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reader, DrMadness  +, writes (2 May 2010):
It is not advised to have sex under the age of 16, as it can have long term damage, emotionally and physically, for undeveloped minors. If you do wish to engage in sexual intercourse then I suggest you go talk to your GP or doctor.
Remember, if you do have sex, be aware of STI's (sexually transmitted diseases) and protection (condoms, the pill, etc)
I wish you the best of luck :)
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 December 2009):
 Dating at 7, wants sex at 14, this will be our poster child for burnout in about 5 years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): Hey sweetie I am 14 to, I had a boyfriend like that.
Let me tell you it takes guts to do things like that, I am to scared to try of cource because I have heard about everyhing that could happen and the pain, but if you really feel like your ready I would say go for it. Just make sure you know what your getting yourself into. BE CAREFUL!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): im 14 now and yes i kno how your feeling .. cos my best friend has gone and had sex and he makes it sound soo amazing and alot of my friends are doing but i think you need to wait because it will be worth it trust me x : )
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): I had sex when i was 12 years old and i loved it and yes i am a girl but just make sure your ready 7 years is a long time the guy i had sex with i only knew him for like almost a year and i still love him and he still loves me but we broke up cause he moved i think you should just use a condom.
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reader, jaxs1995 +, writes (16 November 2009):
heyy, i am 14 too. i no u want to but trust me its not that great, he will not stay with u. this happened to half my friends. trust me dont
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reader, devildare  +, writes (22 September 2009):
 make sure you like the guy....im 14 aswell and i no for a fact that im ready...but make sure you use protection...its all i can say......and make sure hes not using you
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reader, Lillianna  +, writes (24 June 2009):
hi,
i add sex when i was thirteen and have regretted it since.I say NO wait
BUT like every other teenager yor gonna say but shes just a sour hag.So if your going to ignore me ypou go on the pill and make sure he wears a condom and if he refuses dont do it.Also make sure he understands if u say stop it stops
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reader, bman-95 +, writes (25 April 2009):
hey im 14 and am in the same situation as u but as my gf wanted as u did, so we had sex. it was worth it for me as the guy but a month later she dumped me. so dont take it lightly. sex changes and ruins relationships at a young age.but do wat u will.answer me back iff u want to talk more
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): hi im 14 and just had sex with my gf. it was amazing! weve ony been dating 2 years but we a really strong relationship. if you feel that yours is strong enough why not? but b careful
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): I know what most people will say to you "No you're too young, are you crazy!" But I think that some people are ready before others. The question is if you are ready, why are you asking for other's opinions? I'm not saying that you are not ready I'm just saying sex is really serious, if you have really thought about it and have full trust in your boy friend and he in you, and you are both there for eachother ALL THE TIME, and you both thought, and talked about it, it sounds like you both are ready. But before that it doesn't really sound like it. I know it probably sounds "cool" but who are other people to judge what is cool for you? Go by your own pace and just ignore all the comments. By the way I'm 14 also :) Just thought I'd share that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): Let me get this straight you've been dating since you were 7 okay! Before having sex please consider these points
. It's ILLEGAL!
. are you realyy emotionaly and physicaly ready
. Do you trust each other enough to share this experience
. are you (he) mature enough not to blab to his mates
Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): i personally think there is no too young age to have sex as long as you are truly ready...
to make sure you are truly ready think about
- what will happen to your relationship after you've had sex and crossed the milestone, cos you mite find it wierd to be regularly sexualy active at 14
- can you deal with the physical side of sex
- can you deal with the emoptional side of sex
- can he? you may be ready but deep down is he? (not just that he wants to cos his mates do)
gd luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): no you are only 14 your not old enough and if he really loves you then he can wait. If you have really been to gether 7 years then he can surely wait and any way you really should wait till you get married and enjoy your firt time and make that one your first time. you have your whole life ahead dont rush it . if you want to go to collage wait you can't go to collage with a baby. if he leaves you all aloneyou gonna so sad so what please
your friend just wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): dont, because give one more year and see what happens.....beacuse if u have sex with him what if he jsut want that to happen and then leaves u..... but if u really want to u would know..and if u do make sure u use a CONDOM.
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reader, dontworryiknow +, writes (9 November 2007):
 trust me it dont matter if you have known him for a long time if you was really sure what you wanted to do you wouldnt have come here give it some time and if he cant wait then he aint worth the time!
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reader, Ileana +, writes (9 November 2007):
 7 years? Hun your 14.
Ive been with my boyfriend i was 12 but at 7?
Well im not here to judge, im going to say wait. The longer you wait the better it will be for both of you.
If like every other teenager you choose to ignore me and do it anyway use protection, and i hope to god he loves you.
Ileana
xx
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