Mad crush!
Q. I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....
A. 10 November 2009: Just when I thought I was out... they pull me back in. ... (read in full...)
Mad crush!
Q. I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....
A. 10 November 2009: I kind of threw up in my mouth........ (read in full...)
Mad crush!
Q. I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....
A. 10 November 2009: q...penicillin will get rid of it for you...just like last time.... (read in full...)
Mad crush!
Q. I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....
A. 10 November 2009: See you guys, now we are ALL going to pay...... (read in full...)
Mad crush!
Q. I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....
A. 10 November 2009: q ???? You guys are killing me! You realize you are just going to make him more cocky than ever....... (read in full...)
I don't want to be a weekend girlfriend. What to do?
Q. Hi, I'm 24 and the guy who likes me is 25. We met each other 4 weeks ago in a bar. We had so much fun that night, after that he started texting me, we went out for dinner, and a couple of times after that, everything was going well and I was falling ...
A. 10 November 2009: Wait for him to call.... (read in full...)
Why did my boyfriend change his mind about moving in?
Q. I live in a home where my needs are not met, and I'm stuck here until I can get on my feet. My boyfriend wants to help because my living situation endangers my life at times. We made plans that in a couple months we'll save money to get an apartm...
A. 9 November 2009: How is where you are currently living endangering your life?... (read in full...)
How should I approach sharing my wife?
Q. Hi, I want to hear from guys who have shared there wifes with a friend,stranger,etc. How did you approach it. How did it feel watching her when he started making love to her etc. My wife and I want to try something new . We sat in conversation one...
A. 9 November 2009: Sorry but in my book "sharing a wife" or "open marriage" are oxymorons.... (read in full...)
He thinks I don't enjoy our sex life because I don't come
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. We have had many ups and downs but we are both crazy about each other. The only issues we have is when it comes to sex. He says he doesn't feel like a man because he can't make me cum and i'm the first pe...
A. 9 November 2009: Where there's a will there's a way. You'll get there sweetheart and I'll bet it will be a blinger!... (read in full...)
Sometimes during orgasm, I pass out.
Q. when im having sex, sometimes i have mulitple orgasms. on an occasion that that does occur, sometimes if the orgasms are too pleasurable they can make me pass out. is this something occurs to many people or is it something i should be concerned ...
A. 9 November 2009: Just make sure you are lying down whenever you have sex.... (read in full...)
Who do I invite to the wedding? Restraing order is getting in the way.
Q. My fiance and I are now planning our wedding... things are still tense between me and his father but a new issue has come up and that is the family fued... My fiance is the youngest of 4 children and recently his parents got divorced. There ...
A. 9 November 2009: must be thinking of Pink Floyd...that's metal... (read in full...)
Who do I invite to the wedding? Restraing order is getting in the way.
Q. My fiance and I are now planning our wedding... things are still tense between me and his father but a new issue has come up and that is the family fued... My fiance is the youngest of 4 children and recently his parents got divorced. There ...
A. 9 November 2009: Yep it's time to test your soon-to-be husband's meddle. Let him decide who comes and who goes.... (read in full...)
I am afraid to marry her, yet also afraid to flush 5 years of my life down the toilet.
Q. I will try to be brief. I have been dating my girl friend for almost 5 years, 4.5 of which she has lived with me. We've gone through many ups and downs as all relationships do, but more and more I dread the thought of spending my life with her as a ...
A. 9 November 2009: Better 5 years wasted than 25 or whatever. If you guys are having issues now you can count on twice or three times as many in a marriage. There must be no doubts when entering into a marriage. Marriage is hard enough when you truly love each other. ... (read in full...)
He thinks I don't enjoy our sex life because I don't come
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. We have had many ups and downs but we are both crazy about each other. The only issues we have is when it comes to sex. He says he doesn't feel like a man because he can't make me cum and i'm the first pe...
A. 9 November 2009: Just don't fall into the trap where you start faking orgasms just to make HIM feel better. That is a definite no win situation. You two just need to keep experimenting and trying different things...things will click eventually. Good luck the ... (read in full...)
Guys, what is your favourite position?
Q. What do guys like best sex wise? Any special posistion? ...
A. 9 November 2009: "crouched on the floor" is that in another room?... (read in full...)
Can anal sex get you pregnant?
Q. Can you get pregnant if you have sex from the back?...
A. 9 November 2009: The most important thing to take away from this thread, dear poster, is what Tish is trying to convey. It is POSSIBLE to get knocked up with ANY kind of heterosexual sex, even menopausal women have gotten the surprise of their lives. It's just not ... (read in full...)
Guys, what is your favourite position?
Q. What do guys like best sex wise? Any special posistion? ...
A. 9 November 2009: I can't wait for q to answer this one....... (read in full...)
I don't want to be a weekend girlfriend. What to do?
Q. Hi, I'm 24 and the guy who likes me is 25. We met each other 4 weeks ago in a bar. We had so much fun that night, after that he started texting me, we went out for dinner, and a couple of times after that, everything was going well and I was falling ...
A. 9 November 2009: Lay off the sauce and sex for awhile next time you see each other. Spend your evening doing something other than sex. 4 weeks is hardly enough time to really get to know somebody. As for the weekend thing, lots of people have very exhausting jobs so ... (read in full...)
Why did this girl cancel her hair appt. with me to go with a stranger?
Q. Evening all! This isnt a love question but im hoping you might have some advice. I am a qualified hairdresser and worked in a salon for a few years before settling down in to an office job-more pay and less hours. When some of my colleagues fou...
A. 9 November 2009: Yeah I'd feel used too if I were you. No more freebies for the ungrateful, besides it's a skill you had to pay to learn so you should charge for your services.... (read in full...)
I've lost respect for her seen as she barely even looks for work! I want to help her but I don't want to miss out on fun experiences in life
Q. So I have this girlfriend. We've been "together" for about 5 months but only spent a about 7 weekends together. She's so sweet and captured my heart big time. She lives a southwest airlines flight away from me. She doesn't have a job, barely looks ...
A. 9 November 2009: I agree totally with you, anybody who doesn't get off their butt and actively seek employment rather than live off unemployment would be a very bad investment as a roomate. I too have very little respect for that type of mentality. Respect is a very ... (read in full...)
How can I learn not to take everything personally?
Q. I'm sensitive and react easily to situations or things that happen or what people say. Most of the time my family or close friends preface things by saying, "Now don't get upset, but...." and then they tell me. I feel bad because they have to say...
A. 9 November 2009: You need to build up your self-esteem. There are lots of web sites and books on the subject. There are also lots of different methods, you will need to do some research into which ones might help you. Counseling is also an option to consider. Low ... (read in full...)
I've lost respect for her seen as she barely even looks for work! I want to help her but I don't want to miss out on fun experiences in life
Q. So I have this girlfriend. We've been "together" for about 5 months but only spent a about 7 weekends together. She's so sweet and captured my heart big time. She lives a southwest airlines flight away from me. She doesn't have a job, barely looks ...
A. 9 November 2009: Do you pay for her rent/mortgage, food, bills? ... (read in full...)
Help I don't understand why girls do this?
Q. i dont understand why some girls if you dont show them your penis then they be it has to be small or tell someone that your penis small when is not...
A. 6 November 2009: See?... (read in full...)
What if I kiss someone for the first time and they say I'm terrible?
Q. ok ive just turned 14 but ive never kissed a boy i guess ive always been waiting for a nice boy but now i just feel really embarassed because all! of my friends have been going on about how there boy friends are really good kissers and i really want ...
A. 6 November 2009: Try practicing on your hand.... (read in full...)
Help I don't understand why girls do this?
Q. i dont understand why some girls if you dont show them your penis then they be it has to be small or tell someone that your penis small when is not...
A. 6 November 2009: I dare say q's has all kinds of comebacks for this kind of situation...if I were you, poster, I'd PM him.... (read in full...)
My first cousin got me pregnant!
Q. I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...
A. 6 November 2009: Hi Guys! What's going on?... (read in full...)
Is this older man playing me?
Q. I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...
A. 6 November 2009: Do YOU think your family will have problem with the age difference?... (read in full...)
Do I tell mum that dad is looking for escort massages?
Q. ok so my dad is generally a really decent guy and nothing like this has ever happened before; he is really family orientated. but i have recently seen on the interent history that he has been searching for escort massages ( i assume that this is ...
A. 6 November 2009: Sorry about the hiccup.... (read in full...)
Do I tell mum that dad is looking for escort massages?
Q. ok so my dad is generally a really decent guy and nothing like this has ever happened before; he is really family orientated. but i have recently seen on the interent history that he has been searching for escort massages ( i assume that this is ...
A. 6 November 2009: First I would talk to your Dad. Just tell him what you found in the history and the concerns you have. He may have a very plasible reason for searching for massages. But ultimately it is up to him to tell your Mom or not. She may already be aware of ... (read in full...)
Do I tell mum that dad is looking for escort massages?
Q. ok so my dad is generally a really decent guy and nothing like this has ever happened before; he is really family orientated. but i have recently seen on the interent history that he has been searching for escort massages ( i assume that this is ...
A. 6 November 2009: First I would talk to your Dad. Just tell him what you found in the history and the concerns you have. He may have a very plasible reason for searching for massages. But ultimately it is up to him to tell your Mom or not. She may already be aware of ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to prefer sex during the first days of menstruation?
Q. I am curious. My wife tells me that she is most interested in Sex about the 3rd or 4th day of her period. Is this quite normal?...
A. 6 November 2009: If she just turned 50 your question will become moot very shortly.... (read in full...)
Why, if she cares for me, does she insist on me earning as much as I can and accept the benefits that it brings, and yet despise me for it?
Q. I work so hard at my job because we need the money. My gf wants us to buy a larger place with some land and outbuildings etc so I feel I have to work as hard as I can. On the other side my gf will not get a paid job. She says that she already...
A. 5 November 2009: Sorry Buddy, but you must like being her puppy dog or you would send her packing. She obviously isn't going to change. At least make her find her own place and see if money still means nothing to her.... (read in full...)
Why, if she cares for me, does she insist on me earning as much as I can and accept the benefits that it brings, and yet despise me for it?
Q. I work so hard at my job because we need the money. My gf wants us to buy a larger place with some land and outbuildings etc so I feel I have to work as hard as I can. On the other side my gf will not get a paid job. She says that she already...
A. 5 November 2009: People are used only because they allow themselves to be used. If you are not happy being her doormat then tell her to get her own place. Man up and show her the door or put up with her crap. Quite simple really.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for him to be unsure or am I clinging to false hope?
Q. Ok so some background…we are both in our late twenties...my ex broke up with me nearly 2 weeks ago. We got together about middle June (4 months ago) but had known each other for years. He had broken up with his long term live in gf in April (I k...
A. 5 November 2009: Just don't put your life on hold for him. It's too precious. ... (read in full...)
I can't tell if he's just not interested or if he really is busy. Do I respond or just let it go?
Q. I met this guy about 3 weeks ago and we went out and we had what I thought was a great date. So great in fact we decided to go out the next night as well, which in retrospect was probably not a smart move. Then he just didn't call me or anything. ...
A. 5 November 2009: Excellent question r&b!... (read in full...)
I'm worried! Is this an orgasm?
Q. Okay this is wierd!..but when having oral sex, and the guy is fingering a girl, and she tells him too stop, and he smiles and says i could feel that thing a jumpin, but he talks about having sex again, the next night...is that bad? Like should the ...
A. 5 November 2009: Some guys kiss and tell that's why young ladies are advised not to get too intimate too young or too fast. Once you reputation is damaged it is mighty hard to fix it. Tell him to keep his hands to himself or you'll show him the door.... (read in full...)
2 questions: My little brother searches for porn and I don't have my period yet!
Q. [MODERATOR NOTE: The same (13 year-old) poster has presented two questions, which has been combined into one post.] ok my little brother is on youtube serching on sex and i know cause i checked the search on my laptop what shold i do??? Also, why...
A. 5 November 2009: Put the parental blocks on your laptop, or have your mom do it. As for your period, girls can get their periods as early as 10 years and as late as 18 years and it falls in the range of normal. Why not have this discussion with your mom? She will be ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to prefer sex during the first days of menstruation?
Q. I am curious. My wife tells me that she is most interested in Sex about the 3rd or 4th day of her period. Is this quite normal?...
A. 5 November 2009: What's a period again? I forget....... (read in full...)
Is it normal for him to be unsure or am I clinging to false hope?
Q. Ok so some background…we are both in our late twenties...my ex broke up with me nearly 2 weeks ago. We got together about middle June (4 months ago) but had known each other for years. He had broken up with his long term live in gf in April (I k...
A. 5 November 2009: I certainly wouldn't be putting all my eggs into just this one basket if I were you. It doesn't sound like his feeling for you quite match yours for him. You can keep him on the back burner while he's gone but I think you should also get out there ... (read in full...)
How can I show my ex-friend I am happy without him?
Q. So I have an ex-friend who I kinda dislike. But today I felt upset because he was with other people and I felt lonely and like I had nobody. I do have my own friends but I feel alone too sometimes. I want to show him that I'm happy with not being ...
A. 5 November 2009: This doesn't sound harsh to me but it does sound like junior high school. Ignore him, just be yourself and move on with your life.... (read in full...)
My teen pregnancy inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What do I do?
Q. I'm 17 and pregnant, and I keep telling my family about how much I love it, and it inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What should we do?...
A. 5 November 2009: I don't know, maybe lock her up and throw away the key until she's 20? Either that or have her babysit your kid all the time, that should take the "inspiration" away quick, fast, and in a hurry.... (read in full...)
I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!
Q. 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...
A. 5 November 2009: No rational person would risk jeopardising a happy 33 year old marriage over something that happened long before the vows were made. ... (read in full...)
I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!
Q. 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...
A. 5 November 2009: Here's my idea, drop this like a hot potato Bob me boy. It's over 30 years and a very happy marriage later and you did up this old chestnut?! You've had a fuller love life than many folks so quit beating a dead horse. Appreciate what you have and ... (read in full...)
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