How do I turn my FWB into something more?
Q. So there's this guy that I like, but I don't feel like he feels the same way I do. We are currently in a friends with benefits relationship, but I want it to be more. It would be very hard for us to be in a relationship, because I do online ...
A. 20 November 2009: Since you PM'd me with the information that you are not having sex with him, this really isn't the typical FWB scenario. I would just try to relax and see what develops between you guys.... (read in full...)
My mother is a compulsive hoarder!
Q. My mother is a compulsive hoarder. She has been for as long as I can possibly remember, and once my father left it took over everything. I remember rushing to clean my house on my tenth birthday, so the friends I had invited over wouldn't see how ...
A. 20 November 2009: Your mother needs to have therapy, is she getting any counseling at all? You also need to get on with your own life so I would try to arrange both. Are there any other family members who can help you deal with your mother? ... (read in full...)
How do I turn my FWB into something more?
Q. So there's this guy that I like, but I don't feel like he feels the same way I do. We are currently in a friends with benefits relationship, but I want it to be more. It would be very hard for us to be in a relationship, because I do online ...
A. 20 November 2009: Are you having sex with him? ... (read in full...)
Fifteen and I want a baby now! Mature advice needed.
Q. Please help. I'm quite mature, and I have support from my family and friends. I've always wanted a baby, since I have hit puberty, I think of what it would be like, and how hard it'd be but at the same time how wonderful it'd be. I know it costs a ...
A. 20 November 2009: "When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child...."... (read in full...)
I'm so dependent on my boyfriend and now he only wants to be friends!
Q. My bf asked me to be friends because there were too many problems in our relationship. The thing is we have been living together 1yr. and 1/2... I love him very much, but I am so hurt. Every time I try to work it out with him he wants to, at ...
A. 20 November 2009: What medical problems do you have?... (read in full...)
'Truth or Dare' game leads to an awful revelation by my wife! Am I over-reacting?
Q. I've been cruising this site on and off for a while. I like to read the questions and have even given my own advice a few times. Now it is my turn to ask for advice. My wife and I had a party last weekend. After the group dwindled down to 12 or so...
A. 19 November 2009: I'm betting he's over his mad by now........ (read in full...)
I'm so dependent on my boyfriend and now he only wants to be friends!
Q. My bf asked me to be friends because there were too many problems in our relationship. The thing is we have been living together 1yr. and 1/2... I love him very much, but I am so hurt. Every time I try to work it out with him he wants to, at ...
A. 19 November 2009: Being emotionally dependant is one thing, are you financially dependant as well? In other words, do you work and earn an income? If you can afford to move out I think you should. You need to grow a spine here, Honey. You are a big girl and you need ... (read in full...)
Does giving a girl space work?
Q. Does giving a girl space and time work...
A. 19 November 2009: Sometimes yes sometimes no. ... (read in full...)
Married but cannot stop thinking about having sex with any woman I see or meet!
Q. Asked this question previousley ,neeed more answers.. i am a married man and i always think of having sex with any woman(of course a charming woman) i see or meet....at times these are my young aunts or a girl on the next desk in my office or my ...
A. 19 November 2009: As long as you are just thinking about it and are keeping your hands and your thoughts to yourself then there isn't any problem. If it's really bugging you, try to just occupy your thoughts by thinking about your lovely wife instead.... (read in full...)
Do girls like macho or caring guys?
Q. Hi There Everybody...I'm 18 Years Old And I Just Wanted to Know If Girls Like It If A Guy is Macho Or Just Kind,Caring And Fun Loving...Cos I Am Not macho...But I Do Like Having Fun And just being normal...And Watching Anime!!!...And I Dont Wanna ...
A. 19 November 2009: You can improve yourself hugely by not putting caps sporatically in every sentence you type. It Gives People A Headache When They Try To Read Your Writing.... (read in full...)
Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 18 November 2009: Oh they get it sooner or later and boy howdy I bet it hurts.... (read in full...)
Is being attracted to older men normal?
Q. my name is dan and i am seeing a guy who is 49 and im only 20 he is worried bout the age difference i am too but dnt tell him im worried about wat people will think of us also ive always been into older guys is that normal please help xxxxxxxx ...
A. 17 November 2009: Who posted what?... (read in full...)
My husband's ex wife...
Q. My husband and his ex-wife are going together to a school lunch for their son. Should I worry about her, she is a very manipulative person and I trust her as far as I can throw her. He used to give her whatever she wanted, I use to tell him that she ...
A. 17 November 2009: Kids may come first while they are still underage but not the ex-wife. If my husband told me that I came second to his first wife I'd straighten him out quick, fast, and in a hurry. He's out of line. Time for you to chat about this.... (read in full...)
How does one differentiate between a crush and real love?
Q. Hello :) I read some of the questions posted here and they've left me wondering... What is the difference between a small crush, fancying someone, infatuation and being in love? I know that with each one feelings run deeper. But how exactly do y...
A. 17 November 2009: It takes years of experience and frogs before you can really know the difference. Crushes can be very overwhelming but they never last the test of time and fade sooner or latter. If you truly love someone, it grows.... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm having sex right! Please help!
Q. Okay my name is jake. im 14 years old and i had sex i think! i dont no if i did it right or not. i mean she didnt make a sound it felt good 4 me but she didnt even move... i kinda thought she was dead or asleep. what am i doing. i was wondering if ...
A. 17 November 2009: So tell us Mr/Miss anonymous, were you all red in the face and stomping your little feet when you typed that? Sheesh, kids today....... (read in full...)
My b/f and his friends make really sexist jokes, should I worry?
Q. My bf and his friends (who are in their mid 20's) make jokes really sexist jokes. They also find it funny and entertaining talking about women being bashed up and abused by their bf's as well as women being raped and sexually assaulted. How can they...
A. 17 November 2009: I agree with the aunts and uncles, the writing's on the wall here, Babe. If you ignore it you'll regret it. Lose the loser.... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting to my husband's relationship with my daughter-in-law?
Q. I am having a problem with my husband and daughter in-law. It seems that they have a seperate relationship that I am not a part of they can talk for hours and hours about things I have nothing to do with my husband says he should have a seperate ...
A. 17 November 2009: How's your marriage as a whole? Are you two still loving and sexually active?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps going soft!
Q. hey guys, ok so me and my bf had sex a few weeks ago, it felt really good, but he really struggled to get it in me we tried and tried but it just wouldn't and he kept getting soft again because it was taking so long. Then we decided to go and by s...
A. 16 November 2009: It's sounds like the work of the "your under-aged and should be doing your homework instead" fairy to me. Pesky fellow ain't he?... (read in full...)
What is more important; love or bread?
Q. Love or bread? Which is more important to you? Sometimes, I really wonder should girls be practical and choose guys with good family background as in rich, average looking and with a high education level or should she really have to just b...
A. 16 November 2009: It's just as easy to love a rich man as it is a poor one. And I think it ends up being the luck of the draw, in other words, you love who you love. However you CHOOSE who you spend the rest of your life with, choose wisely.... (read in full...)
Is my teacher interested?
Q. should i tell my teacher i love him? he always flirts with me and hes not the flirting type at allll hes alil nerdy he makes comments like 1 day i was whislting in class and he said theres a bird in the class and someone said its hunting season a...
A. 12 November 2009: What about the married and father of twins part???????... (read in full...)
Is my teacher interested?
Q. should i tell my teacher i love him? he always flirts with me and hes not the flirting type at allll hes alil nerdy he makes comments like 1 day i was whislting in class and he said theres a bird in the class and someone said its hunting season a...
A. 12 November 2009: And here we have a deja vu all over again. A young school girl with a crush on her married,father of twins,teacher who absolutely is not looking for solid advice just goofy ideas on how to win him over so he'll leave his family and career in the ... (read in full...)
Can anyone please give me advice on azoospermia?
Q. Can anyone please give me any advice on azoospermia, which is when there is no sperm in the ejaculate. I know someone, 24yrs married, who has this but needs advice on any possible cure? Please, please help!!...
A. 12 November 2009: Have your friend consult a doctor.... (read in full...)
Am I setting myself up for another fall?
Q. hi im 28 and the guy i love is 23. i know him since i started my current job, i started 2 weeks b4 xmas in 2005 he was 19 and i was 24 when i first met him we connected on many levels then at the xmas party we kissed. at that stage he was in a ...
A. 12 November 2009: You are wasting your time and risking heartbreak with this guy. This relationship is simply not worth it. Why you adore him I can't see, he sounds pretty immature to me. In the very near future I think you'll realize how fortunate you are to be shed ... (read in full...)
Do I have too much libido?
Q. I wanted to see if i was over sexed so i kept a journal. In 1 yr i had sex with my wife 187 times and masterbated 263 times. And the sad thing is i want more and i dont think i do it enough. There is times even after i please my wife i am still horn...
A. 11 November 2009: I like this guy, he's into documentation.... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend controlling?
Q. Hi All Please help My girlfriend of one year has these traits. She is too bossy * Says I do everything wrong around the house * Housework and cooking have to be done her way * If i clean kitchen but leave milk or sauce out she complains ...
A. 11 November 2009: Exactly right, what does it matter whether we classify her as controlling, the question should be are you happy?... (read in full...)
People are gossiping about me. How can I cope?
Q. Why don't people mind their own business?! It's really annoying. Don't they realise they're hurting others? I don't know what to do? People have been talking about me and writing messages on msn/facebook which are hinted at me! If they got something ...
A. 11 November 2009: Cyber bullying is the lowest of the low. they do it because they are chicken livered sad pathetic little people.Do your best to ignore them and to hold your head high.... (read in full...)
Does a man NEED sex to be healthy?
Q. Want to know if a man can do without sex and be healthy?...
A. 11 November 2009: Healthy...no. Happy...yes.... (read in full...)
Is it normal 2 years down the line to still get aggravated by my boyfriend cheating on me?
Q. Hi, My boyfriend cheated on me 2 years ago. We had only been going out for a few months and on one drunken night my boyfriend made out with some girl. The next day he told me immediately and said he was sorry and I chose to forgive him. I'm glad I d...
A. 11 November 2009: This wasn't you?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-tell-my-boyfriend-about-the-almost.html... (read in full...)
Should I indulge her rape fantasies?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going through some rough times lately, and things look to be going downhill fast, no matter what I do. She's 8 months pregnant and I know her hormones are raging, so I've put my selfish needs aside in an attemp t...
A. 11 November 2009: Do not indulge this fantasy of hers until after her 6 weeks postpartum check up.... (read in full...)
Why didn't I bleed?
Q. Hi i'm 19 this year. I'd sex with my boyfriend quite a few times but i'd never bleed before. I did'nt had sex before until i was with him. Can you tell me why i did'nt bleed?...
A. 11 November 2009: It's just a strip of tissue and the thickness varies from female to female, some have whisper thin ones and some have industrial strength ones. Yours was most likely the former.... (read in full...)
After 8 years I have finally decided to end it, but I'm afraid to move on!
Q. I had been with my boyfriend for 81/2 years. Recently, he so-called proposed (without a ring). He had planned a simple wedding with the Justice of the Peace for January 05, 2010. We have never lived together, in fact, I don't even know where he ...
A. 11 November 2009: How do you pay your bills if you don't work?... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend worried about prison or not interested?
Q. I hooked up with a guy I'd known for a while this summer. We had a geat time and saw each other quite a lot for about a fortnight. I had recently moved back to the area he lived in but was working away a lot so we didn't see each other again til the ...
A. 11 November 2009: If I were you I'd just wait until you have the outcome of his court case. Once that is settled, you will need to have a nice chat with him about all this.... (read in full...)
Is it normal 2 years down the line to still get aggravated by my boyfriend cheating on me?
Q. Hi, My boyfriend cheated on me 2 years ago. We had only been going out for a few months and on one drunken night my boyfriend made out with some girl. The next day he told me immediately and said he was sorry and I chose to forgive him. I'm glad I d...
A. 11 November 2009: I read your other question about whether to tell your boyfriend about your "almost" kiss. Like the aunts said this make out session happened at the very beginning of your relationship. I really don't consider it to be cheating. If he's been faithful ... (read in full...)
Dating an older man who won't come to visit me!
Q. Hi guys! I'm in a long distance relationship of 1 and a half years now, with a wonderful man I really adore. He's 40 and I'm 24, big gap but we get on great and he makes me laugh all the time. Basically, I have to go away to uni for approx 6 mon...
A. 11 November 2009: Maybe he's afraid, because of the age difference, he'll look goofy or worse hanging out with a young college girl at a university.... (read in full...)
I need advice about my feelings for my teacher!
Q. This is probably going to be long, so bear with me. To start with, I don't want to hear how wrong you think/know these kind of relationships are, and how they will not work out and only cause trouble. I know this already. I'm old enough and matur...
A. 11 November 2009: Just curious, how old is he, and are you sure he's not married or in a relationship already?... (read in full...)
Mad crush!
Q. I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....
A. 10 November 2009: Just when I thought I was out... they pull me back in. ... (read in full...)
Need some thoughful ideas for my guy for Christmas, please help?
Q. My boyfriend is 24 and I dont know what to get him for christmas. I want to get him something that shows I care and put thought into it. I also dont want it to be original but i want it to be something he likes. He loves the redskins and beer lol. ...
A. 10 November 2009: I got my husband an air compressor last year, you'd of thought he died and went to Heaven!... (read in full...)
Mad crush!
Q. I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....
A. 10 November 2009: I kind of threw up in my mouth........ (read in full...)
Is this an online romance or am I over-reacting?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 7 years, but been together since we were teens. Only been with each other. She is very conservative and not at all into cheating ever. Very honest and pure. A Christian. Recently, she started playing an onli...
A. 10 November 2009: Absolutely that's why I'd tell her to knock it off.... (read in full...)
Is this an online romance or am I over-reacting?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 7 years, but been together since we were teens. Only been with each other. She is very conservative and not at all into cheating ever. Very honest and pure. A Christian. Recently, she started playing an onli...
A. 10 November 2009: You are not over-reacting. Tell her to knock off this nonsense. She is behaving very foolishly.... (read in full...)
Should I be alarmed by the timing of her personal grooming?
Q. I am a 44 y/o male engaged to a 42 y/o woman...we have been together for 1.5 yrs., our relationship has had it's ups and downs, however, we profess our commitment to each other. She seems to wear her ring with pride. Although, lately we have been in ...
A. 10 November 2009: Maybe she is planning on buying one once she gets there. Is there a reason why you don't trust her?... (read in full...)
Mad crush!
Q. I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....
A. 10 November 2009: q...penicillin will get rid of it for you...just like last time.... (read in full...)
Mad crush!
Q. I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....
A. 10 November 2009: See you guys, now we are ALL going to pay...... (read in full...)
Mad crush!
Q. I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....
A. 10 November 2009: q ???? You guys are killing me! You realize you are just going to make him more cocky than ever....... (read in full...)
Is my teacher interested?
Q. should i tell my teacher i love him? he always flirts with me and hes not the flirting type at allll hes alil nerdy he makes comments like 1 day i was whislting in class and he said theres a bird in the class and someone said its hunting season a...
A. 29 October 2009: If you tell him how you feel I know exactly what will happen. He'll run for cover and you'll be left standing with egg on your face. Let it go, this is a no win situation. ... (read in full...)
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