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I am supposed to get married in 2 1/2 months but I just got my sister in law pregnant!

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Question - (1 February 2010) 13 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, *aster splinter writes:

hi im master splinter . in about 2 and a half months im getting married BUT THERE IS ONE THING i need to get of my chest its my sister inlaw to be well about 2 weeks ago my girlfriend went into hospital to give birth to our 2 child . i was there at the birth but when i left her at the hospital i went home anyway got home and her sister was there looking after our eldest chiled ive had a crush on her for some time as i think she has on me anyway got indoors and she was there in the kitchen on her own i chatted to her for a while then i went into the main room to watch tv i sat down well a hour passed and she came the room started talking to me and she must had a shower we got chatting and we messed around a bit after a while she sat next to me she asked me to hold her so i did we cuddled for abit then we agreed to have sex i wish to god i love her so bad for a few weeks we met and had lots of sex yes unprotected and now she is pregent with my baby i love her please help i need to stop the wedding befour its too late no body knows as yet

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A female reader, pacsunbabe21 United States +, writes (2 February 2010):

no one can help you on this one! you screwed uhpp BIG TIME!!! Now go tell your girlfriend what you did! I bet she will be happy to hear you knocked uhpp her sister!

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A male reader, camrcam2 United States +, writes (1 February 2010):

camrcam2 agony auntsorry dude you screwed up bad now the advice is to take your punishment thats really all you can do.no simpathy.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (1 February 2010):

Honeypie agony auntYou made your bed, now lie in it.. Sigh.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010):

are you my father in law? blast in all i know you have to be some kin.... just move on and leave them both. then find a pretty chick at your job and get her knocked up. dont marry her either just keep moving on to new and fresh girls. it doesnt matter what heart-ache you leave behind as long as your penis is happy thats all that matters. dont worry about the kids, after all thats what grandparents are for.dont bother to raise any of them...and then when you are in your late 60's and start falling apart and are left lonely you can complain about how unfair life has been. its worked pretty good for him so im not just giving random advice. this is serious stuff that works. tried and proven. mal

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A female reader, Angzw Zimbabwe +, writes (1 February 2010):

I agree with everybody. But here is my advice: seriously consider a termination. Unfortunately its not your final decision but you need to do this properly. Then tell your girlfriend now that you dont want the wedding for now and you would like to postpone it to get your mind straight. Tell her you want a break from the relationship. Then during that time you think carefully about what you want.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (1 February 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntWho's the British Jerry Springer?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2010):

No one on this planet can help you now, though I will at least suggest a course of action. Firstly, be honest with you bride to be. She deserves to know the truth from you. Secondly, tell her it's over. Make sure you're there for your child if nothing else. Then think carefully about whether you want this other sister of not. If she's willing to do the dirty on her sister, then she'll do the dirty on you. And for God's sake get a DNA test done (secretly) to make sure it is your baby.

It's likely the family will be blown apart, and you and her will be hated. But there it is.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010):

Why no condom? And it's disgusting that you had sex with her sister while she was giving birth to your child! THEY ARE GOING TO SUE YOU TO THE GROUND. Rightly so.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010):

omg! what a mess. I don't think anyone can help you on this one mate.

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A male reader, Faraday United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2010):

Faraday agony auntA classic case of your lower brain taking over completely!

What an arsehole you are - sorry, Moderators, but how else can I put it?

You have made your bed, my friend, and now you must lie in it.

NO sympathy.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2010):

The only man who can possibly help you is Jeremy Kyle.

Tell them all and then I hope you have a good job, because you are going to have to pay her back for her half of the wedding and then a LOT of child support payments as well as 3 homes, 1 for each of your kids and one for you.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (1 February 2010):

Honeygirl agony auntSorry you have ruined your life, and the life of your fiance and that of her sister all because you couldnt keep your penis in your pants.

There is no advice that I can offer you that will get you out of this situation.

You are going to have to suffer the consequences!

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2010):

k_c100 agony auntSo let me get this straight. You left your fiance and new born baby in hospital, when you then had sex with your soon to be sister in law and now she is pregnant too?

I'm afraid there is no-one on this site who can help you, this is just messed-up and there are no words to tell you how wrong this all is.

I hope you are happy knowing that you have ruined an entire family and you have caused untold damage to your kids. There is no helping people like you, it seems you are too selfish to think about anything aside from your d**k.

You have gotten yourself into this mess, good luck getting yourself out of it with all of your limbs in tact.

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