I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son!
Q. My dilema is that I am currently 38 1/2 weeks pregnant and I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son. He says he does not want to see anything and will just stay up north during the ...
A. 2 December 2009: He is fearing the unknown, I'm sure he'll do fine. There's always a nurse who keeps a close eye on the Dads.... (read in full...)
Should I force myself through another semester at a college I hate?
Q. I know this is a relationship help site... but I really need advice and I love the advice the agony aunts (and uncles) give here... so I'm hoping someone can help me out here. I am a freshman in college and I am miserable. I don't like the college...
A. 2 December 2009: I work at a university and you are suffering from what we call the "freshman blues". Some kids feel homesick, some just feel lost and overwhelmed. We always counsel them to hang in there at least through the entire freshman year. We also try to ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son!
Q. My dilema is that I am currently 38 1/2 weeks pregnant and I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son. He says he does not want to see anything and will just stay up north during the ...
A. 2 December 2009: I've only seen my husband of 33 years cry 5 times, two were at the deaths of his parents, and three were when our three kids were born. I'm of course assuming those tears were from joy and not from disgust or loathing at what he was witnessing and I ... (read in full...)
Not being able to talk to anyone is killing me!
Q. Hello, ok i was out at my local pub last night from 9.30 to 1.30 and did not talk to anyone! I said hello to couple to couple of people but did not actually speak to anyone, yes there was music playing but come on i have been going to this pu...
A. 2 December 2009: I'd respond to you dear poster, but I've been censored....... (read in full...)
I am in love with my best friend.... oh yeah....and btw...she's a married woman.
Q. I am in love with my best friend and she is married. I feel so bad about it, but I can't ignore my feelings anymore. It seems like the more we hang out, the more I want to be with her. I have slept with a total of 43 girls (2 of which I was in a ...
A. 2 December 2009: Zowie how'd I miss this post? It's great! Oh and good luck with that conquering there, Mr Rock Star.... (read in full...)
Not being able to talk to anyone is killing me!
Q. Hello, ok i was out at my local pub last night from 9.30 to 1.30 and did not talk to anyone! I said hello to couple to couple of people but did not actually speak to anyone, yes there was music playing but come on i have been going to this pu...
A. 2 December 2009: Aww you are just saying that because he "sort of" liked your answer. Besides this poster isn't really looking for our advice anyways.... (read in full...)
Help! Where did it all go wrong?
Q. I am in love with the sweetest kindest man. He knows I am smitten with him. We sms each other ever other day. I see him at my work as he does consulting for us for the last year. He is 2 years younger then I (42) am. He is obese (150kg) and I am ...
A. 2 December 2009: Just let it go, either he isn't as interested in you as you are with him or he truly does have issues to deal with at the moment. Anyway it's up to him now to make the next move. I wouldn't put all my eggs in this basket, however.... (read in full...)
How can I stop feeling so jealous?
Q. I get so jealous with my boyfriend and it's making me feel insecure. I get annoyed feeling this way. We've been together for a little over a year but we are getting into too many fights because I fill my head with so many things. Before it was ...
A. 2 December 2009: You need to work on your self-esteem, Honey. There are tons of books and websites with all kinds of methods and information. Google it and start building up that confidence in yourself. Jealousy is really an awful feeling and a lousy way to live. ... (read in full...)
I am foxy and gorgeous, and hot for my nerdy cousin
Q. alright so im a pretty gorgeous 19 year old 5 foot three 105 pound outgoing hilarious fun foxy lady haha basically iv never in my life have had an issue in dateing. Guys love me i get them wrapped round my little finger haha :) my issue is i total...
A. 2 December 2009: Melinda is soooo married to nerdy Bill Gates, totally married.... (read in full...)
Until it stinks!!!
Q. Can anyone tell me why a vagina might smell after sex?...
A. 1 December 2009: Why am I hearing crickets?... (read in full...)
My little sister is pushing me away
Q. hello everybedy, I have a problem with my sister, she is two years younger than me and she is a teenager now; all my life she was telling me everything, we used to share everything, there were no secrets between us, but now I feel like she is ...
A. 1 December 2009: Marieclaire, you beat me to the punch, I guess great minds think alike.... (read in full...)
My little sister is pushing me away
Q. hello everybedy, I have a problem with my sister, she is two years younger than me and she is a teenager now; all my life she was telling me everything, we used to share everything, there were no secrets between us, but now I feel like she is ...
A. 1 December 2009: Perhaps she feels you are trying to control rather than to advise. Back off just a tad and wait for her to come to you and ask for your opinion. She is growing up and, boy howdy, young teenagers think they know everything anyway so your advice most ... (read in full...)
I am foxy and gorgeous, and hot for my nerdy cousin
Q. alright so im a pretty gorgeous 19 year old 5 foot three 105 pound outgoing hilarious fun foxy lady haha basically iv never in my life have had an issue in dateing. Guys love me i get them wrapped round my little finger haha :) my issue is i total...
A. 1 December 2009: Oh yeah well you better totally watch out big boy or ml will hit you with a hole tree once she figures out what the heck one is!... (read in full...)
I am foxy and gorgeous, and hot for my nerdy cousin
Q. alright so im a pretty gorgeous 19 year old 5 foot three 105 pound outgoing hilarious fun foxy lady haha basically iv never in my life have had an issue in dateing. Guys love me i get them wrapped round my little finger haha :) my issue is i total...
A. 1 December 2009: I've totally crushed on nerds before however they kinda make me throw up in my mouth a little bit. How's that ml?... (read in full...)
I can't have sex with my husband anymore, what can we do?
Q. I am no longer in love with and have not been able to feel enough physical attraction to have sex with my husband for the last year. We have not slept in the same room for one year. We have been married for 21 years and were mostly happy - he has ...
A. 1 December 2009: I wonder if she is still checking on this post...3 YEARS LATER?!... (read in full...)
Not being able to talk to anyone is killing me!
Q. Hello, ok i was out at my local pub last night from 9.30 to 1.30 and did not talk to anyone! I said hello to couple to couple of people but did not actually speak to anyone, yes there was music playing but come on i have been going to this pu...
A. 1 December 2009: Yeah you aunts and uncles better shape up!... (read in full...)
I am foxy and gorgeous, and hot for my nerdy cousin
Q. alright so im a pretty gorgeous 19 year old 5 foot three 105 pound outgoing hilarious fun foxy lady haha basically iv never in my life have had an issue in dateing. Guys love me i get them wrapped round my little finger haha :) my issue is i total...
A. 1 December 2009: "isnt that just disquesting! with a capital D" hee hee ... (read in full...)
Not being able to talk to anyone is killing me!
Q. Hello, ok i was out at my local pub last night from 9.30 to 1.30 and did not talk to anyone! I said hello to couple to couple of people but did not actually speak to anyone, yes there was music playing but come on i have been going to this pu...
A. 30 November 2009: Dear Poster, as everyone here at DC knows, I am the resident authority on mental illness, all of them. Here's my pat on the back for your trying to not to be too nuts. Good luck with that.... (read in full...)
Not being able to talk to anyone is killing me!
Q. Hello, ok i was out at my local pub last night from 9.30 to 1.30 and did not talk to anyone! I said hello to couple to couple of people but did not actually speak to anyone, yes there was music playing but come on i have been going to this pu...
A. 30 November 2009: Well now look what everyone's been up while I was gone....... (read in full...)
Why would a husband try to tape record his wife secretly?
Q. Why would a husband buy a recorder and hide it from me? I found a recorder in my vehichle and asked him if he knew what it was. He said it looked like a recorder. I said, oh maybe it belongs to one of our kids friends. He went on to his own ...
A. 25 November 2009: Was it a voive recorder or a video recorder? Not that it matters I'm just curious. The bottomline is something is making him distrust you. Time so a nice long chat with the hubby.... (read in full...)
What is the law?
Q. Hey, Ok so here is my problem... Ok so I was just wondering what the law is on younger girls dating older guys... Because I am 15 going on 16 and might be dating a 29 year old very soon... I'm not questioning whether it's normal cuz I don't care I l...
A. 25 November 2009: What do your parents say about your dating this grown man?... (read in full...)
Is this my period or implantation bleeding?
Q. Hello I had sex with his guy I know ..I made him use a condom ... He continued to keep it on even tho he had came in it??? But, after a whle I made him put on a new one. Also, when he was puttin it on, he put it on he wrong way so he then would...
A. 25 November 2009: Not pregnant.... (read in full...)
Is that considered sex? Am I still a virgin?
Q. if a guy stuck his penis all the way in my vagina but he just stayed there and didn't move. like there were no thrusting or humping motions, is that considered sex? or sexual intercourse? am i still a virgin?...
A. 25 November 2009: I'm with baddog, lousy sex is still sex and you, Babycakes, are no longer a virgin. I hope you used protection.... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't listen to me and I think there is more to his 'friendship' with an older woman
Q. HI i just got married this year in may and me and my husband are having a difficult time. i am currently pregnant this is the second baby our first i miscarried and i have a hard time believing that he still loves me. i accuse him of cheating...
A. 25 November 2009: Pregnancy does mess with your mind and your body. It's a shame your husband isn't more understanding and supportive but maybe he's just keeping his emotions in check because of the miscarriage. I think once you have this beautiful baby and get your ... (read in full...)
What can we do about his troublesome ex-wife?
Q. My boyfriend and I are living together happiness. Our relationship has been so good. He make me so happy and change my whole life with alot of joy. which I never had before. when he got a new job then his ex wife found out where he work. So she ...
A. 24 November 2009: I don't think there is anything YOU can do, it's up to him to tell her to get lost. Unless there are children involved he needs to do just that.... (read in full...)
Could I get lead poisoning from drinking from that can?
Q. i'm 5 months pregnant and this morning i opened a can of juice after the first drink i realized it tasted weird and through it out. now im worried about lead poisoning and im also waiting 4 my obgyn 2 call back. any helpful and comforting advice ...
A. 24 November 2009: I highly doubt you could possibly get anything from a couple sips of juice that's gone bad and since there is no lead used in cans it certainly wouldn't be lead poisoning. Relax, I'm sure the doctor will call you back with the same opinion.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a married man who is in an unhappy marriage! What should I do?
Q. Ok so there's this guy. I've known him for about ten years, infact even longer than his wife. He's actually a family friend and all we have ever been is friends. However about 7 months ago after me, his wife and him went out for some drinks, we went ...
A. 24 November 2009: She's about to grow up real fast. And she isn't too young to get involved in someone else's marriage and break another woman's heart, by the way. I'll be nice when she behaves nicely.... (read in full...)
My wife wants me back but I've booked a holiday with my internet lover!
Q. I develop an embarasing problem where i lost all of my head hair. resently my wife and i have drifted away and i was planning to leave her for another beautiful woman that i met online. she is dazling. since my head hair loss things have turned rite ...
A. 24 November 2009: You say: "Honey, having all this sex with you is causing my hair to fall out. I want a divorce so I can go on hollyday with the bimbo I met online without a guilty conscience." Should do the trick.... (read in full...)
He wants to drop child support in case his wife finds out!
Q. I had a child with a married man. He has to pay child support and he wants me to drop child support because he doesn't want his wife to find out. He tell's me I need to do the right thing or he'll never see his child again (he only see's once a ...
A. 24 November 2009: Just curious, did you purposely get pregnant by the married guy? This has a very familiar ring, did you think by having his baby he'd leave his wife for you? Have you posted on this site previously about this? Pardon me if I'm wrong but I think you ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a married man who is in an unhappy marriage! What should I do?
Q. Ok so there's this guy. I've known him for about ten years, infact even longer than his wife. He's actually a family friend and all we have ever been is friends. However about 7 months ago after me, his wife and him went out for some drinks, we went ...
A. 24 November 2009: Such a tired old scenario and every time the "other woman" is so convinced she's in an unique situation. Just look at the postings we have in the archives for crying out loud. From the Aunts and Uncles you are going to get the same advice and the ... (read in full...)
I'm Falling for a Married man, "my boyfriend"...I Need Some Advice.(affair)
Q. Im Falling for a Married Man,were having an affair. Ive allowed him to consider me as his girlfriend, and hes my "boyfriend" Ok, I will tell you all the informantion i think you need to know to understand what im going through, from beginning t...
A. 23 November 2009: Count on it, you will not love to hear what I think of your situation. You are being played like a fiddle. Cut off the sex and see how long he sticks around. "Perfect man" my big fat butt.... (read in full...)
Any tips for learning to drive a car?
Q. I didn't know wether to write on this website or not but I don't know any other, and i'm on here quite a lot and have had some great advice in the past. But anyway I have my first driving lesson tomorrow.. and as i'm not exactly a car whizz, i...
A. 23 November 2009: I can't give you any tips because you drive on the wrong side of the road. That by the way was the real reason we started the revolution.... (read in full...)
He was married for 23 years and now she wants him back! Should I run or hang on?
Q. Please help. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months. I am falling in love with him. We spend at least 4 days and nights together every week since we met. Everything is great. Here is the problem. He was married for 23 years. He was deeply in ...
A. 23 November 2009: He's using you. Are you willing to settle for that?... (read in full...)
Is he a "Phony"? Am I being taken down the Primrose Path? HELP!
Q. What do you think of the situation where you IM and text daily and where a man and woman have exchanged telephone numbers as well, but every time I try to call him, it goes to voicemail (both cell and house phone), and when I ask (via text) if I can ...
A. 23 November 2009: I agree, he's either married or just playing with you. If he really was interested in a REAL relationship with you he'd be knocking on your door. Quit hanging around your computer, put your phone in your pocket, and go out and have some actual eye ... (read in full...)
How often per week should a couple have sex?
Q. Ok since this has been a reoccuring theme on this site of late, I would like to settle once and for all, how often per week should a couple have sex. My theory is: 3 times combined with 3 times asking how her day was and back/foot rub. And one day...
A. 23 November 2009: I'd be rather hesitant to "brag" at the pub if I were you. I mean what kind of idiot has to rub his wife's feet in order for her to allow him to have sex with her? You be laughed out the swinging doors, Buddy.... (read in full...)
Do you think I'll grow to be over 6 foot tall?
Q. Hi... everyone I'm 18 years old and I have adolescence problems about my height, I'm 5 ft 10 inches but i dunno if i'm tall or short from other people's points of view, but I do want to grow more so i wanna know... will my height grow a bit more ...
A. 23 November 2009: I know a couple guys who were still growing in college so you may continue to grow but 5'10 is hardly short.... (read in full...)
Does no sex mean no call???
Q. Hi.. this past weekend I went on my date that I met online. He was very nice, I was a little nervous.. he was very confident (he's used to dating) he said he enjoyed my company... we met for coffee, we talked, and joked. He is a straight shooter... ...
A. 23 November 2009: You said yourself you've wasted three weeks on this guy, don't waste another second. He was only looking for one thing, be glad you didn't give it to him. There are decent men out there, they just are a little harder to find than the goofballs.... (read in full...)
How do I turn my FWB into something more?
Q. So there's this guy that I like, but I don't feel like he feels the same way I do. We are currently in a friends with benefits relationship, but I want it to be more. It would be very hard for us to be in a relationship, because I do online ...
A. 20 November 2009: Since you PM'd me with the information that you are not having sex with him, this really isn't the typical FWB scenario. I would just try to relax and see what develops between you guys.... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...
A. 20 November 2009: I think his wife has her nose in the air and has caught a scent.... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...
A. 20 November 2009: Knock off this nonsense immediately. If you aren't happy with your marriage do something to fix it, this is not an excuse to act like an idiot with some guy at work.... (read in full...)
My mother is a compulsive hoarder!
Q. My mother is a compulsive hoarder. She has been for as long as I can possibly remember, and once my father left it took over everything. I remember rushing to clean my house on my tenth birthday, so the friends I had invited over wouldn't see how ...
A. 20 November 2009: Your mother needs to have therapy, is she getting any counseling at all? You also need to get on with your own life so I would try to arrange both. Are there any other family members who can help you deal with your mother? ... (read in full...)
How do I turn my FWB into something more?
Q. So there's this guy that I like, but I don't feel like he feels the same way I do. We are currently in a friends with benefits relationship, but I want it to be more. It would be very hard for us to be in a relationship, because I do online ...
A. 20 November 2009: Are you having sex with him? ... (read in full...)
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