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writes:hi, well im a 16 year old girl and i have 3 boys im messing with, i haven't had sex with none of them but other stuff... they dont want a relationship with me and neither do i with them.do you think im a slut? Be honest!i just want to know if i sound like one or i am one. i think to myself im not but if i heard someone was like me i would think her a slut, im not proud of myself, i cant really explain how i feel but i just want to know if you think im a slag/slut/hoe ? :( Reply to this Question
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reader, _Katy_Did_  +, writes (25 March 2010):
 If you're even questioning yourself, stop doing what you're doing. It's not other people's opinions that are going to matter in the end on this one. It's going to be how you feel about yourself. So, if you think you could be any of these things, stop. Don't lower your self- estime or do anything that will make you think less of yourself. You want to be proud of who you are.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 March 2010):
Not really. Lots of people do this kind of thing. But you're feeling unsure of it, which means deep down this is not something you want to be doing. So slow down, stop seeing these three guys and wait for the right one instead. You'll feel a lot better about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): Yes.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 March 2010):
 Quit doing things that don't make you proud of yourself and you won't have anything to wory about. "To thine own self be true".
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 I would not call you a slut,hoe, etc ...but you definately make yourself sound like an 'overly friendly' girl.
If you don;t want others to think derogatie things of you tho, I would suggest curbing this tendency and reserving such activity to one guy, .. preferably one you had some sort of commitment or exclusivity with.
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reader, daniellelittle +, writes (24 March 2010):
do they know about each other??
are they ok with just messing around with a girl and with her messing around with others as well??
i think if you answered no to either of them then you should really consider sorting yourself out.
also, if you find someone you do want to be in a relationship with and they want to be in a relationship with you, then you have to stop with these three guys lol
but seeing different guys isn't always a slutty thing to do - it can be a really good way to see what kind of guys you are really interested in
i think i've covered everything... but yh, on the whole no, i don't think your a slut from what you've said :)
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