I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 15 June 2010: I just love it when the old chestnuts get dug up.... (read in full...)
Questions about drinking and pregnancy.
Q. Hi aunts, I need some insight. I just got married March 27. I found out yesterday my wife is pregnant! :) she took 3 at home pregnancy tests. All positive. We are both so excited. It wasn't part of the plan, but it's a blessing all the same. ...
A. 9 April 2010: Oh and congrats!... (read in full...)
Questions about drinking and pregnancy.
Q. Hi aunts, I need some insight. I just got married March 27. I found out yesterday my wife is pregnant! :) she took 3 at home pregnancy tests. All positive. We are both so excited. It wasn't part of the plan, but it's a blessing all the same. ...
A. 9 April 2010: The answer to your question is NONE. Ask your doctor if you don't believe me.... (read in full...)
I'm terrified something bad is going to happen to the baby. I'm an unlucky person generally!
Q. took two pregnancy tests, both came back positive right away, it was a huge shock to me as im only 18 i couldn't stop shaking, but i have my family and my boyfriend who are there for me 100%. im 6 weeks pregnant and i decided to keep it, i know its ...
A. 9 April 2010: What do you mean good things don't happen to you? You have a loving boyfriend and family, and now you have a sweet little baby on the the way. All good things. Don't fear the unknown just enjoy the blessings you have. Good job on the quitting ... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I can tell my mum I have got my first period.
Q. hi, im 13 and yesturday morning, i had blood in my knickers, which im sure was my first period. at first i panicked, but then i calmed my self down and used tissue. i dont feel i can talk to my mum about it just yet, but im worried that it will get ...
A. 9 April 2010: Aw come on, you must know your Mom's been menstruating all these years and she's been expecting you to start anytime since you were 10 so this is hardly going to come as a surprise to her. Tell her and she will make sure you have all the supplies ... (read in full...)
I need good advice, how do I get over loving my teacher?
Q. Okaii,so most of you already know from my last question that I am in love with my teacher,but believe me I wish I wasn't,not because of him but because we can't be together 'obviously',even though I really wish we could,so my last question was "how ...
A. 9 April 2010: Thank you Tiger, thank you! "Text Speak" is as irritating as fingernails on a blackboard.... (read in full...)
He says my vagina is too tight. Is that good or bad?
Q. My guy and I have been together for a while. We just recently had a conversation about our sex life and he says that my Pussy is too tight. He enjoys himself, I am always wet enough, my hygine is great, but I'm too tight. I am 27 years old and all ...
A. 9 April 2010: I hate it when I leave beer glasses on the floor and my pussy gets tight.... (read in full...)
Should I see this married man or wait and see what happend with his wife first?
Q. this is a question that i really need answered. i went out with this guy about 16 years ago. for reasons we lost each other. about 10 years ago we found each other. and we were very to have. then about 6 months after that we lost touch again. we ...
A. 9 April 2010: Of course you should wait until they are no longer together, what else would a woman who has honor and integrity do?... (read in full...)
Am I misinterpreting her body language or is she interested?
Q. Hi Theres a woman I have known for 3 years now. We became great friends and she shares every little thing thats happenning in her world with me. She has been divorced for 8 years now and is very mistrusting of men.We also have a lot in common in...
A. 8 April 2010: Very wise, you'll reap the the benefits from being patient.... (read in full...)
He told me that getting physical with me doesn't make him feel good!!!
Q. I dunno I've been feeling guilty! I had this GUY in my life but he wasn't my boyfriend literally! But we were a lil intimate! He's given me an orgasm and kissed me! But today he happened to tell me this... That getting physical to me doesn't make ...
A. 8 April 2010: Ask him if he would enjoy you getting physical upside his head?!... (read in full...)
Nightmares and flashback from a childhood assault.
Q. Hello everyone, :]. Let me begin by saying that this is really hard for me to talk about and if there is anything that needs clarification I can do that. I'm going to give lots of details so I can hopefuly avoid having to do that. It started may...
A. 8 April 2010: Okay this is something that needs to be addressed by a professional. Please ask your doctor to refer you to a therapist that specializes in childhood sexual abuse. You need to get this under control once and for all. It will affect your quality of ... (read in full...)
To dress or not to dress?
Q. *OP's own title* I need the advice from Married women out there ONLY.. I am a happily married man. I am the typical jock type of guy that loves sports and coaching my kids. I love everything about women, the way they look, taste, feel, ect.. Rece...
A. 8 April 2010: "pegging" is going into the DC Manual.
To th OP: pull the blinds and have some fun.... (read in full...)
To dress or not to dress?
Q. *OP's own title* I need the advice from Married women out there ONLY.. I am a happily married man. I am the typical jock type of guy that loves sports and coaching my kids. I love everything about women, the way they look, taste, feel, ect.. Rece...
A. 8 April 2010: In North Carolina we communicate this openly with our kin, all our kin.... (read in full...)
Am I misinterpreting her body language or is she interested?
Q. Hi Theres a woman I have known for 3 years now. We became great friends and she shares every little thing thats happenning in her world with me. She has been divorced for 8 years now and is very mistrusting of men.We also have a lot in common in...
A. 8 April 2010: Well that is even more evidence that she's very interested in you. I think she's just a little gun shy because of her first marriage. She'll come around, just be patient.... (read in full...)
Advice re au pair jobs abroad!
Q. Hi. I'd really appreciate some advice on these job offers. I'd like to go and work abroad as an Au Pair. I'll write about both families, and you can tell me what you think. One of the families is from Switzerland. They have three kids , a girl...
A. 8 April 2010: 2nd job, hands down. I'd choose it just for the better weather.... (read in full...)
Do people often record themselves having sex?
Q. My boyfriend and i were talking about trying new things in the bedroom. He brought up how he wants to film me giving him a blowjob. He then said, but thats a bit personal, i dont expect you to do it but id love to watch it over and over. Iam think...
A. 8 April 2010: I have stage fright. You want to borrow some?... (read in full...)
I'm finding it hard to belive I might be pregnant
Q. hi im 1 week and 4 days late on my period. today i took a pregnancy test and it came out positive straight away, two dark pink lines. i went to the docs and got a midwife appointment. does this actually mean im pregnant? im finding it hard to be...
A. 8 April 2010: Why would you find it hard to believe?... (read in full...)
Am I misinterpreting her body language or is she interested?
Q. Hi Theres a woman I have known for 3 years now. We became great friends and she shares every little thing thats happenning in her world with me. She has been divorced for 8 years now and is very mistrusting of men.We also have a lot in common in...
A. 8 April 2010: She definitely sounds attracted to you, but she also sounds rather wary about having an official relationship at this point. I'd say you just move very slowly, I think it's just a matter of time. She seems worth the effort. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Only attracted to older men
Q. Dear cupid I dont know why but i can only fall for older men. I have tried liking people my age but i just can't. i am in love with like 6 different guys (and obsessed with 1 guy) and i have no clue what to do and all of my friends are so sick of ...
A. 8 April 2010: At 13 most of the world's male population is older than you. Quit bugging your friends with all your dramas. Relax and try to enjoy yourself.... (read in full...)
Caught my husband on a swinging site and don't know what to do.
Q. Last month I discovered on my partners computer whilst he was at work that he had joined a swinging site upset and confussed i decided to join myself to view his profile once i found him I became heartbroken as his relationship status was single and ...
A. 8 April 2010: I agree with Basschick, you never knew this side of the equation. But cheating is cheating and are you willing to turn a blind eye to it? I think you just need to take a really deep breath and have a nice sit down chat with your partner.... (read in full...)
I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 6 April 2010: yeah the old guy's probably pushing up daisies by now... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about my teacher and what our lives would be like together!
Q. How Do I Tell My Teacher That I Love Him?,I've Liked him For About 3 Years and loved him for about a year.we get on soo well and he's realli cute although he is 10 years older he doesn't seem it infact he acts like a 16 year old boy. No matter what ...
A. 6 April 2010: Well the two months will fly by and you'll be free!... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about my teacher and what our lives would be like together!
Q. How Do I Tell My Teacher That I Love Him?,I've Liked him For About 3 Years and loved him for about a year.we get on soo well and he's realli cute although he is 10 years older he doesn't seem it infact he acts like a 16 year old boy. No matter what ...
A. 6 April 2010: This crush will fade faster if you stay away from him as much as possible. Once you graduate and are gone, you'll feel much better. Just curious though, was he your English teacher by any chance?... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's 15, LDR and he proposed to me but I know my parents won't like it!
Q. Well ummm, my internet boyfriend and me have been going out for two years now, we met on imvu, he lives in south grafton, nsw, and i live in adelaide, sa. While we were on facebook one day, he proposed to me (he's 15 turning 16 and i'm 14 by the w...
A. 6 April 2010: You don't want to end up with your picture on a milk carton or hanging on the post office wall,do you? Those pics he sent you could have been of anyone. HE could be anyone. I think an "internet boyfriend" is a misnomer. How can you have a boyfriend ... (read in full...)
What do you think, could I be pregnant?
Q. Okay,so I have a BIG problem. On March 23rd,2010, I had unprotected sex. We're both disease free and I know this for sure, so we both agreed that it would be okay to go unprotected and do the pull out method (not the smartest idea, i know). ...
A. 6 April 2010: You may still get 30 different answers but I'll be you get few just like mine. Go get at least three pregnancy tests. Do the first when your period is 1 week over due, if negative do the next one 1 week latter, etc. Or if you want to know faster go ... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 6 April 2010: Here's one: You have an uncurable disease, but there is one female pharmeceutical researcher who has found the cure. In fact she's gotten okay to use it on a human but the medicine needs another 24 hours to be ready for use. You go to meet her and ... (read in full...)
Why am I sleeping with my boyfriend's Dad?
Q. Hi. I really need some advice here. I've gotten myself into a bad situation. I've been dating my boyfriend for awhile (we are both 18), and when I first met his parents there was a spark between his father and I. Now here we are six months later, ...
A. 5 April 2010: If you would behave yourself with a modicum of honor and integrity then you wouldn't need sex with some old fart to make you feel beautiful. Beauty comes from within. Once this shit hits the fan you really will need bunches of old men to feel ... (read in full...)
Should I go for lunch with my teacher?
Q. Just to give you an insight: A principal I had in middle school agreed to go out to lunch with me when I asked him awhile back. We exchanged numbers and we’ve texted off and on these past couple of months. (Not like crazy, just to set up a day when ...
A. 5 April 2010: His wife or you ask another one of his ex-students to come with you, otherwise it's can be very risky business for a teacher to meet up socially with a student, especially these days in the US.... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he proposed after all this time?
Q. I'm 29 and I've been with my man for 11 years. We have a 10 year old son together, we've purchased a home together, cars together, and basically everything together as if we are married, but we're not. Everytime I bring up marriage he says everythi...
A. 5 April 2010: Since you didn't tell him you wouldn't have a child with him until you were married, or that you wouldn't buy a house with him until you were married, or that you wouldn't buy a car with him until you were married, then why does it matter so much to ... (read in full...)
I want a baby with my older Husband
Q. I am 24 and recently married my best friend and the most perfect man. He is 65 and we dated for 4 years before we married. I have a 6 year old from my first marriage and he has 3 grown children and we all get along great. I recently have ...
A. 5 April 2010: Even if he did agree to try a reversal, I think you will be hard pressed to find a quality urologist who will be willing to perform it on him at his advanced age.... (read in full...)
Sorry... wrong hole!
Q. Me and my GF were having sex last night and I slipped in to the wrong hole. Well she winced at first but didn't yell or object too strongly, so I rolled with the punches and continued in her rear. I thought it was great and she seemed to enjoy it ...
A. 1 April 2010: What kind of industrial strength lubricant do you use? Accidently "slipping" into her anus? My anus. But the other aunts/uncles are right, you have some major sucking up to do, get busy.... (read in full...)
Would you be offended if someone put you in a situation like this?
Q. Imagine this situation: you are walking down the street with a close friend, lets call her Jane, and the two of you run into an old friend of Jane's, whom you've never met before. The two of them start catching up and end up talking for half an ...
A. 1 April 2010: It's just a case of bad manners. To give her the benefit of the doubt, some people were just not taught the proper way to behave in this kind of social situation, and if she was, then she is an inconsiderate person period so heads up. ... (read in full...)
I played with fire and I got burned!
Q. I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...
A. 1 April 2010: I don't think it's a hard question at all. You CHOSE to cheat, whether you try to sugar coat with being blinded or not, you at least were aware of the situation he on the other hand had the rug pulled out from underneath him so he had no time to ... (read in full...)
Should I throw away the 2 years we have spent together and move on?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years And 2 months... In the time that we've been together we've had 3 major arguments that almost led to us breaking up. I love him so much and I've been so faithful to him. I've talked to him about it but it's ...
A. 1 April 2010: Hey Tish, Laura thinks "it" means a thorn not faithfulness. I wonder what the poster thinks "it" means?... (read in full...)
How can I hug him first without making it too obvious that I fancy him?
Q. Hey Guys! I want to hug my best guy friend, he always hugs me first, and because I am caught off guard it's kinda awkward like his arms are around me but I'm sideways or My arms are squished up in between us, and he smells my hair, and sometimes I ...
A. 1 April 2010: Side hugs are friendly hugs, full frontal hugs are another story.... (read in full...)
Should I throw away the 2 years we have spent together and move on?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years And 2 months... In the time that we've been together we've had 3 major arguments that almost led to us breaking up. I love him so much and I've been so faithful to him. I've talked to him about it but it's ...
A. 1 April 2010: Okay Laura, maybe YOU can tell me what "it" is?... (read in full...)
Should I make this gigantic life change for the woman I love?
Q. So I impregnated a woman with 4 kids who is in a verbally and physically abusive marriage. I did not know most of the facts at the time and it was sort of a woops moment, but yea. We always went to my place, etc.. Plus she wanted it. Kept...
A. 1 April 2010: Your follow up didn't say anything about how you know for sure the baby is yours. So how do you know?... (read in full...)
Should I throw away the 2 years we have spent together and move on?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years And 2 months... In the time that we've been together we've had 3 major arguments that almost led to us breaking up. I love him so much and I've been so faithful to him. I've talked to him about it but it's ...
A. 1 April 2010: "I've talked to him about it but it's like it goes in one ear and out the other."
What's the "it" you are talking about?... (read in full...)
Did I lose my virginity... or not?
Q. I dont know if I'm still a virgin! His penis slid on my vagina but not inside. Does this mean I'm a virgin still? He didn't cum, there was a condom, but he had pre cum and it lasted literally a minute coz I wanted to stop. I'm so confused abou...
A. 1 April 2010: If the penis doesn't go into your vagina then you are still a virgin, what's so confusing about that?... (read in full...)
What can I say to my friend, she keeps asking me for help and I don't know what to say!
Q. Ok I was reading a post on here with a friend and her boyfrind well I asked him if " lets say if you was married but are not together with your wife and have a new girlfriend but still married and one day you cheat with your wife but liveing with ...
A. 31 March 2010: If someone really wants a divorce they get one.... (read in full...)
What can I say to my friend, she keeps asking me for help and I don't know what to say!
Q. Ok I was reading a post on here with a friend and her boyfrind well I asked him if " lets say if you was married but are not together with your wife and have a new girlfriend but still married and one day you cheat with your wife but liveing with ...
A. 31 March 2010: She should wait to do anything until he shows her the divorce papers. ... (read in full...)
Which do you prefer: a female or male Gynecologist?
Q. Hey Aunts, Pretty trivial one here: I'm planning on going on the pill, and I just made a doctor's appointment. It only just occured to me that most people would probably want to see a female doctor about this, but when they asked me if I would ra...
A. 31 March 2010: I've always had male doctors for all my body parts. Not on purpose just worked out that way. I guess it doesn't matter to me very much.... (read in full...)
I played with fire and I got burned!
Q. I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...
A. 31 March 2010: Just remember, you got blinded but he got blindsided, big difference in my book.... (read in full...)
I played with fire and I got burned!
Q. I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...
A. 30 March 2010: I'm going to save this post and show it to the next person who comes on here wondering whether they should cheat on their partner for "the love of their life" or the one I hate the most their "soulmate". At least your mistake may help prevent others ... (read in full...)
I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 15 May 2008: I don't know correct me if I'm wrong but I have a feeling she has resolved this dilemma by now...it's almost 3 years old.... (read in full...)
I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 29 May 2007: Sorry but he's getting the better end of this deal by far. He's had 50 years of having fun, going out with friends, getting an education, and just plain living. You on the other hand are just starting out, you will end up resenting him for your lost ... (read in full...)
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