29 and never been kissed!
Q. can you help me please in the 3rd time i have treid to post question.i need some one help. i never got my first kiss and would like some help please. 1)how do i get a guy to kiss me is any i can do it. 2)how is done?like what do you do? ...
A. 20 April 2010: Please tell me you clicked the wrong age bracket.... (read in full...)
Besotted by my teacher...
Q. I am 15 years old and I am in love with a teacher at my school who is 25 years old, I may sound naive but it's not a silly little crush and I didn't choose to like him and I have never been a believer of age meaning anything, also he is single so i ...
A. 20 April 2010: It's not silly but it is a crush, so you'd best make sure you don't say or do anything that will embarrass yourself. Teachers are trained on how best to handle these situations so if you proclaim your love to the guy he'll try to be kind but it most ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I might have set my standards too high and I will never meet anyone who is right for me!
Q. Hello, I hope you guys can help. I am almost 25 and a virgin. I can't quite find anyone who is good enough to a) have sex with b) have a REAL relationship with. It's just that I feel as if I have waited for the right guy but all the m...
A. 20 April 2010: There's a heap of difference between a 13 year old and a 25 year old, Mr. Anonymous.... (read in full...)
I'm worried I might have set my standards too high and I will never meet anyone who is right for me!
Q. Hello, I hope you guys can help. I am almost 25 and a virgin. I can't quite find anyone who is good enough to a) have sex with b) have a REAL relationship with. It's just that I feel as if I have waited for the right guy but all the m...
A. 20 April 2010: I agree with Tish and I think this purity thing you have going on is just a good excuse you've come up with to cover the fact that you are afraid of intimacy and really never want to have a relationship, at least not a sexual one. Counseling may be ... (read in full...)
He's going to visit a nude beach -- should I be worried?
Q. I have a friend I've been involved with for 3 years. He told me not too long ago that he and some of his boys are going on vacation in Jamaica, and that he plans on going to the nude beach there. The way he was talking about it he's been wanting ...
A. 19 April 2010: Some of the images he will see will be burned into his retina and no amount of bourbon will erase them. Should you be worried? Yes, the experience could put him off sex for a long time.... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with him so he will be happy but I'm scared it will hurt!
Q. im going out with the same boy for three years he wants to have sex and im 13 and hes 15. im really stuck cuz i love him and i want him to be happy but im scared when i do it its gunna hurt and thats what im really scared of. plzz help me if you can ...
A. 19 April 2010: What???? You started dating at 10 years old? Where the hell are your parents?????? ... (read in full...)
Why is NOT wearing a bra so important to my husband?
Q. Whenever I am away from work, and I am talking nights, weekends, and vacations, my husband insists that I don't wear a bra. I thought you had to be 18 and/or flat chested to do that. Being 31 and having a full bosom, I have been worried that my ...
A. 15 April 2010: You have to ask your husband if you can wear a bra somewhere? yikes. You are a big girl, decide for yourself when you think a bra would be appropriate. And by the way at 31 mine didn't sag either but at 58 things are seeking a lower energy state.... (read in full...)
Would he still want me if he knew I had a son?
Q. there is a guy who i have been going out with for 3 weeks he dosent know about my son and im scared to tell him in case he dosent accept me and my son are a deal he has me he accepts my son to its starting to worry me so i try not bring up my ...
A. 15 April 2010: Good now you can spend all your spare time, (when you aren't working part time, going to school part time) on your son. I read your other post.... (read in full...)
He wants a 'no strings' bit of fun, and I find that degrading
Q. I've done a really bad thing, I told a guy I really like that the reason I was so shy is because my last boyfriend was a jerk, I told him I am frightened to get close to someone because he never wanted to be seen with me and always put me down and ...
A. 14 April 2010: Did you post this earlier?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/unsure-about-the-friends-with-benefits-relationship.html
If it wasn't you please look at the responses she got for basically the same question.... (read in full...)
What is your take on this love letter?
Q. XXX is to protect my ex's name, and mine. Please tell me of the tone of the letter, and the idea of the ballet tix. I am asking of as many people's feedback as possible. ----- Dear XXXX, I ask you to read these words with an open mind and he...
A. 14 April 2010: Wonderful news! ... (read in full...)
Unsure about the 'friends with benefits' relationship
Q. Help required regarding friends with benefits - Good thing / Bad thing. The problem is there is a guy I really like and we have been french kissing quite a lot recently and we have took things a little further but he wants me now to go down on hi...
A. 14 April 2010: NMN is exactly right. A FWB only works for very few women, sooner or later they want and need more from the guy. While it comes across as a great idea, it rarely is. You already have feeling for him. This will break your heart. Nip it in the bud, ... (read in full...)
What is your take on this love letter?
Q. XXX is to protect my ex's name, and mine. Please tell me of the tone of the letter, and the idea of the ballet tix. I am asking of as many people's feedback as possible. ----- Dear XXXX, I ask you to read these words with an open mind and he...
A. 14 April 2010: "The reason of the breakup was due to pain I had when having intercourse and I kept stopping not knowing what was wrong. I freaked out. I never seeked help due to fear of finding out what was wrong with me."
So did you ever find out what was wron... (read in full...)
Involved with daughter's father again but he can be very overpowering!
Q. I am a 38 year old mother of a 16 year old daughter. My daughter's father is now one of the richest people in our state even though is just a couple of years older than me. We were never married but he acknowledged our daughter and has met his ...
A. 14 April 2010: "I've been rich and I've been poor, rich is better."... (read in full...)
Why did he betray me in front of the judge?
Q. Im going to clarify my question. me and the "Kid" went to court and yes he is my boyfriend still. and when they asked me if i had any contact with him since the previous court date, i told them no, then he told them that i was lying and that i wrote ...
A. 14 April 2010: He isn't a teacher is he?... (read in full...)
Dreams about a 27 year old? I'm 14!
Q. I'm 14 years old but I recently have been having dreams about my track coach and in these dreams we kiss alot no sex but just kissing and he is 27! I don't now what to do!...
A. 14 April 2010: The only thing you can do is to try and stay awake for a few months. Just kidding, it's a school girl crush and will pass.... (read in full...)
Sex before marriage?
Q. do you believe in sex before marriage?...
A. 14 April 2010: It's the LAST piece in the puzzle before you decide you know someone well enough and love them enough to vow to spend the rest of your life with them. And as far as I'm concerned it's a major piece.... (read in full...)
I always end up being "just friends" with every single guy I meet, how do I show them that I want to be more than that???
Q. I'm nearly 16 years old, and i've NEVER had a boyfriend, or even a kiss :S. guys hit on me and stuff, but i honestly don't know how to react, i always get so shy. when a guy would try to get to know me, we always start out flirty but in the end ...
A. 14 April 2010: You just haven't met the right guy yet. If he's the right guy you'll be able to talk to him about ANYTHING.... (read in full...)
Involved with daughter's father again but he can be very overpowering!
Q. I am a 38 year old mother of a 16 year old daughter. My daughter's father is now one of the richest people in our state even though is just a couple of years older than me. We were never married but he acknowledged our daughter and has met his ...
A. 14 April 2010: Is he single?... (read in full...)
What is your take on this love letter?
Q. XXX is to protect my ex's name, and mine. Please tell me of the tone of the letter, and the idea of the ballet tix. I am asking of as many people's feedback as possible. ----- Dear XXXX, I ask you to read these words with an open mind and he...
A. 14 April 2010: Did I overlook the part where you got your dick fixed?... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want to dance with other boys if I have a boyfriend?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now, we've known each other for 2 years though and were bestfriends untill we decided to start dating, he constantly tells me he's in love with and never wants us be apart, I know we won't last forever. ...
A. 14 April 2010: This why I think it's a shame when young girls tie themselves down to one guy. You should be able to have fun with your friends and dance with whomever you please. Plenty of time to get a ball and chain later.... (read in full...)
I'm about to run away
Q. [Moderator note: this post has been edited for clarity] my mom promised me a phone for christmas. She said the place was too busy and she said we'd get one 'tomorrow'. That happened again and I still didnt get it. Today she got a phone (for herse...
A. 14 April 2010: I agree with the aunts that said to get off your hind end and get an after school or summer job and earn the dang phone yourself. I'm sure you'll appreciate it more if you are the one paying for it. I'll give you 10 bucks to mow my lawn.... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend's married.
Q. I have been dating a man for a while and then we decided to move in together. We have now been living together for 3 years. We have often talked about marriage but never really committed. I really didn't want marriage right away, and I think he knew ...
A. 14 April 2010: A liar, a deceiver, and now a forger. What next?... (read in full...)
Why am I having dreams about being pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 9 months, we have never met each other, we met online and hit it off right from the start. We're very much in love although were both still teenagers (We'll both be 17 this summer). Next Christmas break ...
A. 14 April 2010: I have dreams about having a baby too. I call them nightmares. ... (read in full...)
My Dad treats me like a child
Q. my dad is too controlling. i'm 19 years old and i'm at uni and i've moved 30 miles away from home. i live in a flat with 4 other girls and i look after myself and take responsibility for all that i do. my problem is that whenever i ...
A. 14 April 2010: Is your mother around? If so maybe she can help explain things to your Dad. Do you have any brothers or sisters? Is your Dad living alone?... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant from oral sex?
Q. I recently gave my boyfriend oral sex and he did the same for me, but since then I've been feeling strange. Could I be pregnant?...
A. 14 April 2010: Yes you could be pregnant. Just not from this encounter. Thank you for not living in North Carolina by the way.... (read in full...)
In serious need of advice of a complexity!
Q. i'm in need of advice .... i know that i should be pretty well versed at my age (47 years old) but i guess i'm really not an "expert" at these things in reality. for the past 4 months i've been in a relationship with a beautiful woman that i lov...
A. 14 April 2010: I think she's being way over protective of her sons. Even if they had a problem with her divorce, it was their Dad they should have the issues with not her. I would think they would LIKE to see that she has someone in her life. However, stepping up ... (read in full...)
I want to be with someone my own age, but can't afford to leave my older boyfriend.
Q. I been dating my boyfriend off and on for ten years now and have been living together for the last six, not only has there been no mention of marriage, he is also very dull and boring, see he is 41 and I'm 28 and he never wants to do anything or go ...
A. 14 April 2010: Did you sign a lease or mortgage together?... (read in full...)
He's changed so much
Q. Why is my boyfriend doing this? my bf was really sweet.it took him 2months to kiss me. i asked he said hes got respect and didn't want to scare me off. whenever we made Iove it was beautiful, passionate and really tender. he was everything i could ...
A. 14 April 2010: Perhaps he's looking for a way out of your relationship. Would that be a possibility? Ask him if he wants to break up for awhile see what he says.... (read in full...)
Hair removal creams at Walmart?
Q. anyone know any good hair removeal creams that's at wal-mart? And also any shaving tips would be greatly appreatated....
A. 13 April 2010: Nair has a whole line of hair removers.... (read in full...)
Mates will make fun of me if I ask this girl out
Q. theres this girl who likes me. i think she is nice but if i go out with her i will get stick off my mates. what should i do?...
A. 13 April 2010: Wait to ask her out until you don't give a rat's ass what your friends think about it.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my bus driver that I like him?
Q. Okay so my problem is that I really like this guy who just so happens to be my bus driver. Theres not much of an age difference just four years. He goes pretty red when he talks to me but im sure he has no clue whatsoever that i like him. Should I ...
A. 13 April 2010: Umm is this your school bus driver? How old exactly is he?... (read in full...)
Update from post "Can my husband sue?"
Q. I wrote a post earlier regarding my adulterous affair and questioned if my husband could sue my lover...now ex-lover. Instead of suing, he did a background check on my ex-lover and found out that he was married. He found his wife on a social ...
A. 13 April 2010: Can I have some of whatever q's having?... (read in full...)
I am a lesbian, how can I get my friend to like me back?
Q. Ok so I like this girl well she is actually a friend and I fancy her and have done for the last few months so I told her. not really my best idea but she was cool with it. Its just am not sure what her sexuality is because she has never said am ...
A. 13 April 2010: You can't GET her to like you, she either does or she doesn't. Try being a friend first, otherwise you'll just scare her off.... (read in full...)
My sister should be with someone better.
Q. I am in love with my wife. She makes me very happy and we have a very good relationship. I have a twin sister. We are fraternal twins not identical. I have been with my wife for a few years now and things have been really good between us. My ...
A. 13 April 2010: Relax, she'll find out sooner or later. His true colors will surface some day or another. She may get hurt but there's nothing that can be done about that. Hopefully she won't be too damaged. If you keep bad mouthing him you'll just be driving her ... (read in full...)
We're both virgins, should he wear one?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 21 years old virgin, have a 22 years old boyfriend who is also a virgin. We have been dating for 2 years now. Right now, both of us are deciding to lose our virgin to each other as we love each other so much. But my problem i...
A. 13 April 2010: Better get yourself on some kind of birth control before you do the deed. The pull out method doesn't work for crap. ... (read in full...)
Isaac and Me
Q. hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...
A. 13 April 2010: ohandIthinkpunctuationisanuisanceandsoarespacesbetweenwords... (read in full...)
Isaac and Me
Q. hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...
A. 13 April 2010: Where's the popcorn? Is this in 3D?... (read in full...)
Since his sister texted me my head is all over the place
Q. Ive recently split with my boyfriend after two years of being together, we were even engaged. Through our relationship we split twice and this was due to me not feeling that i loved him any more then a week later i realised that i did still love him ...
A. 13 April 2010: I think that every so often we meet a person who is ALMOST the right person for us but no cigar. You need to give this break up more time. Especially for his sake.... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?
Q. my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...
A. 13 April 2010: And I'll repeat my answer. Don't forget he's the one who knocked her up and left her in the dust, pregnant with his child and alone. She may need some moral support from both YOU and the father. That would be the classy thing to do. Why can't you ... (read in full...)
No vibrator... how can I improvise?
Q. How can I get a vibrator without ordering it off line and where can I get one that cost less that 20 bucks? What else can I use if i dont have a vibrator or dildo?...
A. 9 April 2010: Lean against the washer when it's on the spin cycle, unless you use a laundromat.... (read in full...)
Questions about drinking and pregnancy.
Q. Hi aunts, I need some insight. I just got married March 27. I found out yesterday my wife is pregnant! :) she took 3 at home pregnancy tests. All positive. We are both so excited. It wasn't part of the plan, but it's a blessing all the same. ...
A. 9 April 2010: Oh and congrats!... (read in full...)
Questions about drinking and pregnancy.
Q. Hi aunts, I need some insight. I just got married March 27. I found out yesterday my wife is pregnant! :) she took 3 at home pregnancy tests. All positive. We are both so excited. It wasn't part of the plan, but it's a blessing all the same. ...
A. 9 April 2010: The answer to your question is NONE. Ask your doctor if you don't believe me.... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?
Q. my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...
A. 25 March 2010: Don't forget he's the one who knocked her up and left her in the dust, pregnant with his child and alone. She may need some moral support from both YOU and the father. That would be the classy thing to do.... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?
Q. my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...
A. 24 March 2010: He is now PERMANENTLY involved with the mother of his son. It is the way it should be. You have no right to insist he cut all contact with her except for emergencies. Of course he was irresponsible for having unprotected sex, and yes he does sound ... (read in full...)
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