I had sex with my boyfriend when I was talking to another guy. Now the other guy says I cheated!
Q. My relationship with my guy started out all wrong. We met on an internet site not intended to *hook-up* people-MFI (a site were you can have friends and benefactors contribute to your boob job). At the time I wanted implants to restore and enhance ...
A. 4 March 2010: One more box of Tide and I get a free pair, yipeee!... (read in full...)
I had sex with my boyfriend when I was talking to another guy. Now the other guy says I cheated!
Q. My relationship with my guy started out all wrong. We met on an internet site not intended to *hook-up* people-MFI (a site were you can have friends and benefactors contribute to your boob job). At the time I wanted implants to restore and enhance ...
A. 3 March 2010: Oh by the way, is there a site were you can have friends and benefactors contribute to your face lift? Thought you might know... ... (read in full...)
I had sex with my boyfriend when I was talking to another guy. Now the other guy says I cheated!
Q. My relationship with my guy started out all wrong. We met on an internet site not intended to *hook-up* people-MFI (a site were you can have friends and benefactors contribute to your boob job). At the time I wanted implants to restore and enhance ...
A. 3 March 2010: This is so convoluted, I guess my best advice would be for both of you vow to each other to forget the past and start with a fresh beginning. I'm afraid if you don't, all of the baggage you both brought into this relationship will pull it down.... (read in full...)
I had sex with my boyfriend when I was talking to another guy. Now the other guy says I cheated!
Q. My relationship with my guy started out all wrong. We met on an internet site not intended to *hook-up* people-MFI (a site were you can have friends and benefactors contribute to your boob job). At the time I wanted implants to restore and enhance ...
A. 3 March 2010: But but he's still married, what kind of future do you actually see here?... (read in full...)
I had sex with my boyfriend when I was talking to another guy. Now the other guy says I cheated!
Q. My relationship with my guy started out all wrong. We met on an internet site not intended to *hook-up* people-MFI (a site were you can have friends and benefactors contribute to your boob job). At the time I wanted implants to restore and enhance ...
A. 2 March 2010: Well you could borrow someone's butt crack ...
Sorry poster, but I don't think you are getting the answers you were looking for. It all boils down to the fact that the guy is still married.... (read in full...)
I had sex with my boyfriend when I was talking to another guy. Now the other guy says I cheated!
Q. My relationship with my guy started out all wrong. We met on an internet site not intended to *hook-up* people-MFI (a site were you can have friends and benefactors contribute to your boob job). At the time I wanted implants to restore and enhance ...
A. 2 March 2010: fish hooks... (read in full...)
Who am I?
Q. well, this is quite the tough question to ask random beings, but i am desperate for an answer i cant seem to find, let alone know where to start searching... Back to the question, i am 16, but i am a ward of the state (i dont have parents, i just h...
A. 2 March 2010: Your birth certificate can be obtained by contacting the county offices of the county you were born in. Request a copy, it normally runs around ten bucks.
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I had sex with my boyfriend when I was talking to another guy. Now the other guy says I cheated!
Q. My relationship with my guy started out all wrong. We met on an internet site not intended to *hook-up* people-MFI (a site were you can have friends and benefactors contribute to your boob job). At the time I wanted implants to restore and enhance ...
A. 2 March 2010: He's still married and tells you "it's only on paper"...what makes you so sure he isn't getting his bread buttered on both sides?... (read in full...)
What does he mean when he says he wants me to bring my vagina to him during sex?
Q. When me and my boyfriend have had sex he tells me that he wants me to bring my vagina to him but I don't no what to do. Please help...
A. 2 March 2010: I guess he doesn't want you to forget and leave it at home or something.... (read in full...)
How can I be there for my little sister now her dad has died depsite us not being very close?
Q. hi my younger sister who is nine not yet ten, father died last night we both have different dads. im 18 and we dont have a great relationship if even a relationship. shes not taking the death very well and of course everybody is worried about her ...
A. 2 March 2010: Is your mother also deceased?... (read in full...)
I found another man's underwear under the bed!
Q. I just found men's underwear under my side of the bed. I'd like advice on what to do. This weekend, I was searching for a pair of old sneakers and they were shoved way under our bed on my side. I have no clue how long they've been there, I usually...
A. 1 March 2010: Let me tell you my story. Years ago my husband found a man's gold wedding band on the door mat by our door. He half jokingly and half seriously wanted to know if I was having an affair. I assured him of course not, I had three little kids at home ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has not broken up with his other girlfriend because she's going through a tough time. Should I wait for him?
Q. i recently discovered that my boyfriend has not broken up with his other girlfriend. He says he cant because she's going through a tough time. Should i wait?...
A. 1 March 2010: Don't be a sucker, this is a line so he can have a different dessert on different days. Time waits for no one why should you?... (read in full...)
Is it considered cheating if you sleep with a man but don't have sex?
Q. if a married woman just sleeps with a guy without having sex is that considered cheating??...
A. 1 March 2010: Was your elevator stranded over night? Was there a tsunami and you guys were all together under a big tent? Where you camping with the Boy Scouts and all Sleeping around the campfire? I guess the real question here is, What does your "significant ... (read in full...)
Will wishing an ex happy birthday seem clingy?
Q. (Mod note: Titled by poster) Ok, so I was wanting to know if I should wish an ex a happy birthday if he broke up with me because I was too "clingy?" His birthday is 3 weeks away...will it seem like I want him back if I do? Also, he said that ...
A. 25 February 2010: I think you should just let his birthday come and go. The truly considerate thing to do is to have no contact, just as he asked.... (read in full...)
Insentive girlfriend and I don't know what to do.
Q. For 18 months i have been in a relationship. I knew she had seen a married man long before we met. I never thought much as mistakes do happen. Yesterday we were talking in bed. Its now she tells me that i`m the only single guy she was interested in. ...
A. 25 February 2010: Yikes and yikes again.... (read in full...)
I leant on my lower tummy, do you think my baby is OK?
Q. Hi I'm 11 weeks pregnant and i stupidly leant on my lower tummy trying to close a window with my feet in the air. I am not a light girl but being healthy now cos of the pregnancy, mind i should have worked on being healthy before but what's done ...
A. 24 February 2010: Yeah you're okay, you probably pissed the baby off though.... (read in full...)
Loveless marriage - stay or go?
Q. I have posted previously on my situation and I have tried to stick it out but have reached the end of my tether. My wife and I are less than 2 years married and have an 18 month daughter and she is 7 months pregnant. Our marriage has become loveless ...
A. 24 February 2010: I think your separation was a wise idea. I wonder if having two pregnancies so close together is part of her problem. Nevertheless, your relationship is hardly tolerable and if after some time apart then maybe a divorce will have to ensue. Her ... (read in full...)
Does she want me? Or does she want to have sex with me?
Q. Hey it's Rocco again, I got another question people! Well I gots the girl issues :-) I invited you to a hotel to go with me in 4 weeks and she don't deny wanting me but she is willing to share a bed with me and she doesn't deny wanting me becau...
A. 23 February 2010: Pace yourself Rocco.... (read in full...)
Looking back and wondering .......
Q. I'm curious to know what would be the best thing to do in this kind of situation. At Christmas last year, I'd been dating a guy for 4 or 5 months. We've since split up so this is just a hypothetic question. For weeks leading up to Christmas he was...
A. 23 February 2010: I've had similar experiences and I always decided to go with the little white lie and say I truly loved the gift. It was the thought that counts not the actual gift. Why hurt someone's feelings over something that petty?... (read in full...)
I told her how I felt about her and things have become weird between us, will things ever improve?
Q. I recently told feelings to my friend who is engaged (She lead me on, she is a very good friend of mine, and I have always been there for her when she needed me), after telling feelings to her she said that she does not want to talk to me, then ...
A. 23 February 2010: I too question your motivation here. What did you think would happen once you disclosed your feelings for her? I'm guessing that your friendship is out the window and all you can do at this point is to get on with your life. Go out with your other ... (read in full...)
Why are these people angry at me and not him?
Q. So I hooked up with a guy my friend had a crush on. She walked in on us when my pants were down. I told her I was sorry and that I didn't mean to hurt her. she didn't talk to me for a week but she finally started talking to me again and were trying ...
A. 22 February 2010: What I can't understand is why someone in your age group would even post this question. Everyone involved is acting with an 8th grade mentality. You guys sure couldn't have starred in Sex and The City.... (read in full...)
Is this really American culture? It hurts that he considers what I did in a picture 9 months ago as cheating
Q. Hi dearcupids! You always offer great advice, so here's a question for you. My boyfriend and I recently got into a fight about a picture that was taken of me. Now Im from a different country than him, he's American. In this picture I was at a party ...
A. 19 February 2010: If you are in a relationship, it probably isn't a good idea to go around sitting in other guys laps, but leaning in to listen to a conversation isn't any big deal. This guy is showing some serious signs of a control freak. I'd be very careful if I ... (read in full...)
Why do women not mention their husbands in a positive way?
Q. Why do married women with kids never mention there husbands in a way you feel they are in a happy marriage. For example, I was talking to a lady who lost everything in a flood and she mentioned she will miss the kids pictures those types of m...
A. 18 February 2010: I think that maybe you spoke with one woman who may value her children over her husband. Not all of us feel that way, my husband and I are a team and now that the kids are grown, we finally have all the time we want for ourselves. My wedding ... (read in full...)
Why is he treating me like dirt?
Q. I really need some advice met a guy on the internet, been talking to him for a few months, everything going fine. I know this bloke has a busy job which involves a lot of travelling. I had his mobile number and his email address and could contact ...
A. 18 February 2010: I hardly consider this to be REAL relationship since you haven't actually physically met the man. Try getting out into the real world, and see if you can meet a guy you can touch. Trust me it's much nicer.... (read in full...)
He wants me to come up with a cute nicname for him
Q. I'm almost 18, and my boyfriend is in his early 20's. He has all sorts of cute nick names (like babe, angel, etc.) for me but always wants me to come up with names for him. So what do guys like to be called? Help please!...
A. 18 February 2010: I'm not sure whether my husband LIKES to be called Dumbass, but he always answers to it.... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: Loving someone isn't like a light switch, off/on.... (read in full...)
He seems perfect .... but is he?
Q. I'm dating a 60 year old man who's never been married, never engaged, never lived with anyone, longest relationhsip was 4 years. He's got a lot going for him; very attractive, fit, well educated, great job/security, good sense or humor, articulate. ...
A. 18 February 2010: Just curious, how old are you?... (read in full...)
What does he really mean when he says that he values our friendship too much to be in a relationship?
Q. Why would a guy want to keep you as their best friend, so they do not ruin what they have with you? Is it that they just do not want to have a relationship with you, or that they are not ready or, that they value you too much to lose you from the...
A. 18 February 2010: Enjoy your friendship but don't expect anything more.... (read in full...)
Am I financially looking after my ex?? My new partner seems to think so!
Q. I am seperated and filing for divorce. I left over 2 years ago. I have numerous assets in many forms. I have numerous trusts. The family home is in a trust. I had built a small fortune while with my soon to be ex wife. I have been trying to get a ...
A. 17 February 2010: Yep, time to man up and tell your girlfriend to mind her own beeswax. She is out of line. Nip it.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: Well you've only wasted 5 years and in my opinion it wasn't much of a marriage anyway. I mean that "forsaking all others" kinda flew out the window at the get go. So pull yourself up by your bootstraps, stick out your chin, start making yourself ... (read in full...)
Now my husband has lost weight I cant help but be turned off by him!
Q. okay, my husband starting working out again but only after I got some diet pills to loose weight. It really bugs me that he has lost more weight than me and built more muscle. He has always been on the thicker side since we got married and I loved ...
A. 17 February 2010: I guess you truly are really bugged that he's lost more weight than you have. I suggest you try to grow up and gain a little maturity here. You are making a mountain out of a mole hill.... (read in full...)
I cant help but feel like I got myself into another horrible situation way too soon
Q. I don't even know where to begin... but I am in need of advice... Back in June I had left my fiance of 3years because I didn't feel he was the one for me, and he was becoming overly possessive and controlling, to the point where I would get "punishe...
A. 17 February 2010: Once your landlady gives you the high sign, pack your bags and leave. It's not like you are married to this guy, just leave. It's up to him whether he sinks or swims. Life it too short to waste on deadend relationships. I think you've learned your ... (read in full...)
Can anybody feel my frustration and confusion?
Q. We're LIKE a romantic couple but truth is he hasnt ask me yet but instead shocking me with the suggestion "let? "let's be best friends" why would a guy who likes her thinks that he doesnt want to confuse himself anymore and thinks they should a...
A. 17 February 2010: He's just not that into you, honey. I think you'd just better accept the friendship and not expect anything else.... (read in full...)
If you take birth control after a pregnancy test coming back positive, does it kill the fetus?
Q. I'm not pregnant, just curious. If you take a pregnancy test and it comes back positive, then you take birth control, would it kill the fetus? And make your period come again?...
A. 17 February 2010: It won't kill the fetus but it may cause some very serious health problems for it after birth. Rather strange thing to be wondering about, you sure it's not a 13 year old's abortion strategy?... (read in full...)
He came to my work to ask me out but I was not there, now I cant stop thinking about him!
Q. Hi there a few days ago this Guy showed up at my work place to deliver documents, that I received.Later that day on my Lunch time he came back to ask me out on a date but no knew were I was and so he left. Now the problem is he did not leave his ...
A. 17 February 2010: If he's interested, he'll be back. Just relax.... (read in full...)
I'm being told too many different things about feeding my baby and I'm worried I'm doing it wrong! Help!
Q. hey, i need some advice, i had a baby 4weeks ago, my partner already has a child and i was worried about him saying "your doing this wrong" but instead its everyone else and im feeling mega depressed and a failure. i had to have a c-section and my ...
A. 17 February 2010: You have the the baby blues. Here's my advice, find a pediatrician you like and listen to him and only him. You are being a wonderful mother so stop doubting yourself. I was a nervous wreck with my first born, most mothers are. Everybody under the ... (read in full...)
Why should I put up with my man looking at porn?
Q. Ok, why do I just "have to accept" porn in my life? My boyfriend jacks off to porn. Sure, our sex life is great, and believe me I don't mind quickies or gettigng him off without anything in return. But why does he have to look at other naked women? ...
A. 17 February 2010: Looks like q's fan club is heating up again. He'll be impossible for a few days. ML and I know how disquesting he can be when his head starts inflating, makes me kind of throw up in my mouth a little bit.... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 17 February 2010: All I can advise this poster is that she'd best hang on to this guy, I doubt if anybody else would put up with this kind of "training". It's so nice when two whack jobs are able to find each other.... (read in full...)
Why should I put up with my man looking at porn?
Q. Ok, why do I just "have to accept" porn in my life? My boyfriend jacks off to porn. Sure, our sex life is great, and believe me I don't mind quickies or gettigng him off without anything in return. But why does he have to look at other naked women? ...
A. 16 February 2010: I'll bet he loves your sternum more than any porn star's. I'll bet that's what he truly thinks about when he's wanking. Yep sternums....yum.... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 16 February 2010: Nobody bother traveling to Texas, the answer to q's last question is always "2 hours ago"...no matter what. ... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 8 February 2010: I meant I'll see you when you get this out of your system and you're done blowing in the wind.... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 8 February 2010: Ok kiddo see you on the other side... (read in full...)
He says all he wants in life is sex!!! Does this mean he doesn't care for me any more?
Q. Hi everyone, i am 18 and have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I love him very much and always have, we`ve had our ups and downs but are still together. He is the first and only person i have ever slept with. However he never says "I love ...
A. 8 February 2010: Well at least he knows what he wants in life, he has a goal. It's your call whether you want to wait him out and see if his goals change. But FYI, football has been known to annoy the hell out of me on occassion. ... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 8 February 2010: Okay who's been pouring the caffeine down ML's throat today????... (read in full...)
He wants me to go through with this 3-some even although I'm not really that keen!
Q. A few weeks ago my fiance started texting me asking what I thought about threeseomes. I told him right away that I wanted to do one, thinking that he was talking about a FFM threeseome. I love to pleasure him and turn him on and he has told me ...
A. 8 February 2010: Jeez Louise, you are damned if you do and damned if you don't with this guy. I'd re-think marrying the guy. If he plays these kind of games you could be in for some real misery. And a threesome???? Those rarely net the results that people expect. ... (read in full...)
Why are black women seen as unattractive and the least or not desired mate???
Q. I am a black woman and I feel that I am not attractive because of my skin color. I have statistics behind me proving this point. 70% of black women are single. How the hell is this happening? Really? We aren't desirable in any way? Really? Not even ...
A. 8 February 2010: One good thing to maybe come out of this post is that baddog considered changing his avatar to an elephant seal...ohhh I wish he would, his weird guard dog one is too scary creepy.... (read in full...)
What to do with the engagement ring after breaking up?
Q. Hi! I was engaged 5 years back, and he got me a diamond engagement ring. Things didn't go well and we split up, but I kept the ring when we moved apart. We did have a small discussion about it, but he said he wanted to wear it and I didn't like the ...
A. 8 February 2010: I'd just send it back to him with a brief note saying you came across it in your jewelry box and thought he might want it back. Don't give him any more information.... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 5 February 2010: Ahhhh the hole tree!
OP- You're not being squirrelly just nuts for risking your reputation and being branded a sappy tree-hugger. That kind of thing will stick you my man. Knock it off.... (read in full...)
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