Its been a year of unrequited love, now my teacher seems to be deliberately avoiding me?
Q. OKay, I have written on this before, but decided to stay anonymous, some people may recognize the story. I am in year 12 studying A Levels. I am 16 year old girl. I have had feelings for a teacher at my school for a year now. He was my former He...
A. 18 January 2010: This is exactly why teachers are way under payed. Imagine dealing with this kind of thing over and over again. Tiresome to say the least.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says my vagina is too loose!
Q. I've been sexually active with my boyfriend (I also lost my virginity to him) for about a year and a half now. A few days ago I played with my PC muscles when he was inside me and he said it feels wonderful, and then proceeded to tell me that it was ...
A. 6 January 2010: Where are you living?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says my vagina is too loose!
Q. I've been sexually active with my boyfriend (I also lost my virginity to him) for about a year and a half now. A few days ago I played with my PC muscles when he was inside me and he said it feels wonderful, and then proceeded to tell me that it was ...
A. 5 January 2010: Your boyfriend is full of crap, ignore him or better yet dump him. If he knew anything about female anatomy he would be blushing at his idiotic comment. Since you are only 15, I wish I COULD scare you into thinking you can actually stretch your ... (read in full...)
Should I be annoyed my wife is discussing our marital problems with her friends.
Q. Should I be annoyed my wife is discussing our marital problems with her friends. Because I am! I know we have problems but I haven't talked to my friends about it, I feel it's private information. What do you think?...
A. 5 January 2010: I totally agree with you, Buddy. It's private business and I'd be more than annoyed if I were you. Put your foot down and tell her to keep her trap shut whenever she feels the urge to discuss your personal issues. She should know better anyway.... (read in full...)
Does he think am a SLU*T?
Q. ive been texting this guy.. hes real sweet and sexy.. and ive been proper flirty..cos am like that naturally.. now am scared maybe he thinks am easy cos he just asked for exclusive pic and i text him i dont do them kinda pics.. i t...
A. 5 January 2010: Whew, close call. Congrats you managed to escape from yet another jerk.... (read in full...)
I think my teacher may be attracted to me
Q. i think my teacher might be attracted to me, i see him all the time and we're pretty close. some things he has said or done: told me i am beautiful, cute, said i had a nice arse, once he even said i was orering him around like a married couple. ...
A. 5 January 2010: I have a question before I answer this, do you have a crush on this teacher? Does his touching you make you uncomfortable or do you like it?... (read in full...)
The girl I love is in the hands of someone else
Q. I'm a 20 year old male from Holland. I've never been in a relationship before. There were some girls that said i was attractive. I didn't feel anything for them and i'm not a guy who takes advantage of them. I would not want to break their hearts, ...
A. 5 January 2010: If I were you I'd cut bait and run. I don't see a future here for you.... (read in full...)
Can I get birth control without my parents knowing?
Q. Is it possible to get a perscription 4 birth control w/ out my parrents finding out? Do doctors always tell ur parents about that stuff?...
A. 5 January 2010: If there is a Planned Parenthood clinic in your town, you can get BC without parental consent at your age.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'm lying about my bra size. Should I be pissed?
Q. My boyfriend doesnt believe I wear a size d or double-d bra, I know he was just saying that because he wants to see my boobs, but for some reason I got really pissed about it. Is it normal for me to get mad at him?...
A. 5 January 2010: It's great that this old ploy is still around, it gives life continuity. It's also great you didn't sucker for it.... (read in full...)
Is this scar tissue after having a baby?
Q. Hi! I've had my first baby 5 weeks ago and I noticed that there is something inside my vagina blocking the entrance and it looks like scar tissue or something. I tried looking this up online and found nothing. What could it be? Can I still have ...
A. 4 January 2010: See if you can move your appointment up, this is a question for your doctor not us.... (read in full...)
I told him I would call his home!
Q. I was in a relationship with a married man and I thought I got pregnant and tried to contact him several times. So I called him a few times for about 5 days and he didn't answer. Then I sent him a message stating that I thought I was pregnant and I ...
A. 4 January 2010: Glenn Close aka Alex, delivers then that memorable line, “I’m not going to be ignored, Dan!” ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mum annoys me to hell! How can we start to get on better?
Q. so annoyed me and my boyfriends mum dont get on she annoys me to hell!! been together 2years and we have a 7month old daughter help me please...
A. 4 January 2010: I suggest you kill her with kindness.... (read in full...)
My ex's new girlfriend is a wanna-be-replica of me!
Q. Is it just me or is it creepy? My ex-boyfriend and i broke up about a year ago. It was my choice and a good choice, however after casually running into him a few times I met his new girlfriend...who really reminds me of...me. Not in a good sense at ...
A. 4 January 2010: I think it is very obvious from your post and your replies why you liked the first answer best. Some people come here only wanting to hear a certain thing and just get angry with the wiser responses.... (read in full...)
This woman will do things my wife will not do
Q. I am currently married 10+ years. Was married nearly 10 previous. Have posted an ad for a descrete sexual relationship and found my potential match. She is willing to do things with me my wife will not. She wants me to do things that my wife would ...
A. 4 January 2010: I agree with q, a wank over a wonk is a much better idea.... (read in full...)
Do I let a married man divorce his wife or should I move on?
Q. Okay heres the deal, I have fallen for a married man, and he likes me as well. Hes going to jeporadize his marriage to be with me. Do i go ahead and let him, that way me and him can be together, or do I just cut contact completely? ...
A. 3 January 2010: How nice, a lovely lady who has no thought for the wellbeing of her fellow mankind...Happy New Year... (read in full...)
Do I let a married man divorce his wife or should I move on?
Q. Okay heres the deal, I have fallen for a married man, and he likes me as well. Hes going to jeporadize his marriage to be with me. Do i go ahead and let him, that way me and him can be together, or do I just cut contact completely? ...
A. 2 January 2010: ox = sucker... (read in full...)
Has any of you ever had a threesome. I need tips and every detail!
Q. I think this is like the funniest question I've ever asked on here. Lol. But here goes...I really am interested in having a threesome. I spoke to my bf#2 about it lol and he said ok. So last nite, he brought it up again and was asking me how do I ...
A. 2 January 2010: tell you what, LOL this is certainly is something that will come back to burn you ,LOL. I fact, you will be amazed how this will affect your relationship, LOL. Wise up Chickie, LOLO... (read in full...)
Happy New Year!
Q. HAPPY NEW YEAR to all readers, Aunts, etc.! It's been a very good year. Please don't be in agony if your New Year's eve love dream doesn't happen tonight-- it's just one long evening, and I get nervous, too, but try to be philosophical. Just r...
A. 1 January 2010: you can't get my Christmas diamonds they are mine all mine....... (read in full...)
My little sister missed a period, but she has never had sex. Could something be wrong?
Q. Hey i was wondering if some one could help me help my little sister. Shes 14 but all most 15 and shes never had sex. But she hasn't had her period this month and shes never missed one before and she hates talking about it so she came to me.I was ...
A. 1 January 2010: You know I hate these kinds of questions because I wonder where the heck is the mother? Why isn't she involved? Please let me know where your mother is or isn't. This is something a mother can handled quick, fast, and in a hurry.... (read in full...)
Happy New Year!
Q. HAPPY NEW YEAR to all readers, Aunts, etc.! It's been a very good year. Please don't be in agony if your New Year's eve love dream doesn't happen tonight-- it's just one long evening, and I get nervous, too, but try to be philosophical. Just r...
A. 1 January 2010: getting skunk drunk in NC and won't be traveling anywhere except from the computer to the bathroom. y'all are safe.... (read in full...)
Speedo watcher
Q. I am in love with a guy at the gym who wears speedos! I can't take my eyes off him when he gets in or out of the pool. He is tall and thin but looks incredible in those skimpy speedos. When he gets out of the pool, I have asked him some question...
A. 1 January 2010: I absolutely can't make a judgement on this until I see a picture....... (read in full...)
Its been a year of unrequited love, now my teacher seems to be deliberately avoiding me?
Q. OKay, I have written on this before, but decided to stay anonymous, some people may recognize the story. I am in year 12 studying A Levels. I am 16 year old girl. I have had feelings for a teacher at my school for a year now. He was my former He...
A. 1 January 2010: Not only did I respond to you initial question I also responded to all your resultant questions. It got very tedious when it became clear you were not looking for advice but rather some kind of game plane. You need to get over this.... (read in full...)
My friend lied to me now I don't want to trust her again
Q. So I trusted my friend but she lied to me. I feel stupid because I can not believe I couldn't see through her. I believed everything she told me - yes everything. Now I feel upset, hurt and very angry. The lie was small but still hurtful. She kept ...
A. 18 December 2009: If you don't want to be her friend then don't be. You can pick your friends.... (read in full...)
I don't understand the need for some people to hurt others during sex
Q. More so a question for the guys, ... but comments from females welcome too. After some comments heard today, I am rather curious as to the overall psychology going on behind this seemingly wide spread phenomena that causes SOME guys to actually...
A. 18 December 2009: I blame porn...oh and masterbaition (sic)... (read in full...)
She did me wrong and I broke it off, but why isnt she begging for me to come back?
Q. So, my ex has done me wrong--undeniably. I broke it off. She cried and still wanted to be friends. I said no. She got angry. It's been 4 days. Why hasn't she called me back begging? I don't really (only kind of) want to talk to her, but it sure...
A. 18 December 2009: I think you've bought the farm, Garm.... (read in full...)
How would married men handle the consequences if you mislead your other woman, who then becomes vengeful and discloses the affair to your family?
Q. I would like to address this email to men's point of view who somehow cheated on their wife both online affairs and in real situation. Men cheat because there are women who are wiling to cheat with them, these are facts. Most likely women too...
A. 18 December 2009: I think you are being way to easy on the "poor deceived" females. I think the majority of women who have affairs with married men know exactly what they are doing.... (read in full...)
My husband wants to watch me with another man
Q. I have been married to my husband for 13 years and during this time he has hinted off and on that it would be a turn on for him to see me have sex with another man. I remember at first feeling repulsed by even the thought of being with someone else ...
A. 18 December 2009: Based on this sentence:
"In a way I want to be able to enjoy myself sexually and let loose but on the other hand I feel like to have sex there should be some emotional connection."
I have to advise against this experiment. These situatio... (read in full...)
How do I stop or get over my family's ridicule?
Q. hi, i live in a village which has a massive family who alos live here, they consisit of aunts, uncles, cousins, grandma, grandad etc all scattered around it. my brother had a baby with one of these family memebers a few months back. me and his ...
A. 18 December 2009: I guess the reason nobody has answered your question is because there isn't really a good one to give. Other than to ignore your relatives that are acting like idiots, there's nothing to do. You've done nothing wrong so at least you can hold your ... (read in full...)
How would married men handle the consequences if you mislead your other woman, who then becomes vengeful and discloses the affair to your family?
Q. I would like to address this email to men's point of view who somehow cheated on their wife both online affairs and in real situation. Men cheat because there are women who are wiling to cheat with them, these are facts. Most likely women too...
A. 18 December 2009: ha ha sis! And one of the women was a cougar!... (read in full...)
Sharing a bed with my girlfriend has become a nightmare. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I'm having some real problems in bed with my girlfriend, but not in the way you would immediately think. Sharing a bed with her has become a total nightmare, specifically when we stay at her flat. I'm usually awoken at nights when she pulls m...
A. 18 December 2009: My husband snores and talks in his sleep...a lot. After all these years I can pretty much tune it out but I know another couple who have a wonderful marriage AND separate bedrooms (for sleeping purposes only). I suggest a second blanket and if that ... (read in full...)
The Professor crush, what to do?
Q. Well I have a crush on my professor and I'm not sure if he feels the same, or what I should do about it. It started last semester I was in his political science class. Watching him teach with such passion sparked my interest. My feelings grew wh...
A. 18 December 2009: I'm afraid you are indeed reading too much into this. Even at the university level the guy could lose his job if he gets involved with a student at the same university whether he has you in a class or not. He isn't stupid enough to take that risk ... (read in full...)
How would married men handle the consequences if you mislead your other woman, who then becomes vengeful and discloses the affair to your family?
Q. I would like to address this email to men's point of view who somehow cheated on their wife both online affairs and in real situation. Men cheat because there are women who are wiling to cheat with them, these are facts. Most likely women too...
A. 18 December 2009: yeah well tell that to Tiger Woods...... (read in full...)
Dad is cheating on mom I have the messages as proof do I let mom hear them?
Q. My parents have been married for 19 years and my dad has been cheating on my mom for as long as i can remember i believe she knows i thought he stopped but i have his voicemail password and i secretly check it a few times a week and there are ...
A. 18 December 2009: What a buttinski. You are way out of line here my dear. Count on the fact that your mother knows and is handling things the way she wants to. If you stick you nose into things you may force her to do something she has preferred not to do or at least ... (read in full...)
I became compulsive liar and he broke up with me. I want him back but don't tell me to tell him the truth!
Q. Hi. ok i've known dis guy for 4 yrs n we've gone out for 3 n half of them. i had started lying a lot to him regardin Oy health n stuff jus to get more attention from him. he always loved me n believed me. however i started turnin into a compulsive ...
A. 18 December 2009: If you truly want a chance to get him back, you have to tell him you lied about cutting yourself. He broke up with you because of this lie. Nobody wants to be the reason somebody does this to themself. I'm not saying he will take you back after you ... (read in full...)
I know about his affair, but I want to win him back. Should I tell him I know?
Q. I've been with my fiancee for 6 years. He is the only man I have ever been intimate with. He has been with several other girls before me... and now he is seeing someone else. He has been cheating on me for the past 2 months (or so? I don't know for...
A. 18 December 2009: Sorry , that's "LIVE your life on the back burner" this is a very upsetting post.... (read in full...)
I know about his affair, but I want to win him back. Should I tell him I know?
Q. I've been with my fiancee for 6 years. He is the only man I have ever been intimate with. He has been with several other girls before me... and now he is seeing someone else. He has been cheating on me for the past 2 months (or so? I don't know for...
A. 18 December 2009: You have just had a glimpse into the future if you do indeed marry this loser. Sorry honey, but do you really want to life your life on the back burner of his stove? Desperately struggling for the crumbs of his attention, knowing he'll be off to ... (read in full...)
My question is: why is it so hard for us to talk about making it official?!
Q. Okay so let me tell you a little bit about my situation..so thrs this guys that ive known for a while but we've decided to be FWB...so far its been great no strings attatched rite?!...well im starting to catch feelings for him..and i know he is too ...
A. 18 December 2009: Did you write this to us yesterday?
"I've been seeing this guy for quite a while now and have been friends with benefits with no emotional attatchments involved...but why is it that when either he or i are drunk we spill out our real emotions? Mean... (read in full...)
I fell in love with a girl on a train, found out who she is, but she doesn't want anything to do with me!
Q. am i love with this girl that i saw a couple of times when i took a train. i found out about her from a common friend of ours.. He gave me her contact details and i contacted her, i chatted with her a couple of times under the pretense that i found ...
A. 18 December 2009: You become a prize by not throwing yourself in her direction every chance you get.... (read in full...)
Acne scars are so bad that they make my life a living hell!
Q. This is making my life a living hell, and I just can´t bear it anymore. My acne scars are so severe, that I look disfigured. I saw some photos today and the scars are so prominent that I look as if I´ve been attacked with a knife. I called...
A. 17 December 2009: Have you seen a dermatologist? It's amazing what they can do these days. Dermabrasion I think it's called. ... (read in full...)
I get teased because I don't make out with g/f
Q. everyone of my friends bugs me about not makeout with my gf when we r alone how do imake the move and then how do i makeout...
A. 17 December 2009: Damn I can't believe that a red-blooded Canadian guy your age would ever want to be apart of this drama. It's a beautiful day for a game of hockey. When you are really ready to make out you'll figure it out.... (read in full...)
Please help...hes married
Q. I need help... I really like this man that is married. And i can tell he likes me too. I have never told this man. Cause i know hes married. And im not the type of person to break up someones home... I think about him all the time. Please help. Do i ...
A. 17 December 2009: Yep you keep it to yourself and you also keep being the type of person who doesn't break up someone's home.... (read in full...)
I am 14 and worried my love for my fiance is fading fast
Q. I've been with my fiance who lives 750 miles away for 1 year and almost 2 months (who was also my first boyfriend), and I feel like my love for him is gone. I an't explain why I feel like this, I just startd to feel like this after I came back from ...
A. 17 December 2009: An 8 year engagement...please let us know how things turn out...in 8 years.... (read in full...)
Our friend is trying to ruin our relationship!
Q. Need answer quick. My boyfriend and I have a former friend in common, a female, who I believe wanted to date him. She is jealous of our relationship and before I got involved with him, she was highly upset to learn that I wanted to date him. So ...
A. 17 December 2009: Yes I do, like I said I wouldn't say anything. If she's up to no good, I think he'll figure it out sooner or later. ... (read in full...)
Our friend is trying to ruin our relationship!
Q. Need answer quick. My boyfriend and I have a former friend in common, a female, who I believe wanted to date him. She is jealous of our relationship and before I got involved with him, she was highly upset to learn that I wanted to date him. So ...
A. 17 December 2009: I wouldn't say anything to him at this point. I think people's true colors eventually come out so if I were you I'd just sit back but keep your eyes open. I hope you and the boyfriend have a Merry Christmas.... (read in full...)
I fell in love with a girl on a train, found out who she is, but she doesn't want anything to do with me!
Q. am i love with this girl that i saw a couple of times when i took a train. i found out about her from a common friend of ours.. He gave me her contact details and i contacted her, i chatted with her a couple of times under the pretense that i found ...
A. 16 December 2009: I know you don't want to leave her alone but you have no options here but to do so. Stay busy and try to focus on something else. There can't be all that much pain since you never had much of a relationship to begin with.... (read in full...)
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