He is always busy. Should I cut him off?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for a week now n we have been very affectionate, we laugh n get along great. We told each other we like one another and it seems were on the same page. I haven't seen him for a couple days n when he told me he would come ...
A. 23 March 2010: It's only been one week for crying out loud. Kind of soon to be making demands dontcha think?... (read in full...)
He called me a 'dog', should I accept his friendship proposal?
Q. my ex boyfriend cheated with me...and abused me infront of his new girlfriend. He told me he loves his new girlfriend alot and can not afford to lose her. He also said he'l marry her in future. Infront of his new girlfriend he called me DOG. Now ...
A. 23 March 2010: You want to be friends with a cheater who calls you names because...?????... (read in full...)
I like him but his actions make me uncomfortable....
Q. I am 21 and recently I am just attached with this guy from my university. He is 2 years older than me and we are happily attached for a month already... Recently, he has been really touchy and I am not really that comfortable about it. Th...
A. 23 March 2010: If you are uncomfortable then you need to nicely tell him to back off. If you do not, he will assume it's okay with you. Just say something along the lines that you just aren't ready to move to the physical level in your relationship at this time ... (read in full...)
Deep feelings for my classics teacher...
Q. I'm a 16 year old female and I'm reeeally confused. I'm starting to get feelings for my female classics teacher. She's only 25 and she's so beautiful and funny. I thought I just looked up to her because she's so pretty and smart but then I started ...
A. 23 March 2010: It's a school girl crush. It totally normal and if you look at our archives, it is very common. It will fade.... (read in full...)
How can I tell him without the whole school finding out?
Q. Okay. So, this guy that I really like is in my grade. Apparently I'm too nervous to tell him that I'm gay for him. How do I make him believe it? How do I make it possible so the whole school doesn't get this news?...
A. 23 March 2010: Better be sure he's gay or you might end up with a knuckle sandwich.... (read in full...)
She's 'gay" but won't leave my boyfriend alone!!
Q. Hi, Ok, I might be making something out of nothing but I'd like some opinions on this. My boyfriend and I are both actors, and a while back he was in a play. He said he got on very well with the Lighting Assistant and she was gay and ha...
A. 23 March 2010: I'd remember MY name if I were you. Sounds rather fishy to me.... (read in full...)
Trying to spice things up in the bedroom. Help!
Q. ok me and my girlfriend have been dating for 9 months and i feel like sex is kinda getting old i told her today we should spice things up but didnt tell her everything is starting to get old i asked her if she wanted to try tantric sex she said yes ...
A. 23 March 2010: If you "feel like sex is kinda getting old" after only 9 months I think your relationship has some other problems that need to be addressed.... (read in full...)
Had sex with my twin sister's husband. Not sure if I should tell my sister or wait to see if I'm preganant...
Q. Hi my name is Stacy. I need some advice. I have had sex with my twin sister's husband. I do not know if I should tell her or not. I know it is wrong for me to have done that. The first time it was only anal sex just because I was curious and my ...
A. 23 March 2010: I love it when these old chestnuts get dug up.... (read in full...)
I'm a pupil and I can't deal with my teachers backstabbing me...
Q. hi im a fifteen year old girl, and recently i found out that some teachers have been talking about me. im a fairly good student, a bit loud i admit, but nothing too bad. however, my friend's mum works in the school office, and the other day she over...
A. 22 March 2010: If you can believe for sure what your friend's mother is saying,then it was very unprofessional for the teaching staff to be discussing a student when there was a chance that they would be overheard. Are you absolutely sure that your friend's mother ... (read in full...)
Advice please to get over my boss!
Q. okay, this is awful. i've posted my "issue" previously some many months ago. but i can't seem to get over it. i wrote previously that i had developed certain feelings for my boss, which had gone beyond just boss and subordinate. he's married, an...
A. 22 March 2010: It's hard to get rid of a crush when the object of your affection is in your face everyday. You are doing the right thing by keeping your distance as much as you can. Redirect you thoughts whenever you start thinking about the boss. And by all means ... (read in full...)
What can I do to be able to be affectionate with the one I like.
Q. Since the age of 9 until the age of 14 one of my neighbors would force me to kiss him and he would rub my legs. He does not do it any more but now I cannot allow guys to touch me or I become anxious. It bothers me because I would like to be ...
A. 22 March 2010: You need to go and speak with a therapist who deals with child abuse. Do your parents know about this neighbor?... (read in full...)
Astrology!
Q. hello I would like to ask what do people think of astrology did anyone read some predictions of his horoscope and it really happened! please give me your experience...
A. 22 March 2010: I've had lots more predictions not come true than any that did and the ones that did were so vague that you could read just about anything into them. In my opinion it's all bunk. ... (read in full...)
It's hard for me to see past his looks.
Q. I am in my late thirties, I have been with my boyfriend who is 3 years older than me for a few months. I thought I would have got past this feeling by now but I don't seem to have yet....I like him as a person but I find him unattractive. He is ...
A. 22 March 2010: Nobody's perfect so there's always a trade-off. It just boils down to whether the pro's out-weigh the con's. If you can't enjoy sex with the guy I'd say the con's have tipped the scale.... (read in full...)
How can I boost my confidence in the dating scene?
Q. I am 21 years old. I have never had a proper boyfriend and only been on 1 date in the last years and he turned out to be a real idiot. I have very low self esteem and find it really hard to meet new people. I have tried chat sites but always back ...
A. 22 March 2010: Get involved with a community project, do some volunteering, join a club, in other words get out there and be visible. You will get to know people and the network begins to grow. You'll find that special guy and you will make lots of good friends in ... (read in full...)
Why should I have to choose between my girlfriend and my mum?
Q. Please help. My girlfriend and i have a young baby, my girlfriend thinks my mum hasn't made enough effort in coming to see us and the baby (which maybe she hasn't but my gf hasn't made her feel welcome lately). Also my mum is depressed at the ...
A. 22 March 2010: If they don't want to see each other then fine and dandy. But I still thinks YOU should bring the baby around to see her grandmother. It's your daughter as well. Man up and leave these silly women to their petty squabbles.... (read in full...)
My wife embarrasses me, and treats my daughter badly.
Q. I have been in a married to the same woman for a few years now. Before I met my wife I had about thirty girl friends. Even though I had so many girl friends I only had sex with two of them. I was looking for a relationship and not a booty ...
A. 22 March 2010: Tell her to knock it off and shape up. If she needs some therapy then fine, tell her she should go get some, but in the meantime if she keeps up with the bad manners you're out of there. Her behavior is totally unacceptable. And if she's 40+, you ... (read in full...)
Am I in labour?
Q. 4th day of back pain in late pregnancy is it labour?tonight has been the worst, i have woken up from severe lower back pain and a pain on the left side of my vaginal wall however i have had no contractions in my stomach is it labour?...
A. 22 March 2010: Kayla, you keep coming here for medical advice regarding your pregnancy and people keep telling you to contact your doctor. Please do it, we are just strangers on the internet for crying out loud.... (read in full...)
Love among the ruins
Q. I hope it's all right if I write. I'm not your traditional client. I'm 62, and I recently bumped (quite accidentally) into my very first real love, a girl for whom I gladly would have died, in 1966. The Vietnam war separated us. She then married ...
A. 19 March 2010: You guys are going to have a blast this summer!... (read in full...)
She has "long" nipples!
Q. Hey, my girlfriend has long nipples and only a size A breast she's a tiny girl and don't get me wrong I love it. She's probably the sexiest woman I have ever seen or been with. I am just wondering why does she have these long nipples? They're ...
A. 19 March 2010: Because God said so.... (read in full...)
Loose? Or control issues?
Q. Ok...I have visited this site on several occassions with the same dilemma...my boyfriend complains about sex with me. He says that my vagina and anus are loose and I do not feel the same way I did when he met me one year ago. The anus I can ...
A. 19 March 2010: Since you keep reposting this question and you get the same responses each time, what's the point? You've even gotten medical advice saying the same thing. You must really like the abuse, I've heard some people actually do.... (read in full...)
Will allowing my wife to sleep with other men get her through her mid life crisis?
Q. My wife has came to me with the idea that she wants to sleep with other men. She is madly in love with me and our sex life is incredible. She has been chatting online with other men and has lined up her first "dude" for this Friday night. She is ...
A. 18 March 2010: After you last follow up I think you should tell her that if she sleeps with another man, you are going to sleep with another woman. Maybe THAT will make her think twice.... (read in full...)
Should I come clean and take my punishment?
Q. I cheated on my husband in a moment of passion, I am such a bad person and regret it, what should I do? I work as a bartender and this older guy that stays after closing time as a friend (we recently have had a couple break-ins/robber...
A. 18 March 2010: How sure can you be that this blow job guy will keep his mouth shut? The way I see it is you have no alternative but to tell your husband. But don't use this cockamamie story you told us, fess up with the truth when you tell your husband.... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and pregnant and want to keep the baby
Q. hi my name is desiree and i stress every day its so much drama that go on in my life i been through alot and im having a baby and i no im kinda young but i think i can handle it because i carry myself as a young ladie dont get into no more drama and ...
A. 18 March 2010: Who's going to pay all bills if you keep it? ... (read in full...)
27 and desperate for a baby....
Q. I am 27 years old ,never been married and I want to have a baby... I fear I may never meet anyone who will want to marry me and have children and I turn 28 this year so time is ticking.. its not like i've put it on hold, I've always wanted a ...
A. 17 March 2010: I always said to myself that if I never found a guy I really wanted to marry I'd still go ahead and have children. I did however fall in love and we have three lovely children and now 6 and soon to be 7 grandkids. I can't imagine raising these kids ... (read in full...)
Am I right to keep my distance from my ex?
Q. Hi Ive been dumped twice by the same person , 3 years ago and again last year, since then 8 months ago ,Ive met someone else and really get on well with her, my ex is coming to live on my street again, Im not really that bothered, but I do want to ...
A. 17 March 2010: I think keeping your distance is the best medicine. Focus on your new relationship and let the past stay there.... (read in full...)
I feel like I've lost my daughter
Q. Hi Guys, I'm posting in a real state of distress re one of my daughters. She has been going out with in appropriate guys since she was 16 and is onto her third boyfriend now who is pleasant enough but unemployed and seems to depend on her for ...
A. 17 March 2010: I have two daughters (now 33 and 31)and during their late teens and early twenties I was the dumbest person they knew. I watched them date idiots and cringed every time they introduced me to their new boyfriends. But then a miracle occurred! They ... (read in full...)
Will allowing my wife to sleep with other men get her through her mid life crisis?
Q. My wife has came to me with the idea that she wants to sleep with other men. She is madly in love with me and our sex life is incredible. She has been chatting online with other men and has lined up her first "dude" for this Friday night. She is ...
A. 17 March 2010: "mid-life crisis" my butt. It's just a convenient excuse. Tell the drama queen to grow up or get out.... (read in full...)
Should I fulfill my wifes FFM fantasy?
Q. My wife and I have been married for several years and have a one of a kind relationship. Most people we know tell us wehave the perfect marriage. We just communicate very well and are best friends and can't be 2 hrs without eachother. Our sex has ...
A. 17 March 2010: Exactly, almasdp. This is a prime example of someone posting on DC who really isn't asking for help but has already decided what he thinks and what he's going to do. It's just argumentative and rather pointless to have any further discussion.... (read in full...)
Should I fulfill my wifes FFM fantasy?
Q. My wife and I have been married for several years and have a one of a kind relationship. Most people we know tell us wehave the perfect marriage. We just communicate very well and are best friends and can't be 2 hrs without eachother. Our sex has ...
A. 16 March 2010: Why do I get a feeling that this whole threesome is not even on the table and that this guy is just a wishin' and a hopin'?... (read in full...)
My OCD husband really gets on my nerves sometimes. How can I deal with this?
Q. I have been married to my husband for 3 and a half years. I just want an honest answer to some things. There are some things he does that gets on my nerves so bad that i can feel it physically. I have anxiety and he has ocd. He repeats himself, ...
A. 15 March 2010: Was diagnosed by a medical doctor? Did you marry him knowing he had OCD? Certain medications work exceptionally well for OCD sufferers. Make sure he is being well-cared for by his doctor. He's not trying to get on your nerves, he has a disorder for ... (read in full...)
What is up with all of this???
Q. A couple of weeks ago, I went to visit an associate of mine. She had a possible health problem and I wanted to make sure she was okay. When I got to her house, this tall, handsome guy walks out and introduces himself as her son. I asked for her ...
A. 15 March 2010: Yep he got what he was looking for, he called for a few days then someone else caught his eye. If and when he comes sniffing around again don't jump into the sack with him and see how long he sticks around.... (read in full...)
A year on and he's come back into my head... Help!!!
Q. hi i feel so shit today and i dont know why i let this man control how i feel. i split up with my ex boyfriend nearly a year ago now after a really awful 3 years of mental cruelty and name calling making me feel like crap basically. Him going out ...
A. 15 March 2010: I think you still aren't thinking quite straight. Continue on with the counseling or I'm afraid you might end up in this very same situation with another guy. Whenever we allow someone to have so much influence over our lives we have lost control. ... (read in full...)
We're mates but I don't know whether he likes me as more than that.
Q. Ok I'm 13 and I've liked this boy for a while. I asked him out but he said no. But I still really like him. We're mates but I dont know whether he likes me as more than that. I know I like him more. Any help would be appreciated. Thank-you....
A. 15 March 2010: Give him some time, like a couple of years, he'll probably be more accommodating to the fairer sex by then.... (read in full...)
Should I fulfill my wifes FFM fantasy?
Q. My wife and I have been married for several years and have a one of a kind relationship. Most people we know tell us wehave the perfect marriage. We just communicate very well and are best friends and can't be 2 hrs without eachother. Our sex has ...
A. 15 March 2010: Is this a same sex marriage? Are you female or did you just click the wring button?... (read in full...)
Love among the ruins
Q. I hope it's all right if I write. I'm not your traditional client. I'm 62, and I recently bumped (quite accidentally) into my very first real love, a girl for whom I gladly would have died, in 1966. The Vietnam war separated us. She then married ...
A. 15 March 2010: See we old farts have more romance in our little fingers than most youngsters...I remember the 60's...sort of...anyway best of luck and ohhhh those summer nights!... (read in full...)
I am 14, pregnant and haven't told anybody! What do I do?
Q. ok so i had sex with my bf and we used a condom and i still got pregnent, I'm only 14 and nobody knows, not even my bf, I'm scared to tell anyone, my mom said if i ever got pregnant that i would have to get an abortion. What do i do??? HELP PLEA...
A. 15 March 2010: This thread is going to give me nightmares..."shiver"... (read in full...)
I'm coping so well with the break-up that I don't want to see him again, but he still has some of my stuff! What should I do?
Q. My ex broke up with me almost a month ago. The funny thing is I'm actually perfectly fine. lol I think this is the best I've been after a break up. I have decided the last thing I want is a reconciliation and having time to reflect... I don't really ...
A. 15 March 2010: Make him hang it on the door.... (read in full...)
I hate the idea that my girlfriend was using birth control with her ex, I wish she had used condoms with all of her ex's!
Q. Hi. I need some good advice on how to deal with my own thoughts. Last night my fiancé asked me what kind of protection I would use before with my ex girlfriends. I told her I always used condoms. Right now my fiancé is on birth control. So she is ...
A. 12 March 2010: Most of the time, usually, quite often, but "ALWAYS"...not so sure... (read in full...)
He's too lazy to get up and feed our son!!!
Q. hey i need some advice, my fiance wont get outta bed to feed our 2 month old son! we both do a night feed each as i do all the child care, he only does one feed in 24 hours and thats one of the night feed. since iv had my son iv had to do nearly ...
A. 12 March 2010: I meant that's at LEAST 10 hours...... (read in full...)
He's too lazy to get up and feed our son!!!
Q. hey i need some advice, my fiance wont get outta bed to feed our 2 month old son! we both do a night feed each as i do all the child care, he only does one feed in 24 hours and thats one of the night feed. since iv had my son iv had to do nearly ...
A. 12 March 2010: 11 p.m. to 9/10 a.m. is at 10 hours! That's more sleep than I get every night! I don't see a problem.... (read in full...)
I cant stand my colleagues eating habits and it is starting to affect our work environment. What can I do?
Q. Hi all! I need to have a moan about a colleagues eating habits. A colleague of mine has the worst eating habits ever! She never has breakfast and instead comes in to work and eats 2-3 packets of crisps washed down by a can of redbull! Now we work ...
A. 11 March 2010: We have one of these in my office, we actually DO call her Mary Sunshine.... (read in full...)
He's too lazy to get up and feed our son!!!
Q. hey i need some advice, my fiance wont get outta bed to feed our 2 month old son! we both do a night feed each as i do all the child care, he only does one feed in 24 hours and thats one of the night feed. since iv had my son iv had to do nearly ...
A. 11 March 2010: I always did the night feedings with my three kids because I wasn't working and could take a nap during the day when the babies did. But then my husband did get up and work 8+ hour days all week. If your fiance is the only one who brings home the ... (read in full...)
Why should I have to choose between my girlfriend and my mum?
Q. Please help. My girlfriend and i have a young baby, my girlfriend thinks my mum hasn't made enough effort in coming to see us and the baby (which maybe she hasn't but my gf hasn't made her feel welcome lately). Also my mum is depressed at the ...
A. 11 March 2010: Your girlfriend is out of line. Your mother wasn't up for a battle at this point in time. The baby deserves to get to know his/her grandmother. People who use babies to advance their own agendas really piss me off. If she doesn't want your mother in ... (read in full...)
I cant stand my colleagues eating habits and it is starting to affect our work environment. What can I do?
Q. Hi all! I need to have a moan about a colleagues eating habits. A colleague of mine has the worst eating habits ever! She never has breakfast and instead comes in to work and eats 2-3 packets of crisps washed down by a can of redbull! Now we work ...
A. 11 March 2010: Keep antibacterial spray around and use it frequently on everything she touches. I think your problem will resolve itself in short order.... (read in full...)
Had sex with my twin sister's husband. Not sure if I should tell my sister or wait to see if I'm preganant...
Q. Hi my name is Stacy. I need some advice. I have had sex with my twin sister's husband. I do not know if I should tell her or not. I know it is wrong for me to have done that. The first time it was only anal sex just because I was curious and my ...
A. 9 September 2007: Irish is too much of a lady to call you such names, but I'm not. You are a cheap slut and whore and I think you are proud of the fact. Loser.... (read in full...)
| *yeswideopen's friends
These are mutual friends, so *yeswideopen has
added them and they have added *yeswideopen!
|
