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Should I dump him just to make my mom happy?

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Question - (23 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok, so I'm head over heels for this lovely boy, and we've just started going out. I accidentally let it slip that I had a bf when my mom was in the room. She started yelling at me and saying that I'm way to young, and I need to wait till I'm 15! She's saying that all I care about is boys and make up, and that I don't even CARE about my school work - this is NOT true. She says she doesn't recognize me, and I'm not the daughter she used to have or wants.

I love him so much, but now I'm wondering if I should dump him so I can make my mom happy... I don't know what to do... I'm torn in two directions! Help, please :,(

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010):

your mum is just worried because you'r getting older now and soon she will be loosing you because of your age.

one thing i have learnt in the past is that if you love someone NEVER let them go it will be the hardest thing ever, now you'r getting older it's time you started making your own decisions and follow your heart, that's what will make the right choice for you.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (23 March 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntListen to your mom, she has your best interest in mind.

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A female reader, nlieu279 United States +, writes (23 March 2010):

nlieu279 agony auntIn this situation, I would agree with your mom. Your mom probably worry that you would bteak your heart sooner or later since, well, she probably had been through it. She wants the best for you since love sometimes clouds your head :) Usually, young love doesn't last that long... My mom was as strict as your mom back when I was about your age, but I did not listen to her so I ended up breaking my hearts so many times and it hurt.

You can tell her to give you a chance to prove to her that you still are a good student with high grades. You need to maintain your scores and show it to her on your next report card and every others come after that. You need to assure her if you want to continue relationship with the boy, and if you think you can do it. Otherwise, breaking up with him is the only way.

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