Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?
Q. my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...
A. 13 April 2010: And I'll repeat my answer. Don't forget he's the one who knocked her up and left her in the dust, pregnant with his child and alone. She may need some moral support from both YOU and the father. That would be the classy thing to do. Why can't you ... (read in full...)
Unreasonable???
Q. I need URGENT advice here, Me and and my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years were due to view an apartment this evening which had been planned a few weeks ago. We were hoping to move into this apartment on 24th April, very soon. There has been a lot of ...
A. 25 March 2010: It's very hard to miscarry a baby and then have to watch someone have twins, I can feel your pain with that. But I also think that has clouded you vision and judgement so you do seem rather selfish and unreasonable. You will be making a grave ... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?
Q. my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...
A. 25 March 2010: Don't forget he's the one who knocked her up and left her in the dust, pregnant with his child and alone. She may need some moral support from both YOU and the father. That would be the classy thing to do.... (read in full...)
Is it all just a big front with them to fit in?
Q. Their are the boys at school that have been known for being gay for a long time because of their actions and two of them are my friends, the first one has been my friend long from 1st grade to 8th grade, he used to act so gay, he'll be dancing and ...
A. 24 March 2010: Hey how many gay questions are you going to post today anyway?... (read in full...)
I am attracted to the characters on South Park! Is this cause for concern?
Q. I find the characters in "South Park" kind of attractive, is this a reason to be concerned? I mean, they are nine years old. And they are not real....
A. 24 March 2010: See? There's proof the 70's really DID happen.... (read in full...)
Is my cousin gay and putting on a front to be straight?
Q. I was 15 and he was 16 and About two years ago over my cousin's house i slept with him in the bed and we were talking. He said all the gay boys names who were coming to his school and he said i was one, in a playing way i think he is always playing, ...
A. 24 March 2010: None of your beeswax me boy.... (read in full...)
Did he really actually like me at one point even though he doesn't any more???
Q. I met this guy on myspace in December. When we first started talking, we talked for hours. We decided to meet on New Years since we live 25 min from each other (a week after we started talking) He was really nice. We cuddled, held hands.. and even ...
A. 24 March 2010: What does it matter whether he liked you in the past? He's conspicuous with his absence now. Time to move on my dear.... (read in full...)
Do you think my ex would change if I were to go back to her?
Q. Hi all, i really need some help here !! I split up with my girlfriend of 9 months about 6 weeks ago and we've had a really tough time since saying some really nasty things to each other. She finished with me becuase she said she wasn't happy an...
A. 24 March 2010: I think ex's most often should remain ex's. Give the new girl a chance.... (read in full...)
Cheating option...
Q. Hi Friends, I have been married for few months now and have a daughter around 1 month old. I've been going to this gym for some time now and think I have fallen for the receptionist at the gym. I think even she likes me. I have not told this gir...
A. 24 March 2010: One can only hope Carrot, one can only hope....... (read in full...)
Would you consider me a slut/slag/hoe???
Q. hi, well im a 16 year old girl and i have 3 boys im messing with, i haven't had sex with none of them but other stuff... they dont want a relationship with me and neither do i with them. do you think im a slut? Be honest! i just want to know if ...
A. 24 March 2010: Quit doing things that don't make you proud of yourself and you won't have anything to wory about. "To thine own self be true".... (read in full...)
Why does this guy keep staring at me all the time?
Q. At school there's this boy who just stares at me and messes with me sometimes and he barely knows me, he just knows my name and he constantly stares at me every time he see's me like when the bell rings everyone is in the hall he finds me and stares ...
A. 24 March 2010: Ignore him if you don't want to ask him what his agenda is. But the fact that he stares is pretty disconcerting. Are you gay? If yes, do the other kids at your school know you are gay? If yes, then I would hazard to guess he is interested in you ... (read in full...)
Why did he look over me???
Q. Ok i like this guy but he said that he was too busy working to have a gf. but his friend told me that he was thinkin about askin another girl out. why did he look over me?...
A. 24 March 2010: Guess you aren't his type. It happens.... (read in full...)
A questions for all the guys out there: Girl A, Girl B, or Girl C?
Q. My question is not because I would ever change myself. I just want to hear what guys actually and truly think. I'm going to name three stereotypical girls. (Only sort of stereotypical, mainly just three different personalities). Tell me which you ...
A. 24 March 2010: We aren't doing your homework assignment are we?... (read in full...)
Unreasonable???
Q. I need URGENT advice here, Me and and my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years were due to view an apartment this evening which had been planned a few weeks ago. We were hoping to move into this apartment on 24th April, very soon. There has been a lot of ...
A. 24 March 2010: I think your boyfriend is really excited about becoming an uncle. See if you can get a rain check on viewing the apartment. You need to remember to pick your battles and not to sweat the small stuff. A new baby is a very big deal to most families. ... (read in full...)
What should I do about the rumours?
Q. Two of my 'friends' have been spreading rumors that I pole-dance. I swung on a pole once when I was dared to, but it was just a joke. Now people actually believe these girls, and they think I do it for a living.... I can't take it. Soon my BF will ...
A. 24 March 2010: This is totally goofy, nobody will even begin to believe something so dumb. ... (read in full...)
Caught in compromising footage on the internet, ..but it was all totally innocent!
Q. Several years ago, I was leaving a concert. As we heading to a parking garage a woman on the street took off her top and lowered her pants showing everything. She bent over in front of me and gave everyone a show. The whole thing lasted only a ...
A. 24 March 2010: Yeah well we all saw your video Q. No sense hiding behind a billboard.... (read in full...)
Cheating option...
Q. Hi Friends, I have been married for few months now and have a daughter around 1 month old. I've been going to this gym for some time now and think I have fallen for the receptionist at the gym. I think even she likes me. I have not told this gir...
A. 24 March 2010: See? Every time you post this you get the same responses. Admit it, you like the abuse.... (read in full...)
Caught in compromising footage on the internet, ..but it was all totally innocent!
Q. Several years ago, I was leaving a concert. As we heading to a parking garage a woman on the street took off her top and lowered her pants showing everything. She bent over in front of me and gave everyone a show. The whole thing lasted only a ...
A. 24 March 2010: You can give it a try but if it's on one website it's most likely on others. A picture or video on the Internet is like a living breathing entity with regenerative powers. If you think your wife may come across it, I'd just show it to her. It's not ... (read in full...)
Why does he wait until alone to talk to his ex when they have both moved on?
Q. Dear qupid, I have been married for two months. My husband was married 11 years ago and he has a child with his ex wife. Yesterday the phone rang and he did not pick up however he did state it was his ex wife.. he did not return the call through...
A. 24 March 2010: Most likely it's because he's afraid you'll react badly to his talking to her in front of you. He might not want you to overhear and is hiding something but I really think it's because of your reaction. Are you jealous of his ex-wife?... (read in full...)
Why do people think there can ever be a 'bright side' to a break up?
Q. Why do people always think "there's a silver lining in every ordeal we come across?" How do you apply this in break-ups? Why do people always say "Look at the bright side of the break-up"? What's the bright side of it?...
A. 24 March 2010: The bright side is that you are no longer wasting your time on someone who isn't right for you. You now are free to find the one who is.... (read in full...)
Sensitive girl dating very sarcastic man.....will it work out or end in tears?
Q. im 22 goin out wit my 26 yr old boyfrend 7 months for the first 3 months we had so much fun we used to always go out dancing in clubs go to pubs and go out drinking and go to cinemas. we said i love you after only 3 months which is very quick i kno...
A. 24 March 2010: You get a new boyfriend, that's what you do.... (read in full...)
Do you dream of threesomes? Have you ever had one?
Q. Another popular topic around here seems to be threesomes. How to ask, how to say no, it's always a bad idea, etc. I'm curious about how many of you fantasize, or are interested in threesomes, either mmf or ffm, or group sex. Is it really only a...
A. 24 March 2010: Hey Mike, read this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/threesome-with-husband---best-friend-gone.html... (read in full...)
I moved with my boyfriend to another city but I can't find a job and he can no longer support me for free. Please help!
Q. ive asked for advice on here before but now i think it time i asked again... im feeling extremely stressed. everything feels like its falling around me. about five months ago i had a perfect plan. i have an amazing boyfriend who lives with...
A. 24 March 2010: Okay which one of you knuckleheads blew the margin?... (read in full...)
Will not having sex early mean I will never lose my virginity?
Q. I know, I know this is such a dumb topic to talk about but I'm at a loss. I'm 17 and still a virgin, nothing unusual right? But here's the thing I recently found out that out of all of my friends I'm the only virgin. I was totally shocked by this, ...
A. 24 March 2010: Just relax. In my opinion, being a virgin at 17 should be the norm not the exception. And you are very wise thinking it should happen with a very special guy. So like I said, relax, it will happen sooner or later. The best thing is not to have any ... (read in full...)
A questions for all the guys out there: Girl A, Girl B, or Girl C?
Q. My question is not because I would ever change myself. I just want to hear what guys actually and truly think. I'm going to name three stereotypical girls. (Only sort of stereotypical, mainly just three different personalities). Tell me which you ...
A. 24 March 2010: Good call NMN!... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?
Q. my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...
A. 24 March 2010: He is now PERMANENTLY involved with the mother of his son. It is the way it should be. You have no right to insist he cut all contact with her except for emergencies. Of course he was irresponsible for having unprotected sex, and yes he does sound ... (read in full...)
Help! Hopelessly in love and it's killing me!!
Q. *OP's own title* I'm in love. It's that simple. We had a little thing 2 months ago. I've liked him 3 years. I waited so long to simply kiss him. My passion for him was wild. And his for me, was too. But in the end, he said being friends is bet...
A. 24 March 2010: You are smitten aren't you? Unfortunately it looks all one-sided. You have to realize that there's no future with this guy, he's just not interested. So his loss. Start accepting the other dates. Try to keep yourself from dwelling on this guy, no ... (read in full...)
I am attracted to the characters on South Park! Is this cause for concern?
Q. I find the characters in "South Park" kind of attractive, is this a reason to be concerned? I mean, they are nine years old. And they are not real....
A. 24 March 2010: Well at least you know they aren't real, that's the first step. The second step would be to turn off the TV and get a hobby. ... (read in full...)
Threesome with husband & best friend gone wrong... I think??
Q. Hello, My husband and I had a threesome with my best friend the other evening. I wasn't exactly into it and I told him but he kept insisting and finally when we were all watching tv he made the move. I wasn't exactly expecting him too but I thought ...
A. 24 March 2010: Do you mind being the poster child for all the threesome questions we get? Your threesome result is exactly what we try to warn people about.... (read in full...)
If the first topic on the first date is polygamy, what would you think?
Q. hello, I have a question, if a man asks you out on date and the first topic he talks about is polygamy. what would you think!...
A. 24 March 2010: Yeah I kind of think he might be married too. Are you sure he isn't?... (read in full...)
I am sick of waiting for this married man to divorce his wife. What is he up to?
Q. I'm involved with a married man for a year now, he's been clear from day 1, he said his marriage was arranged by his parents, that he never met his wife before engagement and that he's only "obeing" his mom by marrying the woman, he said he never ...
A. 24 March 2010: If you want to waste your precious life on this planet then go right ahead and keep doing what your are doing. And when you are a lonely old woman sitting by yourself wondering what happened to your life, he'll be snuggling on the couch with his ... (read in full...)
I am concerned that I am choosing to marry someone out of guilt and poor self confidence
Q. I am concerned that I am choosing to marry someone out of guilt and poor self confidence. I recently got engaged after I dated her for three years long distance. She is almost 40 living on on the other side of the country with her parents in a ...
A. 24 March 2010: I think "settling" for someone in marriage is the one of worst mistakes a person can make and lots do exactly that. Marriage is tough enough with someone you are deeply in love with let alone with someone who just seems convenient. Unless you are ... (read in full...)
How do men feel when other men look at their women appreciatively?
Q. Do most men get turned on when other guys look at their women appreciatively.What exactly do most guys feel in such situations.real life scenarios would be awesome to hear....
A. 24 March 2010: I asked my husband and he said he'll let me know if and when it happens. He'll be able to see out of that eye in a couple days.... (read in full...)
Should I dump him just to make my mom happy?
Q. Ok, so I'm head over heels for this lovely boy, and we've just started going out. I accidentally let it slip that I had a bf when my mom was in the room. She started yelling at me and saying that I'm way to young, and I need to wait till I'm 15! ...
A. 23 March 2010: Listen to your mom, she has your best interest in mind.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend treats me well, but I think I'm starting to like his friend. Please help!
Q. him im 13 me and my boyf have benn together for 3 months he treats me really well but i think im starting one of his friends, he touches me in all the right places and when my boy friend aint lookin we hold hands and he rubs my bum plz hel...
A. 23 March 2010: At 13 you should keep yourself footloose and fancy free. Don't be in any committed relationship just relax and enjoy your freedom.... (read in full...)
I shook, and the world didn't feel the same. Could I have epilepsy?
Q. Hi, At school there is this thing going around. 1.squat on floor and pant 2. stand up and blow your thumb. After school today, i was standing with friends and 1 of my friends did this and laughed after. So i did it. I remember blowing my thumb....
A. 23 March 2010: You hyperventilated yourself. And I'm with your mom, that is a very stupid thing to intentionally do to yourself. Knock it off before you cause some damage. It's called the "Fainting Game" here in the states by the way. Listen to your mom, it's ... (read in full...)
He said he loved me, but had commitment issues to work on. Help!
Q. Me And My Ex Bf Have Been Together A Year And A Bit, We Fight All The Time, Due To The Fact He Lives 15 Hours Away From Me, But Comes And Stays With Me Often, His Family Hate My Guts, Even Tho I've Never Spoken To Them Really, And They Are All Close ...
A. 23 March 2010: I started reading this but the caps just made my eyes spin in circles...had to give up... (read in full...)
Do American men prefer european or american women?
Q. what do the American men find attractive in irish women.i am intested to know.do American men marry girls from other countries like from Europe .or do they prefer girls from there own country ...
A. 23 March 2010: Didn't you ask this question yesterday?... (read in full...)
My student/teacher relationship is going good, but he feels anxiety about how we started!
Q. Okay, So Im interested in knowing what people think of this situtation, if not for myself but maybe for my current boyfriend who is struggling with some issues. As a senior in highschool I took a class with a teacher my older sibling had had....
A. 23 March 2010: Something doesn't ring true here. The investigation was short lived because you wouldn't cooperate? Everything "blew over"? In what state did this occur?... (read in full...)
Am I really everything he says I am?
Q. I ended a relationship a few weeks ago due 2 an abusive incident. My ex and I argued over the dumbest thing and he chose to choke, hit, and yell at me. I left him a week later with no warning or calls; just disappeared. I know leaving like that is ...
A. 23 March 2010: It's ironic that you say you love him more than your own life because that's exactly what you'll be risking if you come within ten feet of this guy.... (read in full...)
I'm scared if he find out I have 2 kids, he'll run. Help!
Q. I'm a 23 year old female and I have 2 kids. A girl aged 4 and a boy aged 15 months. My daughter's father passed away when she was just a year old and I broke up with my son's father when he was still a baby because of his infidelity. I stayed singl...
A. 23 March 2010: How does he know about your younger child and not about the older one? Other than telling him about her, what other options could you have?... (read in full...)
What physical attributes do you like in a man?
Q. What physical attributes (body parts) do you like in a man? Ladies, here is a question which I hope you take your time in answering. I bet you Women hear that most guys love a women's "butt" or Breasts" or even "Height"...so now its your turn....
A. 23 March 2010: I like a man with a strong manly sternum. A strong sternum is very important, people often don't realize just how important. In fact, join with me in asking your representatives in instituting an annual Sternum Appreciation Day. They sort of ... (read in full...)
He is always busy. Should I cut him off?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for a week now n we have been very affectionate, we laugh n get along great. We told each other we like one another and it seems were on the same page. I haven't seen him for a couple days n when he told me he would come ...
A. 23 March 2010: It's only been one week for crying out loud. Kind of soon to be making demands dontcha think?... (read in full...)
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