I haven't heard from my lover and I'm worried!
Q. I have a lover of four months, we have had wonderful times together, not very much contact but he did explain that he forgets, this I can understand as he has a wife and family and its been Christmas etc. However last week he sent me a reply text ...
A. 22 January 2010: In cheaters we trust? I don't think so.... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from my lover and I'm worried!
Q. I have a lover of four months, we have had wonderful times together, not very much contact but he did explain that he forgets, this I can understand as he has a wife and family and its been Christmas etc. However last week he sent me a reply text ...
A. 21 January 2010: Trust me...you definitely DO NOT want to know what I'm thinking and I can't tell you what I would do in your situation because I'd never be there in the first place.... (read in full...)
Not sure if he penetrated! Am I still a virgin?
Q. I am in a relationship with a great guy,love him to bits. The problem is we had sex a while ago for the first time and we both said it was our first time. The thing is I had dated another guy (for like 2 years) before going out with the new guy...
A. 20 January 2010: We are busy answering your previous post, no need to keep reposting.... (read in full...)
How can I stop loving my best friends husband? Help!
Q. Where do i start with this one! a brief outline i have been happily with my husband for 19 years and then 2 years ago my boss made advances towards me. i went through a horrific two years with him where i totally lost grip of everything, my husband,...
A. 20 January 2010: I,I,I,I,I,I,I,me,me,me,me,me,myself,myself,myself,myself,
pretty much sums it all up doesn't it? I couldn't help but notice you mentioned your husband once.... (read in full...)
He broke into my home and stole my jewellery!!!
Q. I'm still having problems with all this guys. i have mentioned before about this thief of a boyfriend i had, he was convicted of fraud and theft on myself last year, has been in and out of prison and has stolen from EVERONE he meets for his ...
A. 20 January 2010: You've got a lawyer, listen to him.... (read in full...)
Why do boys think its ok to trample dreams?
Q. was i just the bounce back girl well basicly i got with this boy and i must say things were going great untill he told me he had fallen for another girl i dont know what to do anymore why did he do this too me !! why do boys think its okay to ...
A. 20 January 2010: Because they are young and there's no reason to settle down with one person. And neither should you. Stay loose and fancy free while you can. Don't waste your beautiful youth, plenty of time for commitment later on.... (read in full...)
Has anyone else been in my situation and can you offer any support?
Q. hey is anyone out there who was a victim of a sexually assault.. as for the past 2weeks i ahve had nightmares about the attacks and wonderd if some1 on here could surport me but private mail on this website?? im strugglein gettin thro eachday ...
A. 20 January 2010: Do they not have rape crisis centers in your area? Check it out. They have victim support groups and they can be hugely beneficial. If you don't have anything of the sort where you live perhaps you could find a trained counselor who can help.... (read in full...)
How old do you have to be before age doesn't matter?
Q. How old do you have to be before age doesnt matter? Im 22years old and i really like a girl who is only 17, 5years is a big difference at this age i think, although she doesnt act or look 17, i feel as though we are the same age but i know when we ...
A. 20 January 2010: What do her parents think? If you don't know, you'd best ask them.... (read in full...)
What does he mean when he says I'm in trouble?
Q. I made a silly mistake of having a one week affair with a man on my job. He was the cutest thing I had ever seen. I just wanted to sleep with him and nothing more-especially since he is married 33 yrs. I heard he was a play boy and run through ...
A. 20 January 2010: Get yourself checked out for STD's. He probably gave you one.... (read in full...)
Virginity question
Q. Hi, I am in a relationship with a great guy,love him to bits. The problem is we had sex a while ago for the first time and we both said it was our first time. The thing is I had dated another guy (for like 2 years) before going out with the...
A. 20 January 2010: I think you lost your virginity to this new guy. So relax and enjoy your blossoming relationship. Best of luck.... (read in full...)
Is it worth staying in this marriage when my husband admits to wanting to have sex with porn stars?
Q. Usually when I read questions about porn the answers state that the men are usually more interested in the acts than the women and 'he wouldnt really want to have sex with them'. However my husband openly admits he wanted to have sex with the porn...
A. 20 January 2010: Hell if Johnny Depp rang my doorbell I'd.... But really if "wishes were hores then beggers would ride". Your husband is a dork for telling you this and I wonder why he did, but your reaction is just a tad over the top. Tell him that if Johnny Depp ... (read in full...)
Should I divorce my long distance wife?
Q. Hie.. I just got married about a month ago and I am already thinking about separation. The reason behind it is that i do not think my wife is a good wife. We hhad a history where were were dating for about a year and broke up due to commitmant is...
A. 20 January 2010: Is this long distance going to be a permanent situation? Are you guys eventually going to actually live together?... (read in full...)
What helps to get rid of stretch marks?
Q. Okay I was just wondering what would get rid of stretch marks? I have stretch marks due to pregnancy, really bad ones. My belly looks like it has pink Zebra stripes. I've heard Maderma helps them to fade, what else helps them to fade? And in the ...
A. 20 January 2010: Strech marks are scar tissue. They do fade and become thinner but never disappear. To get totally rid of them you will have to shell out some big bucks. I can barely see mine but then my last baby just turned 28. My husband always called my strech ... (read in full...)
Am I being selfish for wanting him to man-up to his family?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over two months now. The only problem is I think he is a little too attached to his family. He is 19 years old, yet he still has a curphew of 11:30 pm, this includes weekends. We also don't get to see ...
A. 20 January 2010: Tigerlily is right as rain. At your age girlfriends come and go but family is forever. His family is obviously very important to him and I think that is very admirable. And assuming he's still living at home, his parents have every right to set a ... (read in full...)
Is my husband secretly gay or bi?
Q. Is My Husband Secretly Gay? He watches gay man on man porn only? He watches gay mini-series and soaps like Jon Paul and Craig and Craig Dean? He fully admits to loathing having sex with me, and sometimes we go months without sex because s...
A. 19 January 2010: In your case you need to decide whether you'd be better off with him or without him. Consider all the +'s and all the -'s. You obviously will have to give up something so decide what aspects of a "normal" marriage you can do without...forever. Good ... (read in full...)
Do guys get turned off by pubic hair?
Q. Do guys get turned off by pubic hair? Im 16 and im scared guys wil think im dirty. plz help ...
A. 18 January 2010: Jeez Louise, we get frog gin' pubic hair question every flappin' day why bring up ones from 3 or more years ago..check the dates people... (read in full...)
Its been a year of unrequited love, now my teacher seems to be deliberately avoiding me?
Q. OKay, I have written on this before, but decided to stay anonymous, some people may recognize the story. I am in year 12 studying A Levels. I am 16 year old girl. I have had feelings for a teacher at my school for a year now. He was my former He...
A. 18 January 2010: This is exactly why teachers are way under payed. Imagine dealing with this kind of thing over and over again. Tiresome to say the least.... (read in full...)
I am 14 and really ready for a baby... got money and stuff, what do you think?
Q. hi, i am 14 and want a baby..ive cared for babys all of mii life n have the money for it...i kno a baby is alot of work and its all about the baby and u come last..but i dont care.. i wanna have a baby to love me and share their feelings wit me n ...
A. 15 January 2010: Quick question, what state do you live in?... (read in full...)
I have never felt so lonely and lost before
Q. My heart is so empty. I am 54. My Mum, Dad and brother all died within three months of each other six years ago. My best friend died a couple of months before that. My Mum and Dad lived with me and we were very close. I loved them all so much and ...
A. 14 January 2010: Well at least you have a loving husband. Instead of wasting your energy dwelling on the bad things in your life perhaps you should conserve it so you can focus on doing some volunteer work or a hobby. Pity parties are no fun.... (read in full...)
I am not sure how much cum is normal
Q. hi i have a new gf and the other night after sex we go talking about how much cum is normal. she told me her x would cum loads. what is the normal amount and do womon prefer more or less...
A. 14 January 2010: We had this question yesterday. Check out the answers:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-women-enjoy-a-bigger-load.html... (read in full...)
Despite our 14 year age difference she wants to take it to the next level
Q. I guys I was trying to ask google for a answer to my heavy heart when I found this community. I met this girl on-line a while back. We became very good friends. And with time we got very close. When we met she was going through a crisis or ...
A. 14 January 2010: I think you guys should date. That is the only way you will be able to see if the age difference is indeed a stumbling block for your relationship. Really get to know each other. Life is too short to sit around second guessing everything. Go for it.... (read in full...)
Advice on doing a good striptease???
Q. My and my boyfriend have planned to have a sexy night soon. One thing that I would really like to do is a strip tease for him as I've never done one properly before for him. I was just wondering what actually makes a good strip tease? Do I start wi...
A. 13 January 2010: A snare drum with cymbals is a nice touch, of course that would entail having a drummer which could be rather compromising...never mind.... (read in full...)
Do women enjoy their clitoris being "tapped" on
Q. Do women enjoy men "tapping" or hitting their penis against the vagina, especially near the clitoris area. A couple of my mates said their girlfriends enjoyed doing so because it stimulates the clitoris. I would simply like to know your p...
A. 12 January 2010: Tapping is fine as long as you don't use a Ball Pein.... (read in full...)
Do I have to be friends with my best friend's boyfriend?
Q. I have this issue with my friend and her boyfriend! My friend's bf and I used to talk - then one day he stopped talking to me...I did not too much of it, thinking that he was in one of his moods...I would also try to make conversations ab...
A. 12 January 2010: Yeah I agree with the sister, why on earth does this cause you so much stress and what did you say..Agony???!For crying out loud if you don't like him then only hang out with your friend when it's just going to be "us girls". I too think you are way ... (read in full...)
I'm falling for a taken man... is he falling for me?
Q. Right, im 25 and met this guy who is now 27 in a bar in february of last year. we had a great night together and he gave me his number at the end of the night. anyway totally forgot about his number then in july of this year i changed phones and ...
A. 12 January 2010: Don't beat yourself up CG, I say crap all the time.... (read in full...)
What can you do to prevent sleep paralysis?
Q. What can you do to prevent sleep paralysis? Hi, so I just asked about my dreams and someone said that it sounds like sleep paralysis. So I looked it up and it sounds like I have it. Let me take you back to after I used to have these dreams whe...
A. 12 January 2010: Say your prayers before you go to sleep. Demons hate it when people do that.... (read in full...)
His mum controls his life!!!
Q. I'm 29 years old, my boyfriend is 46 years old, we've been together for four years now and his mom is 71 years old, she controls his life tells him what to do what he should be doing and what he shouldn't be doing with his life. she wants him to ...
A. 12 January 2010: If he's 46 and still holding onto the apron strings then I guess you'll just have to accept it and wait her out (if you get my drift) or move on without him. ... (read in full...)
Do tattoos hurt?
Q. ok so i just have a little question, could anyone tell me if getting a tattoo or piercing is sorer? i had amy tragus pierced back in june and it was sore, not to forget i have a terrible fear of needles but really want a small tattoo thanks...
A. 12 January 2010: Who's Amy Tragus? Is she mad at you for getting her pierced?... (read in full...)
We tried to make a go of it, but he hits me when I want answers about his affair
Q. I need some advice so please take the time and read my post. I have been with my h/b for 29yrs married for 21yrs,two years ago i found out he was having an affair with a 28 year old co worker i belive he was thinking of leaving me to be with her she ...
A. 12 January 2010: Your entire marriage is a sham. He has been unfaithful from the get go and now he's smacking you around. Take the S.O.B. to court, get a divorce and every damn nickel you can.... (read in full...)
What to do about this Scarlet Letter?
Q. The guy I'm seeing has a girlfriend. I've met her, I know who she is and I remind him all the time that he has a girlfriend. I know some of you will judge me, knowing he has a girlfriend, but I've tried to stop, so has he, but apparently it's still ...
A. 11 January 2010: EXACTLY q! To the poster: Are you looking for a specific answer or do you really want to hear the truth?... (read in full...)
Can a labia majora be docked?
Q. my best friend has a quite big labia majora and a friend of us suggested her that she should put a rubber round it so it can cut out(docked),like people do it on dog's tails.is that ok?i am worried about her......
A. 11 January 2010: Wowie Zowie I wouldn't do it to a dog's tail.....beg her to see a doctor.... (read in full...)
Embarrising question most likely for females to answer!
Q. Ok this is a very embarrasing question to ask, but I told my boyfriend that I had to clean the drain in my shower because it was clogged. And he asked if I shaved my crotch and I told him no i haven't. Reason is because I was taught to wait till I'm ...
A. 8 January 2010: A day without a pube question is like a day without sunshine.... (read in full...)
I want to walk around in my underware
Q. I feel like taking off my clothes and leave my underwear and bra on only but afraid that my family will find out but I cant resist doing it because my kids would see it...
A. 8 January 2010: panty hamster....ha... (read in full...)
Should I deal with my abusive stepdad or leave home?
Q. Last night, while I was sitting on the couch with my mom and step dad, my step dad and i started arguing mildly. He started to raise his voice, and I asked him to stop, but he didn't, and kept raising his voice even more. He was really getting on my ...
A. 8 January 2010: My advice then is to keep a low profile (don't provoke him)and stay away from your Step-Dad as much as you can. There's always at least two sides to every story. I had lippy young teenagers and while I never resorted to smacking them, the urge was ... (read in full...)
This is all just such a mess... please give me your perspective on things.
Q. I am confused, and can't seem to find the right way out of this mess... I have been with my husband for 21 years, we are both in our late 30's. Things have not been good for about 8 years, due to his job. He works away from home and we never se...
A. 7 January 2010: Let me jump in while q is having his moment, what i think you should do is tell your husband that he needs to give you more time to enjoy your freedom and your new boyfriend. If things don't pan out with the new guy then maybe you'll be interested ... (read in full...)
Should I deal with my abusive stepdad or leave home?
Q. Last night, while I was sitting on the couch with my mom and step dad, my step dad and i started arguing mildly. He started to raise his voice, and I asked him to stop, but he didn't, and kept raising his voice even more. He was really getting on my ...
A. 7 January 2010: Time to leave the nest, fly the coop, get out of Dodge...... (read in full...)
Is my belly button sticking out because I'm pregnant?
Q. Is there any other reason why a woman's belly button would stick out? I just recently noticed that my belly button has slowly started moving outward. I don't feel pregnant or look pregnant. I have a 6 month old who I breast feed, so isn't it ...
A. 7 January 2010: Any changes to your body should be discussed with your doctor.... (read in full...)
I want to walk around in my underware
Q. I feel like taking off my clothes and leave my underwear and bra on only but afraid that my family will find out but I cant resist doing it because my kids would see it...
A. 7 January 2010: I say go for it if you feel like it...just don't fry up any bacon.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says my vagina is too loose!
Q. I've been sexually active with my boyfriend (I also lost my virginity to him) for about a year and a half now. A few days ago I played with my PC muscles when he was inside me and he said it feels wonderful, and then proceeded to tell me that it was ...
A. 6 January 2010: Where are you living?... (read in full...)
The physical element of our relationship is lacking so does he have the right to be with another woman?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm interested to hear from anyone whose been cheated on by their someone they love.. HAS cheated on someone they love.. or feels patient enough to read my story and give me their honest opinion... So I'm 27 and have been with m...
A. 6 January 2010: Get the extra piece of skin removed. Have you even researched your medical options on this? You certainly can't expect to have a committed relationship with any guy in the future if you don't get yourself straightened out first.... (read in full...)
Should I shave my dick??
Q. I am 14 and wondering if i should shave my dick what do you girls pefer most?...
A. 5 January 2010: The penis museum, and that's located where?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says my vagina is too loose!
Q. I've been sexually active with my boyfriend (I also lost my virginity to him) for about a year and a half now. A few days ago I played with my PC muscles when he was inside me and he said it feels wonderful, and then proceeded to tell me that it was ...
A. 5 January 2010: Your boyfriend is full of crap, ignore him or better yet dump him. If he knew anything about female anatomy he would be blushing at his idiotic comment. Since you are only 15, I wish I COULD scare you into thinking you can actually stretch your ... (read in full...)
Its been a year of unrequited love, now my teacher seems to be deliberately avoiding me?
Q. OKay, I have written on this before, but decided to stay anonymous, some people may recognize the story. I am in year 12 studying A Levels. I am 16 year old girl. I have had feelings for a teacher at my school for a year now. He was my former He...
A. 1 January 2010: Not only did I respond to you initial question I also responded to all your resultant questions. It got very tedious when it became clear you were not looking for advice but rather some kind of game plane. You need to get over this.... (read in full...)
Do guys get turned off by pubic hair?
Q. Do guys get turned off by pubic hair? Im 16 and im scared guys wil think im dirty. plz help ...
A. 8 October 2009: Jeese Louise you guys! We get a pube post every dang day there's no need to resurrect one from years ago!... (read in full...)
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