Why did he cheat on his wife and take our affair to an emotional level?
Q. I'm trying to understand the situation better. I'm married and I cheat for about a year with another man, who was also married (even though I didn't know at the time). I understand my reasons for cheating (abusive relationship), but I don't ...
A. 10 May 2010: He IS a sad, sorry man with little low hanging fruit. If you can view him like that, you'll feel much better. "low hanging fruit" you gotta hand it to q.... (read in full...)
Men please HELP me!
Q. So for every woman,the universal face of charming, is george clooney. Men that are "smooth" seem to wisk us away and make us go head over heals. For men, who is that? What is smooth for men? what qualities to men find charming in a woman? What ...
A. 7 May 2010: I think "charming" falls into the same catagory as "classy", either you are or you aren't.... (read in full...)
Am I gross? OR was the guy just not nice?
Q. Hi, I recently hooked up with a guy and whilst we were in bed fooling around he took off my pants, then he stopped and was like ew, so I asked what's the problem and he told me "your vagina is gross". I've had my confidence knocked by it my...
A. 5 May 2010: John Shaft? He's a mean mother...Shut your mouth.... (read in full...)
What goes around, comes around. How can I get back at her?
Q. i'm a nice guy, caring and all that, i dont act like a d*ck, i have respect for people i'm modest, you get my point anyway, i recently found out that my girlfriend has kissed some other boy anyway, you know that song, "what goes around comes around" ...
A. 5 May 2010: Aw come on, salt in the sugar bowl is really funny and you know it Puzzle.... (read in full...)
Ideas of what to do in bed?
Q. i have this friend i have know forever we went to school together. We lost touch after high school and have reconected again. She is happily married and I am divorced. She is in an open marriage and I have been with her husband several times. Once ...
A. 5 May 2010: I'll check the DC Manual and get back to you.... (read in full...)
Can it be possible to be pregnant even though I am on the pill?
Q. I am 22, I need help. I am on pills and me and my Bf make love almost everyday. My periods finished on sunday. Since then i have been sick. I can smell food at all. I throw out evrything i eat. I am scared i might be pregnant. can that be possible. ...
A. 5 May 2010: If you are talking last Sunday, there's no way, even if you are pregnant, that you would be having any symptoms so soon. I'm thinking you just caught some kind of stomach bug.... (read in full...)
What can I do to help my sister in her unhappy marriage?
Q. Hi, i sincerely need your help. Its concerning my eldest sister, she's been married for almost 2years now, but marriage for her has been hell. On several occasions due to quarrels, he throws her belongings outside and changes the locks of the house, ...
A. 5 May 2010: Bruce, when you put your cursor over the flag its name pops up.... (read in full...)
How a gay can move when he is madly in love to a straight guy?
Q. I was in love to a straight guy, who just being nice to me, and treats me a friend only, but he is sweet and caring to me. I wan't to move on, how can i forget him?...
A. 5 May 2010: My you've been a busy boy posting today haven't you?! As far as this post is concerned, You just need to tell yourself it just wasn't meant to be, over and over again.... (read in full...)
I'm gay, but I'm too girlish when it comes to love..any advice
Q. *OP`s own title* I am a 18 years old gay and I want to have a relationship. The problem is that I got turn off to a guy when i found out he's gay, specially i can easily detect a guy who is gay...the thing is that, I have so girlish attitude...
A. 5 May 2010: Definitely too confusing. I think you need to find a "gay coach", you know someone who's gay and can show you the ropes so to speak.... (read in full...)
What goes around, comes around. How can I get back at her?
Q. i'm a nice guy, caring and all that, i dont act like a d*ck, i have respect for people i'm modest, you get my point anyway, i recently found out that my girlfriend has kissed some other boy anyway, you know that song, "what goes around comes around" ...
A. 5 May 2010: Put salt in her sugar bowl.... (read in full...)
Why did he cheat on his wife and take our affair to an emotional level?
Q. I'm trying to understand the situation better. I'm married and I cheat for about a year with another man, who was also married (even though I didn't know at the time). I understand my reasons for cheating (abusive relationship), but I don't ...
A. 5 May 2010: Why are you tormenting yourself over this? What does it matter why and what he was thinking? It's over. Time to get your life straightened out.... (read in full...)
Implant is making sex unenjoyable!
Q. Hi I have had the implanton in my left are for 8 months and I thought it would be a great type of protection except well I've lost all feeling down below and I mean everthing!:( oral feels lik nothing to me and I can't feel him inside me wit condoms ...
A. 5 May 2010: Your doctor is violating his oath and your rights, your visits are your business and only your business, sue this quack then get another doctor.... (read in full...)
B/f thinks he's bisexual! What does this mean for us?
Q. Me and boyfriend recently broke-up because of the fact that he thinks he might be bi-sexual. We dated for a year and he was my high school sweetheart, he says that he's been physically and emotionally sick since the breakup but reassures me that ...
A. 5 May 2010: I don't think you should wait around for him. Go on with your life, hang out with friends, go on dates, just enjoy your youth. I hope he realizes that his bisexuality doesn't mean he can have a boyfriend and a girl simultaneously, cause it doesn't ... (read in full...)
What have I done to be totally ostracised and ignored so blatantly?
Q. Decision Junction - with zero signposts. Dear Cupid, I very rarely ask for help which I suppose is a terrible weakness really, but here I am, willing to share my problem with some genuine and caring people because, frankly, I'm totally baf...
A. 5 May 2010: I don't see anything else you can do but "let it go". Friends come and go in life. Even if you felt more than friendship for the guy, you still have no choice but to get busy with your own life and try to put this relationship behind you. ... (read in full...)
I need help with my Sex addiction!
Q. I'm addicted to sex: how do I get over sex?...
A. 5 May 2010: First, how do you know you are addicted versus just liking it A LOT?... (read in full...)
Why did he cheat on his wife and take our affair to an emotional level?
Q. I'm trying to understand the situation better. I'm married and I cheat for about a year with another man, who was also married (even though I didn't know at the time). I understand my reasons for cheating (abusive relationship), but I don't ...
A. 5 May 2010: I'm glad it's over with the married guy. Now you can divorce that abusive husband and start your life over again. Don't dwell on the past, look towards the future.... (read in full...)
Am I gross? OR was the guy just not nice?
Q. Hi, I recently hooked up with a guy and whilst we were in bed fooling around he took off my pants, then he stopped and was like ew, so I asked what's the problem and he told me "your vagina is gross". I've had my confidence knocked by it my...
A. 5 May 2010: You know, I don't think I could pick mine out of a line up. I guess what it looks like doesn't carry any importance for me. ... (read in full...)
Men: what do you think? What am I doing wrong?
Q. I really am at the point of I don't know what to do. I am 25. I just got out of school about a year ago and now have a really good job and everything I could ever want financially. The problem is I really would like a boyfriend. I was home ...
A. 5 May 2010: I know this is addressed to men but I'd like to add my two cents. I think since you are only 25 you need to relax. The right guy will come along, stay busy and visible. As long as you don't hole up in your home, you'll stumble into love sooner or ... (read in full...)
What the hell!
Q. What to think? ...been together 4 yrs, having a crazy day and I was just getting ready for bed and he knows I have had a pinched nerve for a couple of days - I just asked him kindly could you please rub my neck for a few minutes and he says sorr...
A. 5 May 2010: I'd get an electric heating pad if I were you, they work great on pinched nerves.... (read in full...)
We fight every time husband's ex wife calls!
Q. I am having an issue with my husband's ex wife. They have kids together and I understand that they have to talk about the children. I don't like the fact that she calls him at work and he calls her from work or when she calls him at home, he does it ...
A. 4 May 2010: I guess you should have cleared all this up before you married the guy. Did he want the divorce or did she? You weren't the cause were you? It sounds like your self-esteem is on the low side. He's your husband now so that's going to have to suffice ... (read in full...)
Now he wants to leave a change of clothes at my house! What does this mean?
Q. Been involved with a man now for more than 3 yrs and just recently when he came over to see me asked if he could leave a change of clothes at my house and even asked me if would wash them for him. This something totally out of the blue because the...
A. 4 May 2010: If it took you guys three years to reach the "will you wash my underwear stage" I think something's out of whack. What's the deal?... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to say no regarding this job?
Q. My husband wants to work for a taxi company and I won't allow him. I told him to find a different job because when he was with his first wife he worked for a taxi company he liked a female driver. He would buy her things, follow her a lot but not ...
A. 4 May 2010: Key word there mr. q was "unless".... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to say no regarding this job?
Q. My husband wants to work for a taxi company and I won't allow him. I told him to find a different job because when he was with his first wife he worked for a taxi company he liked a female driver. He would buy her things, follow her a lot but not ...
A. 4 May 2010: Rambini is right, unless he gets a job in a monastery, he's going to run into women at any work place. You need to work on that trust issue or you will be miserable every day he goes to work. He cheated on his first wife but did he ever cheat on ... (read in full...)
How can you make the jump from being friends, to more than friends?
Q. I have got a friend that I like a lot, and I know she hasn't got a boyfriend! Can I have some ideas please on how to make the jump from being a friend to being more than friends?...
A. 4 May 2010: Ask her out on a date. Show up with flowers. She'll figure it out.... (read in full...)
I am very jealous of other women around my boyfriend but I am curious about having a threesome! Would it be a bad idea?
Q. So iv been with my bf for 4 years we have a beautiful son and a really strong connection. were completely in love. Now about ME I am a super jealous babymomma. i have suspicions of somethings i think he might have done while i was pregnant but ...
A. 4 May 2010: Don't go there, sister. You definitely aren't wired for it. Threesomes can go horribly wrong even for people who enter into one with no reservations whatsoever. You already have them.... (read in full...)
Girls: what pet names do you like?
Q. So, I just started dating this girl and we've been texting a lot. I've called her "cute" a lot. I've called past girlfriends "beautiful" and I know they like that, but it feels like just using those two words isn't enough. I mean, it would get rep...
A. 4 May 2010: Just call me when dinner's ready.... (read in full...)
Men please HELP me!
Q. So for every woman,the universal face of charming, is george clooney. Men that are "smooth" seem to wisk us away and make us go head over heals. For men, who is that? What is smooth for men? what qualities to men find charming in a woman? What ...
A. 4 May 2010: I agree with Bruce why are asking this generic question? What's your motivation?... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend cheating?
Q. ive been going out with this girl 2 and half yrs now.. love her to death.. but for some reason.. i really want to trust her but than i cant.. our sex part was great before but now its like i have to ask her for it.. and sometime i feel i force her ...
A. 3 May 2010: I bow to your superior dicking knowledge.... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend cheating?
Q. ive been going out with this girl 2 and half yrs now.. love her to death.. but for some reason.. i really want to trust her but than i cant.. our sex part was great before but now its like i have to ask her for it.. and sometime i feel i force her ...
A. 3 May 2010: She could be dicking the entire Dallas Cowboy team and her "skin" wouldn't loosen. I think you are just letting your imagination run away with you. But if you aren't happy it's time to leave, it's not as if you are married or anything.... (read in full...)
We fight, I forget about it, but he doesn't!
Q. i need all the help i can!! my boyfriend and i fight all the time! i mean all the time! but i love him very very very much, and i know he loves me as much as i do, and even more. but we are fighting all the time,and we fight about stupid silly th...
A. 3 May 2010: Are either one or both of you a drama queen? ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and like a 14 year old!
Q. I am 18 and I think I am starting to like a guy who is 4 years younger than me. I know it is wrong, but I don't know what to do about it. Please help me...
A. 3 May 2010: Reign it in there, sister. He's a child. If you don't know what to do about it, his parents and law enforcement will.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel this happy?
Q. I'm 19 and I just had a general question. I have been good friends with my now current boyfriend for a few years. We have been dating for almost a month. I have never smiled so much in life, I feel like I'm glowing from the inside out and whenever I ...
A. 3 May 2010: You are normal and are very fortunate. Smiling won't break your face.... (read in full...)
I'm secretly seeing my ex and falling in love with him again
Q. i am in a relationship wih this guy and i really like him we started dating after me and my ex broke up because my ex cheated on me and had 2 kids by 2 different girls during our relationship. the only thing is i have been secrectly seeing my ex ...
A. 3 May 2010: How many times did you have to touch a hot stove before you realized it would burn you?... (read in full...)
We've been dating for 4 months, he says he loves both me and his wife and now she's coming back!
Q. Hi there! i have a serious problem here. i met this guy in december 2009, he told me his wife has left him for 14 months, then we started dating, now were are so emotional involved he just told me a week ago that the wife is coming back from ...
A. 3 May 2010: No confusion, you are either willing to be sloppy seconds or you are not. Your choice your life.... (read in full...)
Has anyone got any tips on how to get your boyfriend really horny?
Q. So, i'm a virgin and my boyfriends not. i know it's usually the other way around and all, but not in this situation. he's ate me out, fingered me, and we dryhump all the time. the thing is, i wanna make him really horny. what are some really good ...
A. 30 April 2010: I'm betting you aren't really 22-25 years old. ... (read in full...)
How can one be so cruel?
Q. I have been going over and over this situation if you can call it that in my head for 3 days now and my head is hurting as much as my heart/feelings. I was dating a 40yr old guy with 2 grown up sons for a month. He made a big point of waiting...
A. 28 April 2010: "A sniveling, limp-dicked, wishy-washy, lily-livered, quivering mass of of flawed humanity." Man that was even better than "lurking sperm"! ... (read in full...)
How can one be so cruel?
Q. I have been going over and over this situation if you can call it that in my head for 3 days now and my head is hurting as much as my heart/feelings. I was dating a 40yr old guy with 2 grown up sons for a month. He made a big point of waiting...
A. 28 April 2010: Look at the bright side,you only wasted a month. Pick yourself up and dust yourself off, the next guy most likely won't be such an insensitive jerk.... (read in full...)
Been in this relationship for six years and have a yen for a no-strings fling
Q. I think about having sex with another man but ive been in a relationship for almost 6 years is that normal? Its not like I don't love my Husband I just want to feel new dick with no strings....
A. 28 April 2010: a dick with no strings...is it self adhesive?... (read in full...)
Should I do as my separated husband wishes?
Q. I been separated for nearly an year.This guy that Ive been seeing decides to call my husband. His intention was to find out what was going on between my husband and I. Well my husband told him that we were gettting back together and that I was ...
A. 27 April 2010: I think there are three people who need to step back and realize exactly how messed up they are. You can't possibly be thinking straight to be with either of these losers. You aren't in high school any longer and for crying out loud you have a child ... (read in full...)
Are his looks lustful or appreciative?
Q. what kind of looks indicate that a man is looking at a women lustfully..? if he finds a girl pretty and looks back to her several times does it show he s lusting her or just attracted to her beauty..? please help.....
A. 23 April 2010: Seema, you've posted a couple questions about your husband looking at women. I believe you said the first glance is understandable but it is the second glance that hurts your feelings. I suggest, along with the other aunts on your other post, you ... (read in full...)
Is this heavy petting and will it lead to sex?
Q. My boyfriend whom i have been together for 2 months want to touch my breast and vagina when we are french kissing. Should I allow him to do that? Is that considered heavy petting and if I agreed to it will that be leading him on to sex?...
A. 22 April 2010: and don't fall for the blue balls story once you tell him "no", that's a crock.... (read in full...)
I want to share my wife with my friends! How do I ask her?
Q. dear cupid: i am stuipd?? i want to share my wife with friends? it truns me on to think about it. how should i ask her?? do wives enjoy to be pass around to your frieds??...
A. 20 April 2010: what are the gators eating?... (read in full...)
Psychotic guy...
Q. Dear Cupid, This is the biggest lesson happened to my life. I am single mom with two beautiful kids and leaving with my married partner for 9 years now. I never been happy in my life as I always fall with a married man. I left the father of m...
A. 20 April 2010: Keep a nickel between those knees and keep your mitts off married men. Then wait for time to clear up your record.... (read in full...)
I want to share my wife with my friends! How do I ask her?
Q. dear cupid: i am stuipd?? i want to share my wife with friends? it truns me on to think about it. how should i ask her?? do wives enjoy to be pass around to your frieds??...
A. 20 April 2010: You pass the salt, the butter, gas, but not your wife. Grow up Dickie.... (read in full...)
29 and never been kissed!
Q. can you help me please in the 3rd time i have treid to post question.i need some one help. i never got my first kiss and would like some help please. 1)how do i get a guy to kiss me is any i can do it. 2)how is done?like what do you do? ...
A. 20 April 2010: Please tell me you clicked the wrong age bracket.... (read in full...)
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