Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?
Q. my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...
A. 13 April 2010: And I'll repeat my answer. Don't forget he's the one who knocked her up and left her in the dust, pregnant with his child and alone. She may need some moral support from both YOU and the father. That would be the classy thing to do. Why can't you ... (read in full...)
I played with fire and I got burned!
Q. I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...
A. 1 April 2010: I don't think it's a hard question at all. You CHOSE to cheat, whether you try to sugar coat with being blinded or not, you at least were aware of the situation he on the other hand had the rug pulled out from underneath him so he had no time to ... (read in full...)
Which do you prefer: a female or male Gynecologist?
Q. Hey Aunts, Pretty trivial one here: I'm planning on going on the pill, and I just made a doctor's appointment. It only just occured to me that most people would probably want to see a female doctor about this, but when they asked me if I would ra...
A. 31 March 2010: I've always had male doctors for all my body parts. Not on purpose just worked out that way. I guess it doesn't matter to me very much.... (read in full...)
I feel sexy in women's underwear, would I be considered a transvestite?
Q. so here go...i am a straight man that loves women....i have no sexual or emotional attraction to men. however I like to ware womens panties and thongs...they make me feel sexy. not into anything else like dresses, though I've tried it. I am ...
A. 31 March 2010: First off the previous response has given you an incorrect definition of a transvestite. Google it. And a lot of straight men prefer to wear ladies underwear and just the underwear. I don't think that makes you a transvestite, Buddy, just someone I ... (read in full...)
I played with fire and I got burned!
Q. I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...
A. 31 March 2010: Just remember, you got blinded but he got blindsided, big difference in my book.... (read in full...)
How did my partner manage to get into so much debt?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together a year and a half and there is an age difference of 32 years (i'm 18 and he's 50) this is not the problem. When we first met he was out to impress me as all guys do but i thought he was different. he is the l...
A. 30 March 2010: You need to find another Sugar-daddy. Make sure you verify his bank accounts before you allow him to wine and dine you, you don't want to feel worthless again now do you?... (read in full...)
I don't know how much more I can take of his sarcastic ways...
Q. Been with my boyfriend for more than a year now, we got along great had so much fun together. he made me the happiest girl alive and i felt so lucky to have him as he did with me. but this past month things have changed, its like everything i do is ...
A. 30 March 2010: I think your relationship has run its course. Dump the guy and start making new friends. ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty for my affair with a married man, ...yet want him to move to my country. What should I do?
Q. i want a couple of months ago to cuba there i met a man which he is married with two kids, we had a affair, I'm going back very soon to see him. i feel like I've falling in love what should i feel very guilty because on top of that his aunt is marry ...
A. 30 March 2010: Yep it's soooo easy for Cubans to get into the US, that's why they risk drowning their entire families in cardboard boats all the time. And that's if the Coast Guard doesn't open fire on them first. Piece of cake.... (read in full...)
How long do you wait until you simply agree to divorce this person and move on with your life?
Q. If your spouse came to you and said they did not want to be married any longer, moved their stuff out of the house and began separation procedings. Months after the initial discussion, this same spouse tells you their feelings have grown platonic, ...
A. 30 March 2010: What country do you live in?... (read in full...)
I played with fire and I got burned!
Q. I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...
A. 30 March 2010: I'm going to save this post and show it to the next person who comes on here wondering whether they should cheat on their partner for "the love of their life" or the one I hate the most their "soulmate". At least your mistake may help prevent others ... (read in full...)
Hurt and betrayed by his text messages to another woman
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 11 years now and on the weekend of my birthday we rented a resort and invited some friends to celebrate. Well when he fell asleep something told me to check his phone and I did. That's when I found out! I h...
A. 30 March 2010: No sweat, Texas is a really big state.... (read in full...)
He says he wont divorce her because I wont put his name on my house
Q. I have been with my partner for 4 years now and we have a 2 year old son that he never wanted, took me to the abortion clinic 11 times but each time i could not go ahead with it because i wanted it and he ended up leaving me but came back. I have ...
A. 30 March 2010: Whoa, hold on here, you didn't mention all the physical abuse. Now I really have to say you need to show him the door. I know it't scary thinking about being alone but what makes you so sure it will be forever? We have a new uncle on the site, check ... (read in full...)
We are throwing my sister a surprise engagement party, but it is the same weekend when I have planned a trip away! What do I do?
Q. I just found out that my sister is getting engaged this weekend. This is also the same weekend that I have a flight booked with my friend to go visit our other friend for the long weekend. I honestly don't know what I should do. My family is ...
A. 30 March 2010: I agree, be there for your sister's happy moment. Your friends will understand.... (read in full...)
Usually I am an all too confident man but this girl has knocked me for six!
Q. This is kind of silly for me, but being an all to confident man, Ive recently ran into a new experience, ive found this hot interesting girl, we started hanging out as she showed up at my next door neighbors house, a freind of a friend, we have been ...
A. 30 March 2010: I think your problem is you've finally found THE girl. Ask her out.... (read in full...)
He says he wont divorce her because I wont put his name on my house
Q. I have been with my partner for 4 years now and we have a 2 year old son that he never wanted, took me to the abortion clinic 11 times but each time i could not go ahead with it because i wanted it and he ended up leaving me but came back. I have ...
A. 30 March 2010: Get him for every penny of child support you can squeeze out of him and then start your life over with a fresh beginning.... (read in full...)
A much older married man says he loves me as well as his wife, how can this be?
Q. hi, i m a 25 yrs old acrective girl,my problem is that i m in love with a married man he is 43 yrs old.he has one child 14 yrs old.and his marrige is also love marrige.he loves her too much,but he saying he loves me too much also how can its ...
A. 30 March 2010: Tell him to go back to his wife, it's over, and mean it. There is no future for you here. Be strong, it's for your own good.... (read in full...)
He says he wont divorce her because I wont put his name on my house
Q. I have been with my partner for 4 years now and we have a 2 year old son that he never wanted, took me to the abortion clinic 11 times but each time i could not go ahead with it because i wanted it and he ended up leaving me but came back. I have ...
A. 30 March 2010: Were you involved in the break up of his marriage?... (read in full...)
Can you give me one good reason why I shouldn't just dump him?
Q. I love this guy with all my heart; he's my first love, and every time I think about us breaking up I just start to cry. We began our relationship online in 2008, but since he and I were both under 18 and living on opposite sides of the country, we ...
A. 30 March 2010: Nope, I can't think of a single reason why you shouldn't dump his @$$.... (read in full...)
He says he's not sexually attracted to me because of my job!
Q. Im not sure what to do i have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years and he tells me loves me but he isnt sure that he is sexually attracted to me anymore because of my job (Escort) he and i have sex on occasions but for the part he just goes ...
A. 29 March 2010: You know I've often wondered whether a gynecologist ever gets numb towards sex after looking a crotches all day long. I know in high school I worked in a bakery one summer, and I've never really cared for doughnuts since. ... (read in full...)
How can we tell my parents about our relationship? Is this a bad idea?
Q. I'm a 16 year old girl and I have fallen for a 20 year old male. He is everything I have looked for in a boy. Just everything about him is just something I dream about. My parents told me they will put him in jail. I told them to give him a chance ...
A. 29 March 2010: The more things change the more things stay the same. Laura, parents today do not worry less about their children. When we set rules and lay down the law to our children, it's not because we want to hurt or upset them, even though in their ... (read in full...)
How can we tell my parents about our relationship? Is this a bad idea?
Q. I'm a 16 year old girl and I have fallen for a 20 year old male. He is everything I have looked for in a boy. Just everything about him is just something I dream about. My parents told me they will put him in jail. I told them to give him a chance ...
A. 29 March 2010: So Laura, you think a 16 year old should lie and sneak around her parent's back?... (read in full...)
How can we tell my parents about our relationship? Is this a bad idea?
Q. I'm a 16 year old girl and I have fallen for a 20 year old male. He is everything I have looked for in a boy. Just everything about him is just something I dream about. My parents told me they will put him in jail. I told them to give him a chance ...
A. 29 March 2010: Sneaking around behind your parents' backs is just going to make matters worse. As anonymous points out, this is no boy we are talking about! If you can't convince your parents to let you see him even under their supervision, then you have no choice ... (read in full...)
Ladies... Fingers in your mouth during "passion". Yes or no?
Q. Lets say you are in the heat of the moment and he is being very passionate during sex..... Do you find it a turn on when your partner puts one or two fingers in your mouth to suck on? Or do you find it a bit weird? Of course, this is all duri...
A. 26 March 2010: I can think of better places for those fingers.... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about the position my baby is in?
Q. 38+ weeks pregnant, saw midwife today she says she wants a second opinion from the hospital as she cant feel babys head in my pelvis and she wouldnt class it as in breach position however it is laying across my stomach.she said baby can come at any ...
A. 26 March 2010: Sorry I don't mean to be mean but come on, anything we tell you really isn't worth a grain of salt. If you are concerned about your baby, talk to a professional.... (read in full...)
Do I believe what this woman said about my husband?
Q. Last night I got a facebook message from a woman that is my husbands ex-wifes friend. I had requested to be friends because I remember her from my hometown and she was a friend incommon with someone else. But it turns out that was a bad decision ...
A. 26 March 2010: Delete her. She's a biased troublemaker.... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about the position my baby is in?
Q. 38+ weeks pregnant, saw midwife today she says she wants a second opinion from the hospital as she cant feel babys head in my pelvis and she wouldnt class it as in breach position however it is laying across my stomach.she said baby can come at any ...
A. 26 March 2010: Kayla why do you persist with these pregnancy questions????Talk to your doctor, midwife, someone who can actually offer an informed medical opinion on all these questions. We are a a random bunch of strangers for crying out loud.... (read in full...)
6 months together and sharing a bed is STILL causing petty arguments. What should I do?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 months now, and from the very start of our relationship we've had problems sharing a bed. I tend to move around a lot when I'm trying to sleep, and it bugs her. I don't blame her, but she tends to lash out ...
A. 26 March 2010: Get separate beds.... (read in full...)
Why would he sleep with men when he loves this girl?
Q. im a girl i have a really good friend and hes a boy. he has been with his girlfriend for a year now, and he recently told me hes sleeping with men behind her back... what i dont understand is he doesnt act gay, look gay, i have known him for ages ...
A. 26 March 2010: He's bi not living a lie.(hey that rhymes) But I certainly hope one that one of gifts he gives her isn't going to be a STD.... (read in full...)
Is it just hormones, or is it reasonable for me to be angry?
Q. I live in a two bedroom apartment with my husband and I'm nine months pregnant. A little over a month ago I asked my husband to clean the second bedroom out so I can clean the carpets and put up the nursery. I even went out and rented a storage unit ...
A. 26 March 2010: Not hormones, a lazy husband. Tell him to get busy or you'll hire someone to do it.... (read in full...)
Burned foreskin, and what do women prefer?
Q. About two months ago I spilled some hot coffee in my lap and I burnt my genitals. Well it was very painful and took some time to heal but it finally healed. The problem I'm having is that I'm not circumcised and my foreskin is very tight. Sex is ...
A. 26 March 2010: Let's see: Keep the flap of skin...painful erections Keep the flap of skin...painful erections Keep the flap of skin...painful erections Keep the flap of skin...painful erections Keep the flap of skin...painful erections
Tough call.... (read in full...)
I don't want to be used, ... but maybe I am using him.
Q. i met this new guy and we hungout for awhile but i realized i didnt really like him. he asked me last night if we could be friends with benefits. im not sure what to do, i hardly ever get attached to guys but then again i dont want to be used. my ex ...
A. 26 March 2010: That's exactly what FWB means: the mutually using of each other's bodies. Totally whacked if you want my opinion and they generally end up very one-sided. ... (read in full...)
How can I spice up a boring sex life?
Q. Hey everyone. Im 19 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and our sex life is getting boring. I thought about a 3some but i dnt think he would go for it and how would u go about that? any advice on how to spice it up would be very ...
A. 25 March 2010: Oh there are lots of people against threesomes, trust me. And I'll bet he's not bored at all.... (read in full...)
My wife wants another child, ..but I am not sure I can cope with her mood swings.
Q. We have a two year old daughter..a bit minnxy..but very independent. trouble is, my wife would like another and although I'm quite keen, my wife does suffer terrible mood swings through period and did suffer extremely when pregnant before and I'm ...
A. 25 March 2010: Convince her to see her doctor I hope she realizes her mood swings can be from hormonal imbalance. Does she even realize she has these mood swings? As far as another baby, each pregnancy is different, she may skate through the next one. ... (read in full...)
Married and dating a married man for 5 years... am I wasting time thinking he will leave his wife when the kids are older?
Q. I met the man that I am currently involved with at my job. I had been married for 8 years and he had been married for 6 at the time we met. (We are both still married to our spouses) We both have children the same age range.(but he is 10 yrs older ...
A. 25 March 2010: And there you have it. Everyone agrees you are being a sucker.... (read in full...)
Her protective mother made up break up. Should I have gone along with this?
Q. I was in a long distance relationship with a girl I never physically met. We was going to meet but something always got in the way. Her mum is very protective of her because she got raped in the past and that's why we haven't met. Her mum says she ...
A. 25 March 2010: How old is she?... (read in full...)
How can I spice up a boring sex life?
Q. Hey everyone. Im 19 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and our sex life is getting boring. I thought about a 3some but i dnt think he would go for it and how would u go about that? any advice on how to spice it up would be very ...
A. 25 March 2010: Why is it people go straight for the 3somes when they want to add a little spice? Every good cook knows you don't go to the cayenne pepper before you try just a pinch of salt. Do it in a different room, with different positions, wearing different ... (read in full...)
I have approved of my wife having an affair. Do you think this will lead to problems in the future?
Q. My wife is having an affair with an older man at work. She started this relationship around 10 months ago. She told me about it 1 month ago. They never had sex yet because she is 8 months preggy. we have talked about her having another man before ...
A. 25 March 2010: Why do you want to share your pregnant wife with another man? What if the other guy decides he wants your wife all to himself? Who's baby is she carrying, I mean after all the affair started 10 months ago when she wasn't pregnant?... (read in full...)
How many partners has he had?
Q. Readers, I have this fascination with each boyfriend i have ever had, to ask about past relationships. with my latest bf i asked him numerous times how many women he has slept with. each time answered is a different number sometimes less and some...
A. 25 March 2010: Drop the subject altogether.... (read in full...)
I'm gay but falling in love with a woman
Q. Hi, I am a gay man. In my life i've never been sexually attracted to a woman, only men. My dilemma i now I think I am in love with a woman. Im not sexually attracted to her but I believe I love her. Is this normal? ...
A. 25 March 2010: Why is that a dilemma? You can be best of friends. But you most likely are SOL if she's looking for some romance. Normal? Who knows and who cares.... (read in full...)
My lecturer's stares are becoming very uncomfortable!
Q. Am 24 and in the university. I have a lecturer that keeps staring at me and at times when he stares at me he starts saying things about himself (things like i dont smoke, drink etc) at times he even miss words. The way he stares at me makes me loss ...
A. 25 March 2010: Don't look at him, just listen.... (read in full...)
I keep dreaming about the lap dance my husband got during his bachelor party and don't know how to heal this hurt.
Q. Hi everyone, I've seen some similar questions to this, but I'd like to get your advice on mine. I've been married three months to a wonderful guy but for most of our relationship, we have been apart from each other. He lives in the US and I,...
A. 25 March 2010: I say learn how to pole dance. It's great exercise and looks like it might be a lot of fun. I'd try it myself if I wasn't so old I might break a hip. Plus it might help to take your mind off this unpleasant memory you keep torturing yourself about.... (read in full...)
Unreasonable???
Q. I need URGENT advice here, Me and and my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years were due to view an apartment this evening which had been planned a few weeks ago. We were hoping to move into this apartment on 24th April, very soon. There has been a lot of ...
A. 25 March 2010: It's very hard to miscarry a baby and then have to watch someone have twins, I can feel your pain with that. But I also think that has clouded you vision and judgement so you do seem rather selfish and unreasonable. You will be making a grave ... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?
Q. my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...
A. 25 March 2010: Don't forget he's the one who knocked her up and left her in the dust, pregnant with his child and alone. She may need some moral support from both YOU and the father. That would be the classy thing to do.... (read in full...)
Unreasonable???
Q. I need URGENT advice here, Me and and my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years were due to view an apartment this evening which had been planned a few weeks ago. We were hoping to move into this apartment on 24th April, very soon. There has been a lot of ...
A. 24 March 2010: I think your boyfriend is really excited about becoming an uncle. See if you can get a rain check on viewing the apartment. You need to remember to pick your battles and not to sweat the small stuff. A new baby is a very big deal to most families. ... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?
Q. my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...
A. 24 March 2010: He is now PERMANENTLY involved with the mother of his son. It is the way it should be. You have no right to insist he cut all contact with her except for emergencies. Of course he was irresponsible for having unprotected sex, and yes he does sound ... (read in full...)
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