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writes:Hi Friends,I have been married for few months now and have a daughter around 1 month old. I've been going to this gym for some time now and think I have fallen for the receptionist at the gym. I think even she likes me. I have not told this girl that I am married.Please help me, I think I am now in love with this girl and want to date her if she accepts hiding the fact that I am married.What do you think will be the consequences if she knows I am married?Need your help guys.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for your time ladies. Is there any guy who has went through the same situation? Would be good to know what he did..
in the meantime I am trying to stop going to this gym.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 March 2010):
 One can only hope Carrot, one can only hope....
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (24 March 2010):
 Eyeswide, I'm starting to think these posts aren't real. I think we're all being played by this guy.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 March 2010):
See? Every time you post this you get the same responses. Admit it, you like the abuse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDear Rabbit,
Seems correct analysis.. yes shes completely shapeless and unattractive after giving birth and I am sure that she will not take any effort to loose weight or look better.
How can I convince her to loose weight and look better?
When I say that she gets angry...
Theres no sex in our relationship since maybe 5 months and I dont feel any love anymore for her.. just love my daughter..
on the other hand the girl at the gym is giving me hints that shes interested, but she doesnt know that I am married..
ohh what a life..why did i get married?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you everyone for your most valuable time to reply.I know the girl is not dating anyone and her frinds are now almost teasing us when we are together..I am getting carried away.On the other hand, my daughter is soo sweet and beautiful, i Luv her soo much...shes my girll.however, my wife is not attractive anymore and also starting a fight with me for no reason..I think shes getting more and more paranoid..Dont know what to do..
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 She will dump you and walk away. Who wants to love a cheater?
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (24 March 2010):
You've already posted on this issue and you've gotten numerous responses about how your actions could impact your family life. Are you hoping that you will get different advice this time? You need to get over your unhealthy and delusional fixation with this girl.
1. She is friendly because it is part of her job. She is not in love with you and you're not in love with her. You are infatuated and you're making this out to be more than it is. For all you know, she has a man at home or is dating several men (or women); what makes you think she wants to be involved with a married man?
2. You are married and you have an infant. Start behaving like a responsible adult. If you want out of your marriage, start working on that rather than disrespecting your wife by cheating on her so soon after giving birth to your child.
3. GO TO A NEW GYM!
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