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writes:My wife and I have discussed threesomes, but ultimately said we didn't want to cross that line and risk our relationship; however, it doesn't mean we don't still think about it, from a curiosity standpoint. She mentioned she would like to strip, that would be something on her "bucket list" that she would like to cross off the list. I feel ok with this, nervous a bit sure, but ok with it as we are both sort of curious in a sense.Anyways, we have a friend that works as a bouncer at a strip club about an hour away from where we live, which distance is good as we don't want to run into people she would strip for. Plus, he mentioned she could still make a lot of money just being in a bikini and only would need to strip if she felt comfortable that night.With that being said, IF you were ok with it, or curious at least would you let her do it?If you would, would you go with her or would you stay away? (I would be worried that I would get jealous if I were present and that could lead to problems.)A strip club seems to be a safer alternative than attempting a threesome, while at the same time satisfying that curiosity. You have a bouncer watching over the girls, and the customers aren't aloud to "touch".
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010): Hell yes! Let her strip!!! I'd love it if my wife would strip at a club. Talk about a turn on........
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): Ok, let is probably not clear enough, let's clarify, should I let her without any consequences from me? Every action deserves a re-action, so I can't stop her should she choose to, but I sure as hell can leave her. That is the point and if she respects that, then yes there is some control we have over each other, that is what prevents one partner from cheating on each other. Sure my wife doesn't let me go sleep with other woman, even though she can't physically stop me, the respect is what controls it.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (25 January 2010):
 I don't think that "let" is the right decision, it implies that the husband is in authority over the wife.
However I don't think she should. Stripping in front of a bunch of strangers is really inappropriate when you're married to someone else. Intimacy means just that. Out of respect for your feelings, she shouldn't. I mean, she wouldn't want you to strip in front of other women, I'm sure.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 January 2010):
 If you have the slightest, and I'm talking eensy weensy, shred of jealousy, then she shouldn't do it. And since you mentioned jealousy then my answer is no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): She has stripped for me and she is good at it. In all honesty I don't see her ever actually following through with it, as she is too conservative when it comes to things like this, so in the end it is most likely a distant fantasy.But I think what made her think of it lately is when a female friend of hers (not this bouncer) told her that strippers make good cash, that is when she asked this bouncer friend (since she knew he worked at a strip club) if it was true. Not that my wife is greedy or without morals, but even if for one night I think on top of the personal experience she views that she is getting paid as well.But she wouldn't do it unless I am 100% on board with it and I can see her getting to the point right before the stage and getting cold feet.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 January 2010):
The problem I have is this isn't just about a career and just making money, she's really using this as a very personal thing. My worry is that it might make your relationship a bit worse to be honest. If it was just about the money, I'd say go for it. But there are personal feelings here, and it might put a strain on your relationship. She could always just strip for you.
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