Why should I have to choose between my girlfriend and my mum?
Q. Please help. My girlfriend and i have a young baby, my girlfriend thinks my mum hasn't made enough effort in coming to see us and the baby (which maybe she hasn't but my gf hasn't made her feel welcome lately). Also my mum is depressed at the ...
A. 22 March 2010: If they don't want to see each other then fine and dandy. But I still thinks YOU should bring the baby around to see her grandmother. It's your daughter as well. Man up and leave these silly women to their petty squabbles.... (read in full...)
He's too lazy to get up and feed our son!!!
Q. hey i need some advice, my fiance wont get outta bed to feed our 2 month old son! we both do a night feed each as i do all the child care, he only does one feed in 24 hours and thats one of the night feed. since iv had my son iv had to do nearly ...
A. 12 March 2010: I meant that's at LEAST 10 hours...... (read in full...)
He's too lazy to get up and feed our son!!!
Q. hey i need some advice, my fiance wont get outta bed to feed our 2 month old son! we both do a night feed each as i do all the child care, he only does one feed in 24 hours and thats one of the night feed. since iv had my son iv had to do nearly ...
A. 12 March 2010: 11 p.m. to 9/10 a.m. is at 10 hours! That's more sleep than I get every night! I don't see a problem.... (read in full...)
I cant stand my colleagues eating habits and it is starting to affect our work environment. What can I do?
Q. Hi all! I need to have a moan about a colleagues eating habits. A colleague of mine has the worst eating habits ever! She never has breakfast and instead comes in to work and eats 2-3 packets of crisps washed down by a can of redbull! Now we work ...
A. 11 March 2010: We have one of these in my office, we actually DO call her Mary Sunshine.... (read in full...)
Am I likely to go into labour late or early going by my symptoms?
Q. i have 4 weeks left of pregnancy and am feeling a lot of movement quite low down and occasionally quite high up does this mean the head hasnt engaged yet i often get a quick sharp pain from time to time in my abdomin, just wondering if the baby is ...
A. 11 March 2010: What did the doctor tell you when you asked him/her? And if you haven't then I suggest you get an opinion from a medical source rather than a bunch of random people on a relationship website. ... (read in full...)
He tricked me!!!!!!!
Q. I like my guy friend, he is nice about my crush, but today he tricked me into kissing his cheek and then he made fun of my blushing!!! so I punched him, and he got a little angry. He did not hit me back, he left. Why would he do that? We are always ...
A. 11 March 2010: Sorry but this sounds sooo grade-schoolish and I find it hard to believe someone who is 18 or older would be playing these goofy games.Try staying away from him for awhile and if he's interested he'll come looking for you.... (read in full...)
He's too lazy to get up and feed our son!!!
Q. hey i need some advice, my fiance wont get outta bed to feed our 2 month old son! we both do a night feed each as i do all the child care, he only does one feed in 24 hours and thats one of the night feed. since iv had my son iv had to do nearly ...
A. 11 March 2010: I always did the night feedings with my three kids because I wasn't working and could take a nap during the day when the babies did. But then my husband did get up and work 8+ hour days all week. If your fiance is the only one who brings home the ... (read in full...)
Sexy striptease tips!
Q. I want to do a sexy strip tease for my boyfriend for our anniversary. I need tips. Like step by step if possible!! :) I want to make this really special for him. Also what should I wear? I am willing to recieve all thoughts!! Thank you. ...
A. 11 March 2010: Of course that's what it's all about...what else could it possibly be? All I can say is it drives my man wild....... (read in full...)
Sexy striptease tips!
Q. I want to do a sexy strip tease for my boyfriend for our anniversary. I need tips. Like step by step if possible!! :) I want to make this really special for him. Also what should I wear? I am willing to recieve all thoughts!! Thank you. ...
A. 11 March 2010: Put your left in, put your left foot out, put your left foot in and shake it all about, put your right foot in....... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong here or is this due to his insecurities?
Q. My boyfriend is very insecure.. we are fighting at the moment because i went to my brothers place for dinner and he said to me "you were probably out with some guy having a quicky" i thought this was disrespectful and said to him i dont want to a...
A. 11 March 2010: Why on God's green earth are you even wasting another second on this guy? Throw this one back into the pond. Gee Whiz.... (read in full...)
Why should I have to choose between my girlfriend and my mum?
Q. Please help. My girlfriend and i have a young baby, my girlfriend thinks my mum hasn't made enough effort in coming to see us and the baby (which maybe she hasn't but my gf hasn't made her feel welcome lately). Also my mum is depressed at the ...
A. 11 March 2010: Your girlfriend is out of line. Your mother wasn't up for a battle at this point in time. The baby deserves to get to know his/her grandmother. People who use babies to advance their own agendas really piss me off. If she doesn't want your mother in ... (read in full...)
I cant stand my colleagues eating habits and it is starting to affect our work environment. What can I do?
Q. Hi all! I need to have a moan about a colleagues eating habits. A colleague of mine has the worst eating habits ever! She never has breakfast and instead comes in to work and eats 2-3 packets of crisps washed down by a can of redbull! Now we work ...
A. 11 March 2010: Keep antibacterial spray around and use it frequently on everything she touches. I think your problem will resolve itself in short order.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to get advice about my marriage from a man I am attracted to?
Q. My husband and I haven't been seeing eye to eye on things recently,which causes us to fuss heatedly. I recently met a man who I can talk to and vent with. We are attracted to each other. Is it wrong to Get his advice?...
A. 10 March 2010: I agree with Frank, just what is your motivation for discussing your personal marriage problems with this guy? Sounds most likely an excuse to hang out and get attention from someone you find very attractive. In these situations it is always a great ... (read in full...)
Help!!! Should we break up?
Q. well.. I have been with my partner for nearly 2 years, we live together and have a child! But just lately i'm questioning if we should really be together! He's extremely lazy, he leaves plates and cups lying around, throws his clothes on the ...
A. 10 March 2010: Your husband will have to pay child support so then all you can do is try to save up some money, maybe take some online classes to make you more employable. Your standard of living is going to be lower after you leave but you will also increase your ... (read in full...)
Nothing I do is helping my high sex drive.
Q. I am a mother of 2 little kids and I am married, just recently i have noticed my sex drive has been really high and my husband doesn't have a high sex drive anymore. When we make love it won't stop it, I then use my toys but that don't help, please ...
A. 10 March 2010: Discuss this with your doctor, I'm sure there is some kind of medication that can supress your libido.... (read in full...)
Help!!! Should we break up?
Q. well.. I have been with my partner for nearly 2 years, we live together and have a child! But just lately i'm questioning if we should really be together! He's extremely lazy, he leaves plates and cups lying around, throws his clothes on the ...
A. 10 March 2010: Leave him. He's not much of a father anyway so I think your daughter won't be that affected. Sort the finances out as best you can and get on with your life.... (read in full...)
Where does the ex-girlfriend sleep??????
Q. I am 24 years old. I've known this bloke for 2 and a half years and I've been seeing him for just under a year. The problem I have is him and his ex-girlfriend. I'm friendly with her and have known her also for 2 and a half years. I've heard from ...
A. 10 March 2010: Let me get this straight, your boyfriend of 2 1/2 years is living in a two bedroom flat with his ex and his brother-in-law. And you are NOW just wondering where the ex sleeps? Have you not ever asked him about the sleeping arrangement? Why on earth ... (read in full...)
My friend wants to send our teacher a love letter.
Q. One of my friends has got a huge crush on a teacher and she wants to send him a love letter. Well, I think it's a stupid idea and she'll just get herself in big trouble. What do you think about sending a teacher a love letter?...
A. 10 March 2010: I doubt she will get herself into trouble but I can pretty much guarantee she get a huge helping of embarrassment. But then some people just have to find out these things the hard way so there's not much you can do about it.... (read in full...)
One ring and he hung up but from the caller ID it was HIM!
Q. Okay here it is I haven't heard from him for over a year and last time I told him I still loved him he kind of got really annoyed. Then I sent him various text messages till six months ago when I stopped coz he would either not reply or reply l...
A. 10 March 2010: Sorry but I don't see why you figure it couldn't have been a mistake. I'd chalk it up to just that. He'll be in touch if he wants to be.... (read in full...)
Fooling around, blow job gone wrong!!!
Q. so me and my boyfriend were just fooling around the other day and i was suckin him off and stuff. i blew on his penis around his wee/cum hole area. i think a small amount of air went in but i dunno. then i realised that dis could be really dangerous ...
A. 10 March 2010: I wonder if you blew helium into his "wee/cum hole" whether he'd talk funny?... (read in full...)
Help!!! Should we break up?
Q. well.. I have been with my partner for nearly 2 years, we live together and have a child! But just lately i'm questioning if we should really be together! He's extremely lazy, he leaves plates and cups lying around, throws his clothes on the ...
A. 10 March 2010: Nope, not one mention of love in this posting. What's keeping you there? ... (read in full...)
Should I take sexy classy pictures for my boyfriend??
Q. My Boyfriend wants me to take sexy pictures for him but he also said he don't want me to take nudes just sexy classy one like EX1) Me wearing my pjs shorts and a tank top.To be truthful I'm really shy and I only take pictures of my face lol. Not ...
A. 10 March 2010: If you are sending him these pic over the Internet, you need to realize they could be out there for anybody to see, family, friends, and even future bosses.... Be careful, very careful.... (read in full...)
Is this just a crush or have I really fallen in love with a married man?
Q. i like a man who is 10 years my senior. he told me that he always quarrel with his wife . both of us are married with children. when he look at me i try to escape his eyes for fear that i might give myself away. he doesnt know that i like him. so ...
A. 10 March 2010: I asked my husband and he said he prefers a good cook, but then he was hungry at the moment after his belly is full his answer may change. Oh and by the way, it's a crush and it will pass.... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he wants this break, its so out of the blue!
Q. My bf of a year and a half get along great, we never fight and are always really happy together. Our families get along and his family loves me and my family loves him. When I say we never fight... we never, ever, fight. People thing we have a model ...
A. 10 March 2010: Graduating from college is very stressful for everyone. Let him have the time and space to figure out his game plan. Tell him that if he wants to talk to you he will have to call you because you are going to respect his wishes for space. Then make ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for us to be together when I am nearly 16 and she is only 13?
Q. Im 15, 16 in may, Iv got a very close friend who is only 13 turning 14. I like her she she likes me back is it ok for use to be an "item'/together? what are your thoughts?...
A. 10 March 2010: My thoughts are to give her a couple more years before you move your relationship past just friendship.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mother and risk my whole family finding out what happened?
Q. Hi there Aunts and Uncles. This is is something that has been playing on my mind for a long time. I'm remaining anonymous due to the topic. I was molested by my cousin as a child. The earliest incident I remember was when I was 4. My cousin was 25...
A. 10 March 2010: Sweetheart, please listen closely to what Angzw has said, very wise advice.... (read in full...)
He invites his ex round to OUR house to visit and I don't know how to handle it any more...
Q. I have met a wonderful man online in a chat room in October of 2009. We met face to face and hit it of so well we have moved in together and not been apart since. Sounds like a happily ever after story well not quite. His ex girlfriend left him...
A. 10 March 2010: To the female poster I can offer only this: You need to decide whether you would be happier with this guy or happier without him. From his posting it is obvious that he will continue dwelling on all his past relationships whether it hurts you or ... (read in full...)
What goes on in her head???
Q. Ok so the story is: We’re both 37 and, if you include the last year, have been together for 4 years. Both previously married – no children. We moved in together after about 8 months but in April of 2009 Michelle decided that she ‘had’ to leave me. ...
A. 9 March 2010: Very wise decision my man.... (read in full...)
Was my cousin trying to have sex with me?
Q. Was my cousin trying to have sex with me? About 4 months ago me and her and the family went to France and stayed in a hostel one night our parents left and there was a friend sleeping on the sofa and my cousin was taking a shower and came out nake...
A. 9 March 2010: How are we supposed to know what would have happened? What are you asking?... (read in full...)
Long-term damage from anal?
Q. Hi I was just reading some questions about anal sex and it said that anal sex can damage you in later life. Well I have had anal sex and have been doing so for a few years. I don't do it very often - about once a month. I was wondering if I could ...
A. 9 March 2010: Exactly, whenever you use a body part for something other than what it was intended for you are asking for some kind of trouble down the line.... (read in full...)
He's really into me and wants a threesome!!!
Q. I have a boyfriend, we've only been together a month, but we're really into each other or at least I think he's really into me. I mean, he asked if I would participate in having a threesome. Not a normal threesome. He just wants to have 2 girls give ...
A. 9 March 2010: You are going to have a lot of heartache ahead if you can't tell a player when you see one, especially at your age. Wise up chickie.... (read in full...)
I'm just in this to please her..."
Q. I am 16 and I have condoms and a wonderful girl who wants me I love her and we are ready to have sex. tommrrow is our 1 year anniversary and we are gonna have sex but I don't wanna get caught so what should I do? There is an extra bed in my attic, ...
A. 9 March 2010: Sadly, a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do. I think if she's so hot to trot let her make the arrangements.... (read in full...)
Fooling around, blow job gone wrong!!!
Q. so me and my boyfriend were just fooling around the other day and i was suckin him off and stuff. i blew on his penis around his wee/cum hole area. i think a small amount of air went in but i dunno. then i realised that dis could be really dangerous ...
A. 8 March 2010: If he didn't start floating to the ceiling I don't think you have anything to worry about here.... (read in full...)
I'm asking for too much with this married guy, right?
Q. hi... i am in a very happy relationship for past 4 years.. everything is just right. I met another guy, a married guy on a trip n had great fun wit him!! After d trip, telephonic conversations started(bf knws).. thenn started d phone sex, n i am ...
A. 8 March 2010: Not murdering someone who pisses you off is the best policy. By your reasoning, murder is the second best policy.... (read in full...)
I'm asking for too much with this married guy, right?
Q. hi... i am in a very happy relationship for past 4 years.. everything is just right. I met another guy, a married guy on a trip n had great fun wit him!! After d trip, telephonic conversations started(bf knws).. thenn started d phone sex, n i am ...
A. 8 March 2010: It's disquesting to say the least.... (read in full...)
Lying to parents to spend time with army boyfriend? Any advice?
Q. Hello... Well ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months now...He is coming back from the army soon and i wanted to spend two days at his dads house with him when his dad is away.. just to have time to talk and stuff... But this would...
A. 8 March 2010: I can't reassure you that you won't be caught because I was and I was still in college when my parents caught me in this very same lie. Now even though I was a legal adult, I lived at home during the breaks and my parents were paying for my ... (read in full...)
Is it true - DO big shoes mean a big penis?
Q. hey guys im just a bit curious if this is correct, but is true that guys with a big shoe size have a big ding dong? like for example if a guy had a 12 inch and a half shoe size would his penis be larger than a guy with a 5 inch shoe? is this true?? ...
A. 8 March 2010: By their shoes??? That's silly. Obviously the only reliable way of telling penis size is to contact Q's ex-wife.... (read in full...)
I can't believe that no one remembers my birthday
Q. So I'll be 45 in two days. My kids are grown, and I've been dating this guy for 2 years. He has 3 kids; 13, 15, 21. I am currently staying with him until I close on my house (he wanted me to live with him, but the house is too small and I just ...
A. 8 March 2010: Well great! Make sure you keep making your needs known, if once you do that and he ignores them, you'll know you have a real problem. Congrats.... (read in full...)
He puts his ex and son ahead of me.
Q. I have been dating this guy for about 3 months. We really like each other a lot. He has a son with another woman and I know that I can't compete with that, but here's the problem. He says that he is tryin to get along with her so that he doesn't ...
A. 8 March 2010: You hooked up with him too soon. Tell him to look you up once he gets his life together. Too many loose strings here. You are liable to get yourself one big fat heartache if you get involved with him at this point.... (read in full...)
Could she still want me? I want her.
Q. So I me and my girl broke ulna few weeks ago we were not at the I love you stage I did love her just never said it. We've tried staying friends and it's working but the problem is I still want to be with her. I think she fills the same just cant ...
A. 5 March 2010: Isn't an ulna a bone in the arm? Not sure since I didn't break that one.... (read in full...)
Thinking of giving up relationships.
Q. How can a woman stay off relationships forever? I'm considering that route. I'm really young at 21 to make such a decision, but I don't know. I'm attracted to men, both sexually and romantically. No attraction to women whatsoever. But there are ...
A. 5 March 2010: Nope Wednesday is the day for pube questions.... (read in full...)
Help!!! Is this the beginning of the end for us?
Q. well, iv been with my boyfriend for about two and a half years. lately, hes just started his first full time job, and im so pleased for him, but he claims its the reason he keeps 'forgetting' things, as he has 'a lot on his mind'. for example,...
A. 5 March 2010: He may have a lot things on his mind but apparently you aren't one of them. You could play hardball and stand him up next time or you could cut to the chase and just ask him if he needs a break for awhile. For sure something will have to change, I'd ... (read in full...)
I can't believe that no one remembers my birthday
Q. So I'll be 45 in two days. My kids are grown, and I've been dating this guy for 2 years. He has 3 kids; 13, 15, 21. I am currently staying with him until I close on my house (he wanted me to live with him, but the house is too small and I just ...
A. 5 March 2010: Sounds like a good plan. Personally I stopped celebrating my birthdays after I turned fifty, too much wax on the tablecloth and singed eyebrows. I think perhaps there is something more to this story than just a forgotten birthday however.... (read in full...)
Thinking of giving up relationships.
Q. How can a woman stay off relationships forever? I'm considering that route. I'm really young at 21 to make such a decision, but I don't know. I'm attracted to men, both sexually and romantically. No attraction to women whatsoever. But there are ...
A. 5 March 2010: Nicely said you two.... (read in full...)
Could she still want me? I want her.
Q. So I me and my girl broke ulna few weeks ago we were not at the I love you stage I did love her just never said it. We've tried staying friends and it's working but the problem is I still want to be with her. I think she fills the same just cant ...
A. 5 March 2010: Sorry but you lost me with your first eleven words.... (read in full...)
Thinking of giving up relationships.
Q. How can a woman stay off relationships forever? I'm considering that route. I'm really young at 21 to make such a decision, but I don't know. I'm attracted to men, both sexually and romantically. No attraction to women whatsoever. But there are ...
A. 4 March 2010: That's my point, you will just have to live with those occasions when you feel the need to be held and cuddled in order to keep yourself partner-free. Grin and bear it so to speak. ... (read in full...)
Thinking of giving up relationships.
Q. How can a woman stay off relationships forever? I'm considering that route. I'm really young at 21 to make such a decision, but I don't know. I'm attracted to men, both sexually and romantically. No attraction to women whatsoever. But there are ...
A. 4 March 2010: It's because you are asking for a solution to an impossible situation that you aren't getting the responses you are looking for. You want a partner's affection but you don't want a partner. You can't have it both ways. Pehaps in the furture they ... (read in full...)
I'm asking for too much with this married guy, right?
Q. hi... i am in a very happy relationship for past 4 years.. everything is just right. I met another guy, a married guy on a trip n had great fun wit him!! After d trip, telephonic conversations started(bf knws).. thenn started d phone sex, n i am ...
A. 14 October 2009: yep you are asking too much.... (read in full...)
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