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writes:I have a lover of four months, we have had wonderful times together, not very much contact but he did explain that he forgets, this I can understand as he has a wife and family and its been Christmas etc. However last week he sent me a reply text saying he was sorry he had been quiet but his wife was not happy and wanted to call it a day. I have heard from him only once since then, even tho I have sent an eail and a few texts, I really do believe he wouldnt just ignore me - I know you are probably laughing and saying we have heard it all before, but he has been so honest and believe me I have tried to catch him out.What would you do now??? He has four children, two at Uni and two at home, he had said to me he would rather not have had to go with other women as he married his wife for life, so I guess he is distraught as are his children, please tell me what I want to hear and not what I need to hear.Thank you for you help
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (22 January 2010):
 In cheaters we trust? I don't think so.
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reader, Mandymay +, writes (21 January 2010):
Mandymay is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all your replies but I would just like to say he has been in touch this evening and for once I was right and I did believe in him and he has come good. Perhaps you ladies should have a little more trust. Thanks for the advice but I am glad I listened to my heart. Thank you.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (21 January 2010):
 ok then, u asked for it :-)
Guys who are seriously interested in a woman do NOT 'forget' to call them. Period! Especially not on an occassion like X Mas. Wifey at home or not, if you ranked up there he would have found time to make a quick call or send a lame arse text message. (sorry, I never text with my man - just seems crappy compared to hearing a voice)
It is now 4 weeks since X Mas and you have heard from him once (ahem - after 3 weeks where nothing like being hospitalized or something was utterly preventing him) in another text message that was lamenting the woes of his wife being sick of him. If he wanted you, it would be his easy opt out moment, but instead he has told you he would rather be with his wife for life than another woman. Hello - can he make himself and where you stand with him any more clearer?
Sorry, but you been had. He is no longer interested in a diversion. Time to move on.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (21 January 2010):
Trust me...you definitely DO NOT want to know what I'm thinking and I can't tell you what I would do in your situation because I'd never be there in the first place.
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reader, Mandymay +, writes (21 January 2010):
Mandymay is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your replys - I know what your saying and maybe your right, I DO NEED TO KNOW what your thinking and what you would do.
Thanks again
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (21 January 2010):
What is the point of even asking the question if you only want to hear what you want to hear instead of how it looks like it is. Just tell yourself whatever you want, goodluck trying to convince yourself, and my sympathies for when you realize it a delusion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): He probably has a new girlfriend.
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