel so damned empowered!... (read in full...)
Men's opinions on this please!
Q. I would like a male opinion on how the vagina looks with the inside labia bigger than the outside.... Women's opinions are welcome also! PLEASE BE TRUTHFUL!!...
A. 14 December 2009: I hope you two didn't scare the poor thing off...do I hear whimpering from the corner???... (read in full...)
How to avoid the pain?
Q. MOD NOTE: POSTERS ORIGINAL TITLE I am a 38 year old male who just got out of a 9 month physically, emotionally, psychologically and mentally abusive relationship with a 34 year old woman. She had two children. At first the relationship was...
A. 14 December 2009: Since this is a repetitive situation for you I suggest you get yourself some counseling. You have things a little skewed and I think to undo all the stuff from your childhood, you will need a professional. Until you get a handle on this, you are ... (read in full...)
My ex is blackmailing me and I like skinny women but she is average
Q. How can I get my ex to stop blackmailing me. I don't want to get into alot of detail as this is the internet. It was a crime that was committed by both of us and she has the evidence to prove it. We will both be facing charges and she does not ...
A. 14 December 2009: Turn yourself into the police. Maybe the time in jail will give you time to refect. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I could end up marrying the wrong person! Should I accept him or let him go?
Q. I've been with my fiance a year now, he proposed to me 8mths ago, but since then he's been going off and on. for no reasons he'll start avoiding me later he'll come back and beg me. Last 2 month he came to my house i saw him off, when he got home...
A. 14 December 2009: I think you are very, very lucky that he's shown you his true colors BEFORE you married him, lots of people don't get a clue until after the wedding. You do not want this guy to be legally tied to you. Date him if you want but don't commit, he never ... (read in full...)
Help..how to seduce my cousin?
Q. Hey, So my cousin's really hot. He's 17 and I'm 14. We chat sometimes but we never flirt, and he has a girlfriend. But I really want to get him to notice me! How can I do so? Please don't say "you're too young" or "it's your COUSIN get real". F...
A. 14 December 2009: CW is right as rain and you really have answered your own question with your own words and reasoning, "you're too young" and "it's your cousin". Listen to yourself.... (read in full...)
How do you keep a relationship without sex?
Q. I've divorced my husband after 20 years of marriage. There is no sex in the last year as he has lost his libido and do nothing to put it right. Then I've met this older man gives me the love and sex I've been craving for. Three years on I've lost ...
A. 10 December 2009: Well since your first marriage ended because of no sex, how come you are asking now that the tables are turned? You most likely are suffering from the first stages of menopause. Talk to your doctor and see if you can't get that libido back.... (read in full...)
I really dislike porn! How can I get over this?
Q. I know this may sound really bad etc But I really dislike porn. I don't know why etc but I just do. Thing is, i've asked my boyfriend not to watch it, because it upsets me and I get jealous. In case he finds the girls in it more attractive than me,...
A. 10 December 2009: What the heck did you just say ria?... (read in full...)
Should I tell my lover's wife her husband is a philandering fink?
Q. hi there i thought i was the only woman who is involved with a married man but it seems there are out many out here and i wish someone can help me. we works for different companies, then texted, emailed, he sent me flowers, chocolate and w...
A. 10 December 2009: Sorry but you haven't changed my mind on what you should do. You are seeking vengence at the expense of his wife. You think you will be teaching a lesson, that he will shape up because of you blabbing to the wife. Nonsense. If you want to show some ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with a beautiful woman hitting on my husband 1000 miles away?
Q. I'm at my wits end. I'm trying to be rational but the emotional side is winning. I need help! I'm trying to keep a long story short, so please be patient. My husband took a temporary job for 8 weeks that is 1,100 miles from our home. The owner ...
A. 9 December 2009: You go girl and let us hear about it when you get back!... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of my boyfriend's anatomy!
Q. So recently I realized that I'm constantly feeling envious of my boyfriend's sex organs. I don't know what to do, it is a constant obsession that actually interferes with my life. I'm incredibly satisfied in bed, always, and have an orgasm every ...
A. 9 December 2009: Freud would have had a hay day with you. I think you will need some therapy if this whole penis envy stuff makes you so angry. Something is off kilter here and only a professional can help you get a handle on it. Double check on your resources, ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my lover's wife her husband is a philandering fink?
Q. hi there i thought i was the only woman who is involved with a married man but it seems there are out many out here and i wish someone can help me. we works for different companies, then texted, emailed, he sent me flowers, chocolate and w...
A. 9 December 2009: I think you should just stop ALL communication with both of them. Don't take his calls, don't respond to his texts, and don't call his wife. You vanish from their lives completely. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and most importantly,realize you ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with a beautiful woman hitting on my husband 1000 miles away?
Q. I'm at my wits end. I'm trying to be rational but the emotional side is winning. I need help! I'm trying to keep a long story short, so please be patient. My husband took a temporary job for 8 weeks that is 1,100 miles from our home. The owner ...
A. 8 December 2009: I agree, if you can swing the cost of a round trip ticket, I'd go for a visit. If you can't then I would at least try to relax and trust the hubby. Maybe some hot phone sex would be beneficial. And make this a Christmas he'll remember for years to ... (read in full...)
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