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writes:hello,I have a question, if a man asks you out on date and the first topic he talks about is polygamy.what would you think! Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 March 2010):
 Yeah I kind of think he might be married too. Are you sure he isn't?
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 ah.. sorry missed your update.. He's an interesting man. His parents divorced he was unhappy, in polygamous marriages there is always someone to turn to as divorce dosen't break the family down. He just wanted to talk about how to create a successful relationship which is never damaging to kids. Seems as if he's interesting and seriously looking for a long term partner. I'd do well with him, unfortunately talking like this to most people makes them think your strange. He has very unusual conversational skills, he dosen't do well in social situations.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (24 March 2010):
I'd think he was an intelligent guy who has some bold ideas. I'd wanna see him again to see if he has other interesting things to say. If however he want's a polygamy thing or an open relationship or anything like that, afraid I'd have to say no, and keep the relationship as friendship only.
I'd prefer a guy to talk about polygamy (something I find interesting) than sports (something I hate)
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 I would hazard a guess and think that he is already married and just preparing you to let you know. Without further information, that is just my guess.
If he is married, or in a serious open relationship...does his wife know about you yet?
-Frank
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 Asian girls are more submissive and docile and polygamy is acceptable as long as the man can take good care of them financially and be fair to all his wives.
In the Muslim religion, they are allowed to marry 4 wives. For other religions or culture, marrying two wives is a crime of bigamy.
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (24 March 2010):
I'd at least think (a) he lacks certain sophistication, and doesn't have a clue what to talk about on the first date; (b) he's not into you and willing to carry on a bizarre conversation to kill the rest of the night or (c) he's really into plural marriage, and wants to make sure that you are too.
So, if it's (b), there will be no second date, if you're not willing to be wife #3 of 7, (i.e. go along w/ (c)) then no date #2, but if you're willing to give him a second chance, see if he's capable of carrying on an adult conversation on another more normal conversation. If he continues on polygamy, the ASK him why it's so important or stimulating...
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (24 March 2010):
Just tell him what you think. You can also find out his character from his answers.
Certain cultures still practice polygamy officially and unofficially.
In a situation where there are more girls than boys, then polygamy maybe encouraged by the state. Like a situation after a war where most of the males are killed off. There are not enough males to go around.
Is he for or against? If he is for , then it is a red flag.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): he said he was interested in knowing my opinion because his parents divorced when he was a kid and it was hard for him so he would like to know if i know any successful experiences
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