I'm asking for too much with this married guy, right?
Q. hi... i am in a very happy relationship for past 4 years.. everything is just right. I met another guy, a married guy on a trip n had great fun wit him!! After d trip, telephonic conversations started(bf knws).. thenn started d phone sex, n i am ...
A. 8 March 2010: Not murdering someone who pisses you off is the best policy. By your reasoning, murder is the second best policy.... (read in full...)
I'm asking for too much with this married guy, right?
Q. hi... i am in a very happy relationship for past 4 years.. everything is just right. I met another guy, a married guy on a trip n had great fun wit him!! After d trip, telephonic conversations started(bf knws).. thenn started d phone sex, n i am ...
A. 8 March 2010: It's disquesting to say the least.... (read in full...)
Do guys get turned off by pubic hair?
Q. Do guys get turned off by pubic hair? Im 16 and im scared guys wil think im dirty. plz help ...
A. 18 January 2010: Jeez Louise, we get frog gin' pubic hair question every flappin' day why bring up ones from 3 or more years ago..check the dates people... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 28 October 2009: q, I was boot knocking when you were still wet behind your ears, no "splaining" necessary Ricky.... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 28 October 2009: Sorry all about the hiccup... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 28 October 2009: I don't think so Uncle Phil 'cause my knees tremble when I see George Clooney but alas there's no boot knocking involved.... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 28 October 2009: I don't think so Uncle Phil 'cause my knees tremble when I see George Clooney but alas there's no boot knocking involved.... (read in full...)
Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?
Q. Hi, I just found out I am 6 weeks pregnant with my first child.I am 21 years old. and boy, I am so nervous! My bf and I live together and are both very happy about this.Its unexpected but were ok with it. I was just wandering if anyone has any ...
A. 16 October 2009: Just wait until you feel it kick! Wow I just loved that!... (read in full...)
Its over so why cant I let go?
Q. im so confused about my feelings please help. im 40 my ex is 30 and that was never an issue just a fact..anyway we were together two and a half years and broke up two weeks ago. we have broken up many times before - always my choice - but hes always ...
A. 16 October 2009: You will have some ups and downs for awhile, I'm afraid. You'll start feeling slightly better then you'll hear a song or see something on television and BINGO you'll be in tears. It's very painful but it will get better you won't feel like this ... (read in full...)
He has a kid and I've slowly grown to hate him. How can I deal with this?
Q. I am 19, and my partner is 23. He has a six year old son from a previous relationship. The mother split with him as soon as she found out she was pregnant, and is now in a gay relationship. She prevented him seeing his child for 3 years or so after ...
A. 15 October 2009: I didn't give you an answer I asked a question. You've asked this question before a couple of months back I believe. And I also believe the majority of responds said basically what Chrissy just said. You cannot expect your boyfriend to see less of ... (read in full...)
He has a kid and I've slowly grown to hate him. How can I deal with this?
Q. I am 19, and my partner is 23. He has a six year old son from a previous relationship. The mother split with him as soon as she found out she was pregnant, and is now in a gay relationship. She prevented him seeing his child for 3 years or so after ...
A. 15 October 2009: Why are you giving yourself advice?... (read in full...)
Its over so why cant I let go?
Q. im so confused about my feelings please help. im 40 my ex is 30 and that was never an issue just a fact..anyway we were together two and a half years and broke up two weeks ago. we have broken up many times before - always my choice - but hes always ...
A. 15 October 2009: Sweetheart it's only been 2 weeks. It takes time to recover from a broken heart. You did the right thing, that relationship was turning toxic. You will find as the days go by you will be able to breathe deeper, smile more, and sleep better. Try to ... (read in full...)
I came clean to him about how I felt, and he still hasn't replied! I thought we were friends!
Q. i have been seeing a man for two years, i suppose u can call it friends with benefits, i have always felt he only wants to see me for a quicki. but we have built a good friendship up, i have had a 6 month relationship during this friendship, with ...
A. 15 October 2009: I really don't think he's interested in taking your relationship any further than FWB. Whatever his reasons are, he just doesn't want to commit. He most likely doesn't want to hurt your feelings so he just hasn't responded, either that or you scared ... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to change his thought that I'm controlling him?
Q. I found out from a friend my boyfriend created a facebook today. I dislike social networkings like that because myspace caused so many problems between us before. I stopped going on it but I let him continue to go on it. One day, during summer, we ...
A. 15 October 2009: Controling issues and jealousy issues usually stem from poor self-esteem. How's yours?... (read in full...)
Can a woman have sex with her husband and lover without giving anything away?
Q. I'm a guy of 54 years and was happily married for 19 years,there have been no Kids,which is the choice of my 44 year old wife (and mine).About six weeks ago I noticed my wife taking the odd call late at night and walking out of ear shot from me,this ...
A. 15 October 2009: Best of luck Thomas.... (read in full...)
What do my horrible, recurring nightmares mean?
Q. i keep having reoccuring horrific nitemares. it`s so realstic. i prepare for bed and once i fall asleep in my dream a figure enters my room in the dark pins me down then rapes me. i scream and it feels so real. when i wake up it`s in fright. what ...
A. 15 October 2009: When you are in the REM cycle of sleep and dreaming, your body goes into a sort paralysis to keep you from hurting you from reactions to those dreams. That is why you feel sedated. As to the rape part I can't say but if this dream is constantly ... (read in full...)
I'm asking for too much with this married guy, right?
Q. hi... i am in a very happy relationship for past 4 years.. everything is just right. I met another guy, a married guy on a trip n had great fun wit him!! After d trip, telephonic conversations started(bf knws).. thenn started d phone sex, n i am ...
A. 14 October 2009: yep you are asking too much.... (read in full...)
Do you think my husband has noticed she is gorgeous?
Q. My husband and I are friends with another couple. He and the other guy hang out a lot but I know my husband and the guy's wife get along well, too. Problem is she is GORGEOUS. Like model-gorgeous. Fairly lean, big boobs, good legs and butt, clear ...
A. 14 October 2009: umm q? The first poster was a male.... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 14 October 2009: Let me quote Elaine Benes "I don't know how you guys walk around with one of those".... (read in full...)
Do you think my husband has noticed she is gorgeous?
Q. My husband and I are friends with another couple. He and the other guy hang out a lot but I know my husband and the guy's wife get along well, too. Problem is she is GORGEOUS. Like model-gorgeous. Fairly lean, big boobs, good legs and butt, clear ...
A. 14 October 2009: Unless your husband is visually impaired you can bet the farm that he's noticed how gorgeous she is. There will always be someone who is prettier than you, just accept it and then forget about it. You trust him and you trust her I wouldn't go ... (read in full...)
Did that cheater truly love me, even for a moment?
Q. Hi, I found out that my ex-bf has been two-timing me throughout the 3mths29days that we've been together. He has another long time gf of 17mths. This secret of his was exposed on the day when I happen to be in the same place as that couple. 3 of us ...
A. 13 October 2009: If he loved you he would be with you. He felt lust for you but never love. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, chin up and move on to those greener pastures. You'll be just fine.... (read in full...)
I am dating one girl but another has my heart!
Q. hey, i've recently started going out with this girl, she turns me on loads, like everytime we kiss, im hard, but, the thing is, i dont feel anything in my heart for, her, we've onyl been going out for a week, but still, i feel like i should like he...
A. 13 October 2009: Why not ask out the one who makes you all giddy? After one week it's not as if you are tied down in a relationship. Not a thing wrong with playing the field as long as you have your cards on the table.... (read in full...)
Room mate is a male whore! Should I rat him out?
Q. My roommate will screw anything that isn't moving, which is why our cat never lies down. Right now he is juggling 4 girlfriends and yesterday a new girl showed up and he had sex with her too, only he said she wasn't a girlfriend. That makes 5 ...
A. 13 October 2009: Don't any of these females use perfume or body lotion? Oh yeah, you can bet they know. And since he doesn't wear a glove they also are incredibly stupid. This one girl you like may be cute and funny but I sure don't think she is so smart.... (read in full...)
Do I tell her or keep it to myself?
Q. Another Best Friends Wife Story... So my best friend got married to a wonderful girl about three years ago. She has been a very good friend of mine as well. I have been attracted to her throughout their relationship but very easily kept thin...
A. 13 October 2009: Don't worry about building up your friend's wife's self-esteem, not your problem, and just think what it would do to your own wife's! Since you already know you'd best keep your trap shut I guess 'nuff said.... (read in full...)
How can you tell if a female friend likes you?
Q. me and her are always sitting next to each other in lectures and in seminars. she always playfully hits me, or teases me about something i do or wear and takes my stuff like my hat forcing me to try and get it back. when we were in class the other ...
A. 13 October 2009: Sure sounds like she likes you to me. Ask her out.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want to go out and have fun like my friends do?
Q. hi i have been with my partner since i was 15 im now 18 and have a 1 year old child with him but alot of the time i feel like i dont love him anymore and i look at all my old friends and they are either at collage or university doing what they ...
A. 13 October 2009: Maybe if she was busy helping the sweet young things pondering pregnancy she wouldn't miss being out and about with her friends. Besides who the hell died and made you the king of DC? Your censorship is unwarranted and unwanted. You give your ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want to go out and have fun like my friends do?
Q. hi i have been with my partner since i was 15 im now 18 and have a 1 year old child with him but alot of the time i feel like i dont love him anymore and i look at all my old friends and they are either at collage or university doing what they ...
A. 13 October 2009: Hey wait a minute, I truly think she should become an aunt on this site. Cerberus, this whole "moral superiority" thing you've got going on is a double-edged sword don't you think?... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to want my guy friend to care about me more?
Q. I'm I in the wrong to want my guy friend to care about me more? We have been friends for more than a year. My close family member just died and I asked him for a favor but he never texted me back to ask what I wanted him to do. I only want a hug ...
A. 13 October 2009: I guess he's just not that into you. Sorry but I'm afraid your expectations are unrealistic.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my wife I am bisexual and want to bring a man and a horse costume into our bedroom?
Q. I am a married man looking for some advice on how to break the news to my wife I am a bisexual and that ontop of this I have been attending furry nightclubs. My wife seems to think they are anime conventions, but in reality they are furry meetin...
A. 13 October 2009: Hi Honey, are pork chops okay for dinner or do you want to go out?... (read in full...)
Blood in my semen -- help!
Q. Guys, pls help me. I am 20, i am virgin. Never been in any sexual relationship. The problem is , i musterbate. And when i masterbet yesterday i bled, i bled a few with my sperm. Then again, when i musterbet i bled few hours ago , my ...
A. 13 October 2009: You might have a kidney stone, have it checked out. Of course if you are starting to pass one you'll know in short order, zowie they hurt.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want to go out and have fun like my friends do?
Q. hi i have been with my partner since i was 15 im now 18 and have a 1 year old child with him but alot of the time i feel like i dont love him anymore and i look at all my old friends and they are either at collage or university doing what they ...
A. 13 October 2009: You need to become an aunt on this site and answer all the sweet young things who Uncle Phil just described. Maybe you can talk some sense into them, we sure can't most of the time.... (read in full...)
He put his lips on mine, but didn't move his lips when I started kissing him!
Q. This guy that I'm casually seeing/sleeping with and me were laying in bed the last time we saw each other...our heads were close together and he was kind of caressing/massaging my cheeks and jaw. Then he turned his head and he put his lips on mine ...
A. 13 October 2009: I agree, you are way over thinking this.... (read in full...)
I'm becoming increasingly concerned about my brother and husband spending too much time together!
Q. I've recently become concerned about my brother and my husband. They're spending too much time together, and they've also keep going to Wisconsin quite frequently, which is strange considering we have no friends/family up there, and the fact we ...
A. 12 October 2009: I have driven from Michigan to Texas, and boy howdy that is a very long and tedious drive. Wisconsin to Texas would be no different. He must be flying back and forth because he would be nuts to do it repeated if he isn't in the rucking business. So ... (read in full...)
Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?
Q. Hi, I just found out I am 6 weeks pregnant with my first child.I am 21 years old. and boy, I am so nervous! My bf and I live together and are both very happy about this.Its unexpected but were ok with it. I was just wandering if anyone has any ...
A. 9 October 2009: You have buses in Texas? I thought ya'll rode horses.... (read in full...)
Do you think he will really leave his wife for me?
Q. Me ad my first luv lost communications two years ago .he married i got married .i got divorced later but he is stil in his marriage .we are nw back togather again but he has his wife .he promises to come and stay with me .i luv him so much but i ...
A. 9 October 2009: If he hasn't done so already then I would say it's most unlikely that he will ever leave his wife. Your only hope is that SHE throws the sorry sack of crap out.... (read in full...)
What does an escort do in bed? My fiance uses their services.
Q. I found out my fiance using escort many many times. He said the sex with them is simple. No pussy licking. Just doggy style and bj. Is this true? what exactly does really escort do in bed? ...
A. 9 October 2009: While I hear that hookers are less likely to pass on STD's than the teenager next door, you best make sure the fiance gets frequent tests done so he doesn't give you a surprise.... (read in full...)
Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?
Q. Hi, I just found out I am 6 weeks pregnant with my first child.I am 21 years old. and boy, I am so nervous! My bf and I live together and are both very happy about this.Its unexpected but were ok with it. I was just wandering if anyone has any ...
A. 9 October 2009: Congrats! My piece of advice is don't get into that mindset that you are eating for two. Just eat sensibly and healthily so you don't gain too much excess weight. It's harder than the dickens to take it off after your sweet baby arrives!... (read in full...)
His penis didnt go all the way in, could I be pregnant?
Q. Me and my bf tried to have sex but his penis cant really fit into my vagina, but it did went in alittle if i'm not wrong,while we were trying. But he took his penis away after awhile. Im just curious if I can get pregnant this way? cause his penis ...
A. 9 October 2009: Hell's bells, I can ask a question can't I Steve?... (read in full...)
His penis didnt go all the way in, could I be pregnant?
Q. Me and my bf tried to have sex but his penis cant really fit into my vagina, but it did went in alittle if i'm not wrong,while we were trying. But he took his penis away after awhile. Im just curious if I can get pregnant this way? cause his penis ...
A. 9 October 2009: If you don't want to get pregnant why are you having unprotected sex?... (read in full...)
Had an abortion, now I'm craving chocolate. Am I pregnant again?
Q. I'm due my period on the 12 oct 09. I'm craving for chocolates,and I've done a p test but it's negative. Am I pregnant? Because I had a abortion on the 10 aug 09.and im trying for a baby....
A. 9 October 2009: Why are you asking us? Go get a test and find out. How on earth can you expect us to know?... (read in full...)
Is a runny nose normal when giving a blow job?
Q. I am 20 and finally have a serious b/f that I really like. We have been dating 2 months now and see each other every day. About two weeks into our relationship I told him that I wanted to wait until I was married to have sex for the first time ...
A. 8 October 2009: "cough"... (read in full...)
I accused her of cheating but it was just a friend!
Q. I broke up with girlfriend two months back. i dumped her for cheating on me on facebook but the contact turned out to be her childhood friend only. i did try to win her back but she was just unmoved saying that it was me who dumped her and she stood ...
A. 8 October 2009: You win some and lose some. Don't waste anymore time, she isn't interested.... (read in full...)
Cant cope with the images of my wife with another man
Q. Please can anyone out there help me. After twenty years of marrage my wife had an affair and it has destroyed our marrage.I absolutely adored the woman and this has devastated me . I am only a shell of the man i used to be.I am now smoking heavly ...
A. 8 October 2009: Are you getting any counseling? You should if you aren't already. It helps big time. Time is also a big factor in your recovery from this heartbreak. You need help so you can ease up on the self-medicating you are doing with the hash and liquor. ... (read in full...)
Does being too nice drive women away?
Q. Along time ago my mother told me I was too nice to women and this is why my relationships never last.I have been married two times.The first about 5 years and the second about 9 years..I have had a couple of girl friends after this but nothing ...
A. 8 October 2009: We get this question often, and I just can't figure out why being treated well would drive women away. Unless they are total whack jobs why wouldn't they like considerate and kind men? All the women I know do. Stay the course my friend, she's out ... (read in full...)
He cheated on 4 girlfriends! will he cheat on me too?
Q. So.... my boyfriend of a year and I have talked about moving in together in the new year. We have known each other for like 7 years, and he is not only the love of my life, but my bestfriend. Thing is, he cheated on 4 of his 4 past g/f's, but ...
A. 8 October 2009: Time will tell on the cheating but his track record sure stinks. I'd wait to the last moment if you have to sign a lease. ... (read in full...)
In love with my daughter in law...
Q. Ok here it goes...I find myself deeply in love with my daughter in law..I want to have sex so bad with her..Sometimes when my son invites me over,I tell him I can't today....They have 3 little girls..I hate to do something that will break them ...
A. 8 October 2009: You need to get a grip Grandpa. Aren't you a little long in the tooth to be so out of control? Do you date? If not you should. Stay busy and keep focused.... (read in full...)
I still miss my first love after 2 years... is this normal? How can I fix it?
Q. Drunkenly I've looked at an old girlfriends profile over facebook. We've not spoken for about a year and half and separated over 2 years ago... yet, having read that she's in a relationship brings up strong feelings of sadness and envy. Surely af...
A. 8 October 2009: Andrew is that you? I'm glad you are in a relationship, give it your best shot. Eventually your first love will fade until she only makes you smile wistfully on the rare occasion that she comes to mind.... (read in full...)
Do guys get turned off by pubic hair?
Q. Do guys get turned off by pubic hair? Im 16 and im scared guys wil think im dirty. plz help ...
A. 8 October 2009: Jeese Louise you guys! We get a pube post every dang day there's no need to resurrect one from years ago!... (read in full...)
How can I find out everything I need to know about this man?
Q. Hallo everyone I hope you can help me out on this one because I'm lost and yet in love. It goes like, I met this man 39 last year, he works in Canada so he visits every 3 or 4 months. So more like a distant relationship. I'm a single mum and h...
A. 7 October 2009: Definitely sounds married. Do you know where this "sister" lives? ... (read in full...)
He's verbally abusive, and I think that I want out.
Q. Hi I am 29 and have been living in a verbally abusive relationship, I THINK. In the last 5 years things have gotten worse for me, i dont think theres a time that anything nice is said about me and if we do have a conversation its usually negative...
A. 7 October 2009: Certainly sounds like a verbally abusive relationship to me. If you aren't happy you need to get out and if that hurts his feelings, tough, he should have kept his big trap shut before he heaped aspersions on you for 5 long years. He brought it on ... (read in full...)
Should I have a child while I can? Or is he just not Mr. Right?
Q. i met my partner 18 yrs ago when i was 19 and he was 43, i realise this is a very large age gap but we had a happy relationship for about 15 years, the only problem we had was my desire to have a child, it always seem to cause a row if i brought up ...
A. 7 October 2009: If you realize and can handle the fact that you may end up being a single parent then go ahead. ... (read in full...)
Can a woman have sex with her husband and lover without giving anything away?
Q. I'm a guy of 54 years and was happily married for 19 years,there have been no Kids,which is the choice of my 44 year old wife (and mine).About six weeks ago I noticed my wife taking the odd call late at night and walking out of ear shot from me,this ...
A. 8 September 2009: Wow, all I can say is that she will regret losing a man such as yourself. And this, when you are ready, you will have opportunity to live the rest of your life in perfect bliss with a woman who truly will appreciate you. All the best Tom.... (read in full...)
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