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anonymous
writes:I met this guy on myspace in December. When we first started talking, we talked for hours. We decided to meet on New Years since we live 25 min from each other (a week after we started talking) He was really nice. We cuddled, held hands.. and even kissed. I met his mother, who already knew my name, and he personally introduced himself to my parents. I've never had a boyfriend and he is the 2nd guy i've kissed. I told him I didn't trust him because I have gotten hurt in the past and he said he isn't like other guys and wanted to earn my trust.Over the next month, we kept communicating over myspace. He would text me every morning saying, "Good morning, baby" A day or 2 after we met, I was talking to my friend, Kyrstin on FB. She told me that he's a player. I 'confronted' him about this and he said he isn't and that she probably said this b.c they dated. Earlier this month,I was talking to my friend who happens to be friends with Kystin, too and she said they never dated.. they just hooked up. She even said Kyrstin hates him b.c he's good looking and she only goes out with ugly guys. This confused me a lot. February was when things started to change. We didn't have anything to talk about and we argued a bit. We were supposed to hangout over Spring break so I messaged him.He said he wasn't sure b.c he was probably going to visit his mother (his parents are divorced). We never hung out and i'm sure he never visited his mom. We haven't spoken since March 15th. He rarely gets on myspace now.. but Everytime I get on FB chat, he tends to sign out or just ignore me.p.s I found one girl on FB who was apparently 'dating him' in February (he broke up with her a week or so later.. she lives 2 hours away from us).. and I found another girl on Myspace who had been 'dating' him since early January. (She lives in another state)My question is, is he a player? or did he actually like me at some point but doesn't anymore?
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reader, Tasmanian devil  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 He's a player and a charmer, he probably used the same tactics on all of those other girls, does it matter if he actually liked you hes gone, you should just be glad that it ended before it really started or you could have got really hurt. He doesn't seem worth thinking about, if he 'wasn't like other guys' then why the cold brush off. Just 4gt him
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 March 2010):
 What does it matter whether he liked you in the past? He's conspicuous with his absence now. Time to move on my dear.
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