He initiates "eye romances" with other women
Q. My Boyfriend and I have been living together for 3 years, and I have been putting up with his ROVING EYES the entire time. ANY time that we go anywhere, he ALWAYS finds another female that he is attracted to... and makes no secret of it. He first ...
A. 14 November 2011: Good for you! Now you can find a guy who only has eyes for you. He's out there.... (read in full...)
Is my teacher interested?
Q. should i tell my teacher i love him? he always flirts with me and hes not the flirting type at allll hes alil nerdy he makes comments like 1 day i was whislting in class and he said theres a bird in the class and someone said its hunting season a...
A. 12 November 2009: What about the married and father of twins part???????... (read in full...)
Is my teacher interested?
Q. should i tell my teacher i love him? he always flirts with me and hes not the flirting type at allll hes alil nerdy he makes comments like 1 day i was whislting in class and he said theres a bird in the class and someone said its hunting season a...
A. 12 November 2009: And here we have a deja vu all over again. A young school girl with a crush on her married,father of twins,teacher who absolutely is not looking for solid advice just goofy ideas on how to win him over so he'll leave his family and career in the ... (read in full...)
I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!
Q. 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...
A. 5 November 2009: No rational person would risk jeopardising a happy 33 year old marriage over something that happened long before the vows were made. ... (read in full...)
I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!
Q. 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...
A. 5 November 2009: Here's my idea, drop this like a hot potato Bob me boy. It's over 30 years and a very happy marriage later and you did up this old chestnut?! You've had a fuller love life than many folks so quit beating a dead horse. Appreciate what you have and ... (read in full...)
At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...
A. 5 November 2009: At the risk of getting aunts angry at me, I've got to say there is something about this whole post that seems just a tad surreal, like maybe it more fantasy than fact?!... (read in full...)
Should I ditch this engagement? After what she did with this guy?
Q. I need help. I just found out my fiancee cheated on me a little while ago. I don't know if I should marry her or not. I'm real pissed off and upset, but I love her, but this is not acceptable. I'm a believer in that 2 people who are in love and ...
A. 5 November 2009: She just isn't ready to settle down with one guy. She is only 19 and as far as I'm concerned that's way too young to get married, for most people anyway. Ditch the engagement, as you say, but you guys can still date each other. Maybe you both should ... (read in full...)
Am I headed towards divorce or is this normal?
Q. My 2nd husband, no kids, and I are living different lives with very different lives. He seems semi-concerned (probable to guilt to my daily affairs and i s'pose i to his) I am flirting back to men who flirt with me in a semi-(im)proper manner, he ...
A. 5 November 2009: I agree with Tish, you both have let your marriage wither and die. If neither one of you is willing to make the effort to bring the marriage back to health then it's time to split the blanket, and in your case that means for the second time. Think ... (read in full...)
Is 7 months too soon to bring up marriage?
Q. When is it safe to bring up marriage? We've been dating 7 months, and we are in love. He treats me like I've never been before, and the signs are all there. He is younger than I am and has never been married. I have been married before but this ...
A. 4 November 2009: Of course there is nothing carve in stone about this. I do think that 7 months is still on the early side so if I were in your shoes I'd just relax for a while and enjoy the ride.... (read in full...)
My brother asked me to look at his because to judge its size
Q. My older brother asked me if I could look at his erect penis and tell him what I thought about its size. I know he is really self conscious about it and I just wanted to help him out. I've seen his dick before when we were really young. But never ...
A. 4 November 2009: One can only hope...... (read in full...)
She is 30 and he is 74. Is he actually interested in her mind?
Q. He is 74. She's 30. First of all, let's say he is a thin, very attractive, elderly man. It may seem gross to some people, but she says she is actually attracted to him. It may be weird to some, but she said something about him is fascinating to h...
A. 4 November 2009: Aww the poor old guy is probably just trying to guarantee a line up of nursing home visitors.... (read in full...)
He's 31..I am almost 17! Could he get in trouble for dating me?
Q. im 16 and ive been dating this guy for about two years i love him with all my heart and so does he, we have been through so much together but theres one problem he's 15 years older than me which makes him 31(im turing 17 in a few days though.) is ...
A. 3 November 2009: What do your parents say about it?... (read in full...)
She left me drunk and defenceless on the pavement!
Q. [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was broken into paragraphs to make it easier to read. No other changes have been made.] I am questioning my partners love for me. I don't think she loves me with the way she responds to me and also in her actions agai...
A. 2 November 2009: Poor judgement on everybody's part. You should've left when you wanted to in the first place, then you wouldn't have ended up past out on the pavement. She should have helped you amble back to her place so you wouldn't have gotten robbed. Chalk it ... (read in full...)
Our love is forbidden! How can I be her best friend?
Q. My lover decided to return with her husband and workout her marriage but now considers me to be her best friend... she tells me that she loves me and that she is in love with me but feels that she needs to sacrifice her "happiness" for the sake of ...
A. 2 November 2009: Walk away so she can commit her entire attention to saving what's left of her marriage. If you truly care about her that's what you should do. If she decides there's just not enough left to save and finally divorces, then you can hook up but until ... (read in full...)
How can I be loose when I am still a virgin?
Q. [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was minimally edited for spelling and grammar to improve legibility.] I'm worried. Basically I'm a horny girl. I can't help it, I think I'm more horny than a guy. Anyway, I masturbate a lot, like in one go, 3 times and ...
A. 2 November 2009: Your boyfriend sound like a dork, ignore his comments or get a new one.... (read in full...)
Misbehaviour with sister-in-law...
Q. I am 20 yr old. I used to have fantasies for my sister in law who was elder. I started touching her whenever i got chance. But one day she asked me why i was touching her special parts. I understood that i was caught. I became pale. Then she was ...
A. 2 November 2009: Keep you hands to yourself, that's what you do now. Sheesh Buddy, grow up.... (read in full...)
Help! How do I get my first kiss?
Q. ok well I'm 18 and I have never had my first kiss or anything. please tell me how I should get it. I need major help so please give me all your ideas....
A. 2 November 2009: Well New Year's Eve is coming around the corner maybe you'll get lucky.... (read in full...)
How do I change my mom's mind?
Q. im 16 and want my tongue pierced soooo bad! but my mom says no cuz its "trashy". 2 questions, how do i get her to change her mind and is it really trashy for a girl to have a tongue piercing? thanks! lovee, Laceyyy....
A. 2 November 2009: One of the students I worked with got her tongue pierced and chipped two teeth with it and had to get caps. Until you get your own dental insurance, I'm with mom on this one.... (read in full...)
I'll keep it short:
Q. will i ever be loved...
A. 2 November 2009: I like quiet-echo's answer. If you are feeling unloved hang out here awhile, we're great company.... (read in full...)
I can't stand the thought of my divorced parents with new partners, what should I do?
Q. My parents have recently split up after 30 years of marriage. I think one of them has just started a new relationship and I don't know what to do. I don't want to have anything to do with the new partner but does that mean I can't have the same ...
A. 2 November 2009: I guess I'll chime in and say that this is really none your business. Why grown children expect to be the center of their parent's universe is beyond me. They raised you, their primary job is done. Let them now live their lives as they see fit. Act ... (read in full...)
At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...
A. 30 October 2009: The only advice I have is for you to talk to your parents. They know you better than anybody else and will have your best interests in mind. At least listen to their counsel. I'm not going to judge you but your teacher is in the wrong profession, by ... (read in full...)
Why is my vagina swollen shut?
Q. okay a few months ago i started having problems with my vag it was swollen shut an there was redness an some irritation so i went to the doctor an i was treated for a yeast infection after i was okay test results came out fine sometime after this ...
A. 30 October 2009: Go back to the doctor. Posting this on a relationship website isn't going to do you any good, that is if you are really concerned about your health.... (read in full...)
Why is one breast smaller than the other?
Q. I am 13 years old. and I have come to know that my left breast is smaller than the right breast, it worries me. what should i do....
A. 29 October 2009: The human body is actually made up of two halves. Place a piece of paper on your nose so your face is equally divided left and right. They aren't mirror images of each other, you'll notice the differences. As far as your boobs go, at your age they ... (read in full...)
Is my teacher interested?
Q. should i tell my teacher i love him? he always flirts with me and hes not the flirting type at allll hes alil nerdy he makes comments like 1 day i was whislting in class and he said theres a bird in the class and someone said its hunting season a...
A. 29 October 2009: If you tell him how you feel I know exactly what will happen. He'll run for cover and you'll be left standing with egg on your face. Let it go, this is a no win situation. ... (read in full...)
Am I too needy?
Q. simple: am i too needy of attention? i tend to get rejected from my boyfriend all the time to me it seems as if he'd rather go to a billiards than to just hang out with me.... i SWEAR he goes at least 4 times a week!...
A. 29 October 2009: Why not go with him when he goes to play? ... (read in full...)
Are any women actually trustworthy?
Q. I'm losing faith in humanity in general and myself in particular here. A little more than five weeks ago, my fiancée dumped me. I'm 25, she's 21, and we had been together for over 3 years, engaged for over one year. We were making good progress pl...
A. 29 October 2009: Just stay as visible as you can and you'll meet girls. Glad you found a new friend, can't have too many of those.... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 28 October 2009: q, I was boot knocking when you were still wet behind your ears, no "splaining" necessary Ricky.... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 28 October 2009: Sorry all about the hiccup... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 28 October 2009: I don't think so Uncle Phil 'cause my knees tremble when I see George Clooney but alas there's no boot knocking involved.... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 28 October 2009: I don't think so Uncle Phil 'cause my knees tremble when I see George Clooney but alas there's no boot knocking involved.... (read in full...)
Am I a whore, or am I just confused?
Q. i have a bf, and ive cheated on him 2wice. he doesnt know about it. but both times, it wasnt just sex. with the first guy we had had feelings for each other for years and when i was visiting home him and i ended up sleeping together and having this ...
A. 28 October 2009: I would say you just aren't ready for any committed relationship. Why not give yourself a break from men for awhile and take a few English classes?... (read in full...)
She says she can't stand me asking if she's seeing someone else, but she never wants to have sex! So she must be cheating, right?
Q. My girlfriend and I are having a problem seeing things from the same point of view. We've been together for almost two years and I have told her from the start that as long as we have sex and I am sexually satisfied, that we'll be happy and I w...
A. 28 October 2009: Man are YOU wacked! Who doesn't change out of their work clothes as soon as they get home from work and who doesn't throw their dirty laundry in the hamper before they take a shower? I suppose you throw yours on the bathroom floor and expect her to ... (read in full...)
She seems to prefer the company of her dogs to me!
Q. Hi I could really do with some help, I have been dating this girl for about 12 weeks now (Which I know is still early days) and I am starting to feel like I am loosing interest in her. Its not because I am no longer attracted to her because I am...
A. 28 October 2009: I guess she is just not that into you, Buddy. Not all relationships are meant to be. I think you should keep looking.... (read in full...)
I have a big crush on my boss.. Help Me Please!
Q. I'm 25 years old and i just started a new job not too long ago, i have a huge crush on my boss and i dont know what i should do about it. we talk very friendly at work and get along great. he even bought me coffee one morning when i was coming into ...
A. 28 October 2009: Like CaringGuy mentioned, office romances can get pretty sticky especially after they end. You may need to think about getting a new job and then see if your boss is willing to pursue a relationshop.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I are 14, we want to have a baby, any opinions?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are deeply in love and want to have a baby. Were 14...
A. 27 October 2009: Please, please, please don't say you live in North Carolina!... (read in full...)
I have a big crush on my boss.. Help Me Please!
Q. I'm 25 years old and i just started a new job not too long ago, i have a huge crush on my boss and i dont know what i should do about it. we talk very friendly at work and get along great. he even bought me coffee one morning when i was coming into ...
A. 27 October 2009: Yeah, I'd like to know too, is he married? Also how old is this guy?... (read in full...)
He initiates "eye romances" with other women
Q. My Boyfriend and I have been living together for 3 years, and I have been putting up with his ROVING EYES the entire time. ANY time that we go anywhere, he ALWAYS finds another female that he is attracted to... and makes no secret of it. He first ...
A. 27 October 2009: Next time he pulls this stunt, tell him either he knocks this nonsense off or you're walking, and mean it. It doesn't sound like you'd be losing much anyway.... (read in full...)
The guy I like is in a class I help teach. Is it ok to pursue him once the class is over?
Q. Okay, so this isn't the typical student-teacher question but I thought I'd ask and see what happens. I help teach a vocational course for adults that will run for the next two months or so. I find myself very attracted to one of my students. I k...
A. 20 October 2009: Once class has ended I don't see any reason you can't ask him out. Go for it!... (read in full...)
Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?
Q. Hi, I just found out I am 6 weeks pregnant with my first child.I am 21 years old. and boy, I am so nervous! My bf and I live together and are both very happy about this.Its unexpected but were ok with it. I was just wandering if anyone has any ...
A. 16 October 2009: Just wait until you feel it kick! Wow I just loved that!... (read in full...)
Is he cheating or did I over-react? Opinions please...
Q. I am pregnant - about 14 wks. Last night the father of the baby who I dumped 5 hrs prior - just after work, for not taking care of romance and for ringing me less and never having any time for me anymore. I felt he could have been using me so I ...
A. 16 October 2009: Man that was one difficult read!... (read in full...)
Its over so why cant I let go?
Q. im so confused about my feelings please help. im 40 my ex is 30 and that was never an issue just a fact..anyway we were together two and a half years and broke up two weeks ago. we have broken up many times before - always my choice - but hes always ...
A. 16 October 2009: You will have some ups and downs for awhile, I'm afraid. You'll start feeling slightly better then you'll hear a song or see something on television and BINGO you'll be in tears. It's very painful but it will get better you won't feel like this ... (read in full...)
I just want to know the truth, am I fat?
Q. umm.... wel i've always been really consious bout the way i look and my weight. and now it's just worse than eva because i just read this article about this model that got fired because she was to big and she was a size 8 (british size) t...
A. 15 October 2009: Say what's the difference between Birtish size 8 and US size 8? I think I wors a size 8 when I WAS 8!... (read in full...)
How to win his heart when he keeps turning me down?
Q. how to win a man's heart? I really like him. Sometimes I ask him out, but most of the times he turned me down. He cares for me like his sister, but not a love relationship. I want him to love me too. How can I do that?...
A. 15 October 2009: I've got a couple sayings for you, "You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink" and you are "beating a dead horse". Both mean just about the same thing, in your case it means you can't make someone feel something they don't. ... (read in full...)
He has a kid and I've slowly grown to hate him. How can I deal with this?
Q. I am 19, and my partner is 23. He has a six year old son from a previous relationship. The mother split with him as soon as she found out she was pregnant, and is now in a gay relationship. She prevented him seeing his child for 3 years or so after ...
A. 15 October 2009: I didn't give you an answer I asked a question. You've asked this question before a couple of months back I believe. And I also believe the majority of responds said basically what Chrissy just said. You cannot expect your boyfriend to see less of ... (read in full...)
He has a kid and I've slowly grown to hate him. How can I deal with this?
Q. I am 19, and my partner is 23. He has a six year old son from a previous relationship. The mother split with him as soon as she found out she was pregnant, and is now in a gay relationship. She prevented him seeing his child for 3 years or so after ...
A. 15 October 2009: Why are you giving yourself advice?... (read in full...)
Its over so why cant I let go?
Q. im so confused about my feelings please help. im 40 my ex is 30 and that was never an issue just a fact..anyway we were together two and a half years and broke up two weeks ago. we have broken up many times before - always my choice - but hes always ...
A. 15 October 2009: Sweetheart it's only been 2 weeks. It takes time to recover from a broken heart. You did the right thing, that relationship was turning toxic. You will find as the days go by you will be able to breathe deeper, smile more, and sleep better. Try to ... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 14 October 2009: Let me quote Elaine Benes "I don't know how you guys walk around with one of those".... (read in full...)
Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?
Q. Hi, I just found out I am 6 weeks pregnant with my first child.I am 21 years old. and boy, I am so nervous! My bf and I live together and are both very happy about this.Its unexpected but were ok with it. I was just wandering if anyone has any ...
A. 9 October 2009: You have buses in Texas? I thought ya'll rode horses.... (read in full...)
Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?
Q. Hi, I just found out I am 6 weeks pregnant with my first child.I am 21 years old. and boy, I am so nervous! My bf and I live together and are both very happy about this.Its unexpected but were ok with it. I was just wandering if anyone has any ...
A. 9 October 2009: Congrats! My piece of advice is don't get into that mindset that you are eating for two. Just eat sensibly and healthily so you don't gain too much excess weight. It's harder than the dickens to take it off after your sweet baby arrives!... (read in full...)
Are any women actually trustworthy?
Q. I'm losing faith in humanity in general and myself in particular here. A little more than five weeks ago, my fiancée dumped me. I'm 25, she's 21, and we had been together for over 3 years, engaged for over one year. We were making good progress pl...
A. 2 October 2009: q has a very unique way of cheering up our most depressed and disillusioned posters. And his methods are also very effective, colorful certainly, but effective. See? Even our dear Illithid got a chuckle out of his answer. Thank you q for being you.... (read in full...)
Are any women actually trustworthy?
Q. I'm losing faith in humanity in general and myself in particular here. A little more than five weeks ago, my fiancée dumped me. I'm 25, she's 21, and we had been together for over 3 years, engaged for over one year. We were making good progress pl...
A. 1 October 2009: Aww Buddy it's just the pain from your recent break up that is causing all this bitterness and disillusionment. You are only 25 and only had two serious relationships, for crying out loud. Once your pain subsides you'll be able to get right back out ... (read in full...)
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