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writes:me and my girlfriend were together for about 7 months. I decided to end it last night because i feel like enough is enough. Every time i go out into town she has a problem with it, she is off with me when im in town and off with me the day after and i have to justify and explain everything to her to try make her feel better. (Which doesnt work, she talks to me like im a piece of dirt and hangs up and says whatever and stuff)she has a bad attitude and i suppose i dont feel happy, for example i am leading a completely different life to her, im at university, im 20 and she is 22 in full time work which is another added pressure to the relationship!I just feel that 7 months is an early stage inn a relationship and if im not constantly looking forward to seeing her and speaking to her at this stage then it was the right decision to split up. What are your thoughts please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe has since been in touch really wanting to be back with me etc
i dont know why but i am thinking about her alot and i do miss her.
I cant help but keep wondering if ive made the right decision, would the best idea to give it more time to see if its right or not?
Is there anychance of her been able to change her ways if i get back with her because a close friend of mine adviced that the only way she may change is if i am apart from her and she has lost me, otherwise if i get back with her everything will be undo because in her mind she will think....
i lost him for a month but now im back with him??
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (2 February 2010):
 If the relationship turns sour after only 7 months, it's better to get out and count your losses instead of keep trying. Specially if you don't feel happy with this person.
Honestly most people are still in the "honeymoon" phase around 7 months, blissfully happy.
I hope you find yourself a girl whom you can respect and love and one who can return that favor.
Good luck and i too agree, you did the right thing.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 February 2010):
Yes you did the right thing. Never be in a relationship that drags you down.
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reader, stephanie,jayne +, writes (2 February 2010):
you made the right decission :) well done for sticking up for youself and leaving her and her attitude problem behind, she obviously doesnt trust you to have issues with you going round town with your mates, and if she doesnt trust you then the relationship wouldnt of worked anyway so you have just saved yourself a load of hassle months down the line when things would be more difficult and serious! your out so try and stay out, you will only end up back here if you get back with her!! you've dont the hard bit now so stick by your decision :) xx
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (2 February 2010):
 Your girlfriend was probably a bit insecure and jealous which is why she acted that way. She probably was frightened of losing you to someone else which is why she wanted to know who you were with/ where you were all the time. Maybe she thinks with you being a student that you are going to meet lots of girls all the time. I would give it a few days and when you calm down think if you really did feel anything for her as 7 months is a while and if you two can talk out your problems. If she feels more secure I think her attitude would change.
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reader, 738 +, writes (2 February 2010):
I know you made the right decision.this girl obviously isnt the one for you.some ppl just like drama.i hope you find someone that really cares about you maybe someone you like @ school?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 February 2010):
 I think you did the right thing, she wasn't making you happy. It's great that you didn't waste too much time on a relationship that wasn't going anywhere and was bringing you down. Some people were just not meant to be together. You actually may have done her a service, maybe she will do some self-assessment and figure out what made her act so negatively.
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