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writes: Several years ago, I was leaving a concert. As we heading to a parking garage a woman on the street took off her top and lowered her pants showing everything. She bent over in front of me and gave everyone a show. The whole thing lasted only a few seconds. Recently an old friend who was there with me that night emailed me a link for a website. It was a porn site about public sex. Someone took a picture of this woman bending over in front of me and from the angle the picture was taken it looks as though she was having sex with me. It's only an illusion. One of my friends pushed me towards her as she bent over and it's run on a loop. I was very close to her but not touching. There is no denying that it's me and I am wearing a baseball cap from my old high school. I never even touched this woman. Now I am married and I don't want my wife to see this. What can I do? Can I get this clip removed from the website? I want to be discreet.
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 Try contacting the administration of the website and explain the situation. Hopefully they will listen and empathise with you.
If you think your wife is likely to find out about this clip then I would explain to her what happened. If you say nothing and she finds out it looks dodgy, but if you volunteer the information then it just looks honest.
However, if you highly doubt she'll find out, then it's up to you as to whether you tell her or not.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 March 2010):
 Yeah well we all saw your video Q. No sense hiding behind a billboard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): q1605 is being a jerk. It wasn't a video. It's a few shots that were snapped off. I had friends with me to. I am still in contact with all of my friends who were there. I never even heard of the internet back then. Whoever the girl was I feel bad for her. I think she was an exhibitionist but that's all. I am embarrassed and humiliated. I know that this is going to get out sooner or later. The worst thing about a rumor is that it doesn't have to be true to be damaging. It's called trick photography for a reason. This is so wrong.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 I'm trying to catch up, is the embarrassment over the event or that it was all over in a couple of seconds? I can see that you wouldn't want that getting out.
Most of these sites have a feature that allows viewers to rate videos or pictures. Log on repeatedly and give the clip the lowest possible rating. The clip will then gradually move to the bottom of the pile and if your wife is ever surfing reality, public sex porn site she will be much less likely to see your brief encounter.
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reader, sweettina +, writes (24 March 2010):
Just tell your wife the truth, if she loves you she will understand.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 March 2010):
You can give it a try but if it's on one website it's most likely on others. A picture or video on the Internet is like a living breathing entity with regenerative powers. If you think your wife may come across it, I'd just show it to her. It's not like you have done anything wrong. Is there a reason why she would doubt your word?
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (24 March 2010):
 I'm pretty sure you can contact the website it is posted on and get it removed, all websites I have come across do this if contacted and requested with details on.
When you say several years ago, was this before or after you got married?
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